4 Dazzling Ways to Reboot Your Mind

In my recent TV interview with Zërijeta Jajaga for her show @Open I was asked:

Why would people not want to invest in the greatest asset -you? What is it that holds people back to have a coach or a mentor? What can coaches do for you?

There are many reasons why people may not use a coach. Some to mention are having lack of financial resources, not having personal development high on their highest values, time rstrictions, and in many cases simply not knowing what a great life coach can do for them.

I went on to explain to her audience that a Life Coach is someone who through powerful questioning is ale to be the mirror the client needs to reflect back at themselves the clarity, certainty, and credibility needed to make better life choices, decisions, and create the healthy habits designed to create their dream life.

Throughout centuries the greatest rulers of all times used trusted advisers to help them direct their kingdom and win wars. In the recent real life coaching Hollywood and Los Angeles Award Winning documentary “Living My Illusion,” that I co-created with my elite coaching clients Joel and Timea Van der Molen, it highlights how having a coach it is not a new age thing. In contrary, it is the advisory services of the great philosopher Aristotle that helped the world-conqueror Alexander the Great win battles and conquer new lands.

Since a very young age I was extremely curious to know more about what makes some people extremely successful, legendary and iconic. Why is it that the majority of people in the world, the 99% per-centers cannot have what the so called 1% per-centers already had and continue to have?

Back then little I knew that one day I will have the opportunity to meet someone who is a Billionaire and find out from them what is it they think, belief and do to create an unprecedented success.

If like me, you were born to a middle class working family, you may have heard so many different beliefs about money and wealthy people. The ones that stayed with me for very long times were “money is root cause of all evil, no matter what you do, you will never be rich, money does not grow in trees, and you have to work very hard to make money.” These are only just few that I listed, in the actual fact, I could write an entire book about the many beliefs I was taught from a very young age by family members, at school, friends, religious scholars and in the environment I grew up in.

When we were growing up, many of us knew very little about the power our beliefs have in creating the reality in which we live in. By the time we start to work and earn our living we have already created many powerful beliefs about what money is or is not.

I remember back in 2009 when I was made redundant my capacity to earn money was limited by my own beliefs about how much I could earn and the injected values of others. Back then this limit was set to a maximum of £120 k for someone like me who had graduated from UCL, one of the top four universities in UK, had twelve years of experience, and was capable of running and managing multi-million-billion pounds of IT budgets and programs.

It is during this time that I experienced an epiphany that made me write down two hundred beliefs I had about money. What came out was shocking, when I questioned the validity of each of the beliefs I so strongly held dear to my heart, I realized none of them had any truth behind.

A weight was lifted off, now I was free to think bigger and truly pursue my hearts calling to help people globally heal, accelerate their human potential, and give them tool to help them become leaders of their lives. What I noticed was that the more people I started to serve, the more money I was attracting and all I had to do is find ways to reach out to more people.

This lead me to writing two books A Path to Wisdom and newly published book #Loneliness, which within months became number one best-selling and award-winning books. I started to receive e-mails and client requests from people from all around the world. Suddenly, my capacity to earn doubled and with time it tripled and quadrupled.

Somehow everything I did up to now put me on a path to meet few Billionaires that became personal friends, teachers and later on my clients. It was my dream since a very young child to unravel the secrets that the 1% have and share them with a wider audience so that I can help more people be more successful and lead prosperous lives.

I replaced my old beliefs with new ones and in the process I started to attract people and opportunities never thought possible before. I realized that to live eternally in people’s hearts, minds and thoughts is to illuminate my being so that where ever I go I leave behind a fragrance of love that people can breathe into their hearts.

The boundaries we are taught to put with the outer world are our Ego’s attempt to dim the infinite light radiating from our grateful heart. The light required to put the key on a lock that opens up the safety box of a universal bank account that enables you to create and withdraw infinite amount of wealth.

This is the moment I realized the power that Gratitude, Love and serving more people authentically are the key factors in attaining perfect health, wealth and happiness into our life. When we come from a place of sincere gratitude our energy is one of acceptance, empathy and harmony that brings about the greatest miracles and the right people that we can be of service.

We are a product of an intelligent design, yet we are constantly reminded that we are not. Purifying our inner world from the lifelong conditioning, one-sided perceptions, and limiting beliefs that pollute our true essence is what can help us move towards crowd nurtured world peace and the next stages in our evolution

In my latest award-winning book #Loneliness-The Virus of The Modern Age, I talk about why polarized way of thinking, feeling and being is the reason which prevents you from turning thoughts into matter, ideas into things, and emotions into relationships.

When we come from a place of emotional unbalance we destroy our self-worth therefore we attract less opportunities, money and people in our lives that can help us accelerate our growth. Balanced mind together with clear strategy is what attracts and creates wealth, health, and all that our heart desires.

The truth is, It is only when we are in our hearts that we can connect to the flow of this universal energy we call love, the energy that is the cure to illness and the driving force for the survival of our bio diversity.

Whether you know it or not, in the moment of your greatest inspiration you are in sync with all that is and it is in moments like this you become extremely clear on how to resolve more problems for more people.

Thank you for your time and reading this article, if you liked it, please share it and help others learn, grow, and attract more wealth and opportunities.

I trust it inspired you to think deeper, and observe the world with a new pair of glasses that help you in your personal, professional, financial, business, or relationship growth.

Get in touch if I can be of service to help you or your company in creating the outcomes, the clarity, and the plan required to deliver astronomical visions.

Be authentic, wealthy, and healthy,

Tony J. Selimi

The See-Through Coach

Drinking good fresh made green juice that my very dear friend Farhan kindly brought over for me last night and listening to my heart’s calling as I write this message to you.

The first hints of Spring fill the air. The sun is shining, the trees are smiling, and the parks are filling with color. As I look from the window I see a pigeon resting on a tree branch, enjoying the warmth of the sun, and despite the occasional wind blowing, it remaining its perfect balance, calmness, and stillness. As if the pigeon was there just for me, observing me, keeping me company, and reminding me of the importance of silence and the tranquillity I get each morning when I meditate.

And this new season brings with it gifts, blessings and opportunities… but, don’t be fooled, they do not just come to you because of some Universal Law, anything you are experiencing is a result of your own making. You are a creator of your life, imagine who would you be if you knew this wisdom at a very young age, you were empowered, inspired, and nurtured to remain in your flow.

In my thinking, we’re on the beginning of this year. Just a few months left to go before the summer, this is a great opportunity to re-asses, rethink, and re-plan your lives.

It is what I did in the last three days with the world renowned human behavioural specialist Dr John Demartini. Having spent last 25 years taking my life from living on the streets, working in cafes, bars, restaurants, retail shops, to building a very successful IT career and then becoming an Elite Life Coach, Best Selling Author and a heart centred Entrepreneur, I know what it takes to become a Global inspired teacher that John is.

After attending The Break Through Experience, seeing the results, and the shifts I experienced in two long days, I knew it unlocked the parts of my consciousness that despite the experiences, the knowledge, and the wisdom accrued kept me in the prison of my own creation.

I finally left the corporate world in 2011, since then, I have delivered over 25,000 coaching hours, run over 20 workshops, and assisted so many people from all walks of life in UK and Internationally resolve many spiritual, mental, physical, emotional, relationship, financial, business and love challenges.

I completed my business accelerator program called KPI-Become a Key Person of Influence run by Darshana Ubl and Daniel Priestley and published my book A Path to Wisdom: How to live a balanced, healthy and peaceful life. Within six months it became a best seller and started to recieve thank you messages from so many souls around the world.

I knew I had transcended the many teachers and coaches I had worked so far as some of them started to become my private clients. Having done most of the Anthony Robbins courses, attended few of his events, learning many healing disciplines, my vision of who I am and what I am here to do kept expanding exponentially.

Before attending The Break Through Experience, I saw many of the John’s talks on many YouTube videos. I spent years learning many disciplines to help me in my spirit guided mission to be of a Global service to humanity. One night, I meditated, entered a deep space of stillness, and in that moment the my heart told me that to realize my big vision I must meet with this man and study his work.

So I did, back then, with no job in sight, I did not have the finances to pay for it, I remember after his talk my friend Daniel and I approached him to see if we could get a discount if we signed up together. He said kindly but firmly no, I knew in that moment that this man means not only business, but also he values himself, is extremly wise, knowledgeable, and devoted his life to help humanity, he was on the same call that my heart was very familiar with.

A call that has been with me since I can remember and one that would not leave me alone until I listened and honoured it. I went outside, approached his team of assistants, gave them my Virgin American Express Card that I keep for rainy days and booked the course.

Looking back, it turned out to be one of the best decision I made. A decision that lead to many opportunities, to giving myself permission to shine, be more, and achieve more. With all of my personal or business clients I now bring additional tools, wisdom, and knowledge that add tremendous value to thier lives. Learnign from John has helped me in all spheres of my Life, in my writings, and in my inspired heart driven mission.

Remember, deep inside your mind, heart and soul, you too have an inspired purpose, dream, vision and calling, that you would love to bring into reality and to the world. But if you are like me, while you are evolving along the journey of creating your dream, you occasionally run into mental, emotional, or physical roadblocks.

These roadblocks or hindering states of challenge or chaos can arise from not having your life organized and prioritized in such a manner that you have assisted yourself in attaining or fulfilling your desired mission. The Master Planning for Life – Life Organizer three day weekend with Dr John Demartini. is a well worth investment. It assisted me in clarifying even more the visions that I see every time I am in that space of stillness. It was also a great confidence boost to share that vision with John and pick his brains to clarify certain aspects of it.

I know from personal expereince it will help you too fulfil what is truly most important to your body, mind, heart and soul. I now look forward to attending The Prophecy Experience and continue to learn and be more to everyone I serve.

…excellent if you started strong in life and have all of your needs met. But if like me you went through all the struggles, you will know that what makes mastery is how wow you END it…

And the best way to predict how you’ll finish this year within the epic we call your life are the choices you’ll make today.

So, with great respect and encouragement I ask you…on this fine day, will you…

• Listen in silence to your hearts calling so you’re amped and on fire with energy?

Protect your focus and just concentrate monomaniacally on purely what matters?

Dig deep when it’s hard and deliver when it’s tough?

Aim for legendary, hold yourself to Dr Demartini’s-Level standards and reach for the highest in everything you do?

Think highest thoughts and speak good words?

Be radically helpful, acutely of use to other humans and walk with love in your heart?

And–TODAY–will you learn something new, will you be grateful for what you have, will you acknowledge who you are?…

…you’re smart, strong and talented…so you get that all it takes are a few fresh insights, practiced consistently over time, to completely change the direction of your life. Forever…

…a massive commitment to learning and a love of knowledge is a game-changer…because as you know more you can achieve more. It is for this reason that I created TJS Evolutionary Method that I now use in my day to day helping clients resolve personal, business, health, emotional, love, or spiritual life challenges.

…people who have read the book, done the exercises were stunned by the wealth of value, original insights and raised their vibration required for you to unlock your magnificent selves. Some now are personal clients that are like to continue with their personal, professional, and spiritual development to quench thier thirst for wisdom, for love, and for shining their inner light.

…in case you missed it, here is the link where you can download it now by clicking HERE or you can also get a signed hard copy directly from me.

…if you want to know what your true calling is, daily meditation can help, here is a heart centering meditation that you can do daily, download this meditation and let it take you on an inner journey to create inner stillness that is needed for you to listen to your hearts voice. Let me take this opportunity to say a big thank you to my vocal coach Anthony Wade who’s speaker and vocal training has been extremly valueable in creating these meditations that help you increase your vibration and elevate your inner being. To expereince the magic that Anthony Wade brings into my life, I highly recommend to book yourself in one of his Immersion Days, you can do so by clicking HERE.

Hope all this information I’ve worked countless hours to create for you whilst watching the pigeon outside my window peacefully meditating is fuelling your inspiration, productivity, happiness and contribution to the construction of a better world.

I’m here to help, serve, and inspire. Make that call and listen to your soul.

Your light soul partner, I Love you and thank you. ,

Tony J Selimi,

Elite Life Coaching for Inspired Living.,

We are born into an environment in which we learn to resist. Through years of conditioning we develop many coping mechanisms to protect ourselves.

We are conditioned to believe in things that were passed on through generations and in most cases most of us when we become adults we create an identity that is so far from the one we were born.

As we experience this separation from the light being we were born to be, we start to seek perfection, subordinate to other peoples values and become uncomfortable with the person we have become.

To search for a more perfect version of yourself is futile. To have gratitude for who you are as you are is wiser. Since I was a kid I observed that those who count their blessings and are grateful, have more to be grateful for. This is a simple principle and yet it has the power to change your life.

We are built on universal principles and the universe behaves like us on a grander scale. Let’s look at a real example that most of us have encountered in our day to day life. If you were to give someone a gift and they just looked at it and then tossed it aside without thanks, would you be inclined to give them another?

Of course not and through the Law of Attraction universe responds in the same manner. The universe bestows its gifts where they are most appreciated. If you’re not grateful for who you are and what you’ve been given, why would the universe want to give you more?

True gratitude is a quiet state of poise and inner calm where you are truly thankful, where you sense the divine order and wouldn’t want anything about you or your life to change. It arises when you are truly thankful for what has already been given.

With this type of thanksgiving you recognize the order and perfection of what is. As a result you receive ever more of life’s gifts. The more i became grateful, the more the universe started to send me things to be grateful for.

Here are five tips on how you can experience more gratitude.

• Say ‘Thank you and I Love You’ – Observe people who say this how much love they generate. Frankly, there is no limit to how many times you can thank a person, including yourself, and while it may only be two simple words, their meaning is universal and their effects can be profound.
• Write letters about things you are grateful for – Sometimes our best thoughts and ideas are those we do not try to edit, so let the message you write come to you in the moment. There is no need for the words to make sense to anyone else but the person it is intended for.
• Give Yourself a Treat – The greatest relationship we will ever have is with ourselves and it’s wise to take the time to show ourselves that we are grateful for who we are and what we choose to be. How you treat yourself all depends on what you like, for some there would be nothing better than a treatment at their favourite spa, for others it’s a new computer.
• Smile – Have you noticed that when you smile it is impossible to be sad. A smile can be contagious if it comes from the heart and often tells a person so much more than what words can say. Giving the gift of a smile can be a great way to show you are grateful.
• Give a gift that counts – We all love to give and to receive. The power of a gift when it comes to being a token of gratitude is ultimately the thought that goes into it. Start with yourself, take the time to really look at who the gift is intended for and what they value most in life. Everyone wants to be loved and appreciated for who they are.

I hope that i have inspired you to let go seeking perfection and accept the divine being you already are. Start your day with living through gratitude and see how after about three months of daily practice will awaken your heart and balance your emotions allowing you to become inspired and enthused by your life as it is.

If you have been inspired and ready to deal with the voice of perfection, get in touch to book your Clarity Coaching Consultation and start your journey to living in gratitude.

…I’m here to help, coach, develop and inspire you in your pathway to wisdom …over the long run.

So together we get you to your finest life. You just deserve no less than enjoying your best.

P.S. VERY IMPORTANT…

…Congratulations to everyone who downloaded my Awaken and Open Your Heart Meditation, do this meditation daily to live from grattitude and awaken your natural healing abilities….

To download and use this guided meditation to tap into your heart space and center your inner self by helping you connect to the source of your awareness in its purest form click HERE!

Release tensions, any disharmony in your body, and heal any parts of your body with healing white light and the healing power of your heart.

Some that i personaly coach have rewired their mindset for deep gratitude, daily happiness and their finest health of their lives. The success stories still pour in…

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With much love, respect and appreciation,

Tony J Selimi

Elite Life and Business Success Coach, Mentor, Healer and Author.

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I love you and thank you for helping me with my mission to reach, inspire and touch the lives of more than 10 Million people by end of this year.