What thoughts go through your mind when you hear the word “coma”? Do you joke about it, or do you take it seriously? At difficult times in your life, do you find yourself asking the question why am I in this situation?

If the answer is YES, then you are ready to wake-up your truth, from living an illusion and being in a “technological coma” that is stripping you off your true identity, your freedom, happiness, and most importantly the time you have left in this world.

Truth is, for many of you, the word “coma” is associated with someone who has had some kind of accident or life-threatening illness that stops them from responding to any outside stimulus such as touch, voices, other sounds, or any sort of activity going on nearby. Some of you may even jokingly use the word “coma” to describe people who don’t pay attention, are sleeping deeply, or not fulfilling their true potential.

But the kind of “coma2 I am talking about has nothing to do with effects of a physical injury. It has to do with:

The psychological, behavioural, and habitual changes that are happening at a speed of light due to rapid social, technological, and economic advancements are forcing many of us to be glued and married to our phones, ipads, and countless applications designed to rob us off or priceless time and give us an instant dopamine fix.

Recall the last situation that you were in. Where you on a date, with a friend having dinner, in a social gathering, family event, or at an important meeting at work? Now, see if you can recall how many times did you or the people you were with checked and did some kind of activity on their phones?

Do you or did anyone you were with took the time to switch-off from technology and the associated applications that increase your cortisol levels thus inducing more stress and anxiety in your life?

Did you know that by not doing so, the message you are subconsciously sending to the other person when you constantly check your phone for facebook updates, what’s up messages and Instagram likes is that of “ I have something more important to do, I value something else, I don’t value your time, etc.” The bottom line is, the other person may come to their own conclusion that being with you is a total waste of time and you don’t truly value their time and them.

Perhaps you have a friend who on moments notice cancels that movie-date, exhibition you were looking forward to seeing, or simply catching with them over a coffee and decides to honour another engagement. If you do, then you may want to look deeper within you the reasons this person is still in your life.

Over time I have let go many people whose behaviours and values were different to mines and the kind of meaningful, trustworthy and loving relationship I love enjoying in my daily life.

The countless dopamine fix behaviours we have developed are not only destroying the social fabric of a healthy society, business success and the relationships we have built over a lifetime, but they are also fuelling the global problems that mankind is facing and is looking to solve.

Some to mention are the threat of terrorist attacks, extremism, extreme levels of poverty, unfair wealth distribution, the spread of HIV/AIDS and other infectious diseases, supply of clean water, providing universal primary, secondary, and university education, managing cultural, generational and gender differences, dealing with high divorce rates and instilling the morals and ethics in the “millennials” that may save humanity from destroying itself.

In my multi-award winning book # Loneliness, I call this new phenomenon, the virus of the modern age. If not caught, stopped, and cleaned in the now, it will continue to spread globally at uncontrollable rates infecting everyone with behaviours, beliefs, and actions that may take mankind into an irreversible trajectory of self-destruction.

This new gold rush for dopamine fix is also affecting every family, every relationship, and every business across the world. Many business leaders and CEO’s that seek my help to address various personal, leadership and people problems felt that many of their workers are asleep.

Some event felt that the “millennials” are to blame because they are a generation of entitlement, narcissist, self-focused, and lazy people. Unless this problem is addressed and alleviated in the now, many people will lose their jobs, some businesses will stop to exist, and those who survive will deploy Artificial Intelligence (AI).

Perhaps now is the time to wake-up humanity from this coma that pushes us to seek friendship in social networks with people we never met, create and buy AI pets, sex, sales, police and soldier robots to satisfy our endless needs.

Recently I gave a TEDx talk titled “Technological Armageddon: A Wake-Up Call” based from a chapter in my book #Loneliness that so far hundred thousands of people have watched and shared it across various social media channels. In a nutshell, this talk is a global call for us to remember what makes us human being and not human doings that we are more and more forced to become.

It’s a brand new year, and you know that you have the light bulb within you to create anything you desire!

How does a year filled with more peace, love, joy, abundance, and wellbeing sound to you?

What if you could gain access to tools and information proven to help connect with your spirit, bust through your blocks, let go of fear, and live a more elevated life?

Imagine a life free of limitations, full of opportunities and overflowing with abundance, healing and wellbeing where struggles with relationships, health, weight, money or career are at a minimum, and love, freedom and happiness are part of your everyday experience.

It may sound too good to be true, but I assure you living this way IS possible. Whether this year you are looking to re-train your mind, earn more money, start your business, heal your body, connect with your spirit, discover your soul purpose or access your intuition, what I am about to share with you has something for you!

The first five things you need to do in 2015 is…

1. Get Yourself a Coach

2. Become clear of the outcomes, the goals and the impact you want to make.

3. Establish a clear game plan.

4. Learn the Body, Mind, Spirit Rules of the game you want to play

5. Become persistent by committing to seeing it through to the end.

THE FACT IS…

It’s irresponsible to start 2015 unfocused, unprepared, and uncommitted. It is the same as wanting to go on holiday but never booking a ticket. Yet, that is going to be the reality for far too many.

But it does not have to be that way for you. If you want to make big things happen in 2015, then check out the following insights that I use to help all of my clients achieve extraordinary results.

It all starts with these 23 lessons–the BEST lessons I’ve learned in my life. I first shared them last year when I published my book A A Path to Wisdom and coached many committed entrepreneurs and clients from all walks of life who found them so valuable I wanted to share them with you at the start of the New Year.

And so……here are 30 insights to help you fly. Please don’t forget to share them so we help uplift all around us too…

#1. Success is about becoming focused on your few best opportunities.

#2. Resisting change prevents you from the main source of your growth.

#3. The more you invest in growing and developing your spiritual self, your emotional self, and your mindset and way of seeing the world, the more everything you touch transforms in a breathtakingly positive way.

#4. Don’t accept mediocrity, always pursue perfection in all what you do.

#5. Daily spend time to meditate and allow your mind to be quiet, to heal, and help it recharge.Click here to download this meditation that Awakens Your Natural healing abilities of your body, release any tensions with ease, and leaves you feeling calm, energised, and peaceful.

#6. Live in doing daily acts of kindness. Doing something super-nice for at least one stranger a day gives them a gift and an even larger one to yourself.

#7. Do activities that relax you. Book yourself a monthly massage, the one i truly enjoy and recommend to all of my clients is Adam Frewer’s Energy Healing Full body Massage. Believe me, you’ll body will thank you for it.

#8. The smartest thing you can do to grow a great company is to first learn how to pitch your business. What helped me most is doing the KPI Program, for further details click here..

#9. Replace tv, reading Metro News Paper, and other negative news that are toxic with watching inspired videos. You tube is perfect for that.

#10. Have the discipline to clean out all the energy-draining people in your life. Sometimes this may include the very same people we love most-our family members, friends and people we may date. You really do rise or fall to the level of your associations.

#11. Doing huge dreams we have never done can be frightening. Yet when we push to the edges of our limits, our limits expand.

#12. Make time for yourself to get inspired, no one around you will ever be inspired unless you radiate that energy.

#13. Learn to eat healthy. Your diet affects your moods. Eat like a superstar.

#14. Talk less. Visualise, feel, and do more.

#15. Know your values, it is what you have highest on your values what determines what decision and choices you make. Integrity is more valuable than income.

#16. Model people you admire, love and who inspire you and you’ll find at the end of your life you lived an awesome one.

#17. Learn to love yourself. It’s the great rule for being loving with other people.

#18. When your dominant business focus is to deliver outrageous amounts of value to your customers every time they do business with you, they become fanatical followers who tell the world about what you do.

#19. Know the voice that is yours, the one that nurtures your soul and opens your heart.

#20. Diffuse conflicts. Real leaders have the guts to have the hard conversations and love to communicate transparently.

#21. Create the environment (your home, your office, the magazines you read etc.) that supports the levels of achievements you are seeking.

#22. Practice makes thing perfect. The quality of your practice affects the calibre of your performance.

#23. Daily review your goals and your plan how to achieve them. It is an exceptionally powerful way to breed unbeatable focus and drive.

#24. Measure your success via your influence and impact versus only by your income and net worth.

#25. To become successful, first learn how to be in the flow, feel happy, and live in the moment.

#26. My clients who also invest in a personal trainer and get themselves ultra-fit they end up automatically lift every other area of their life.

#27. Believe in You. Self-belief is so incredibly important. Because if you don’t believe you can achieve a vision/goal, then you won’t even start to do the work needed to achieve that vision/goal.

#28. Eliminate doubt. Our biggest enemy is our own self-doubt. We really can achieve extraordinary things in our lives. But we sabotage our greatness because of our fear. Learn to trust the intelligence that is in every part of your being.

#29. Spend time every day to learn something new about you, your industry, and the market you may be trying to reach.

#30.Spend time in nature, learn to be one with nature, and appreciate nature.

I sincerely hope you use these 30 insights to electrify your mindset, equip you with success ammunition, and help you learn the rules of the game plan so you start 2015 in an ultra-powerful way.

And if you are REALLY serious about making 2015 is the single greatest year of your life yet, definitely get reading Amazon bestselling Book A Path to Wisdom and give yourself the gift of two hour clarity coaching session and let me help you make this New Year Your Best Year Yet. Click here to book.

Oh–and please remember, the way you start 2015 profoundly influences the way you’ll end it so definitely kick it into HIGH gear right now.

Resource: I’ve meticulously built TJS Evolutionary Method that walks you through how to make this New Year the single best year of your life. It’s in my book and packed with useful ideas.

Make sure you get your copy here and to sign up to be inspired, please go here and fill the sign up form.

Love, Live, Learn, and Be. With appreciation and respect,

Tony J Selimi

P.S. The “TJS Evolutionary Blissful Meditation Solutions” I’ve handcrafted for you has inspired many people to make beautiful improvements in their lives. You can download them from here .