“When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be”- Lao Tzu 

It is in our DNA to continuously evolve, multiply, and wake up and rise. To search for a deeper meaning to our mortal lives. The more I was learning about Taoism, the more I came to understand the meaning hidden behind Lao’s statement.

The many of the truth’s and lies that I had learned since a very young age kept me imprisoned in the prison of my own creation, the one of a rigid mind, and of an perfect illusionist whose illusions were so real that one could never establish the difference of what is and what’s not an illusion.

Ancient scriptures are littered with paradoxical lingo, for instance Jesus said, “Whoever tries to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life will preserve it.”

Only this statement kept me searching for the deeper meaning behind these words. I came to experience the flow of life, the rhythm of striving and letting go that which hinders our evolution, conceals our truth, and keeps us holding on too tightly to our beliefs, skewed perceptions and injected values.

When we eventually awaken to our greatness, it feels like swimming against the current. It is this illusion that you must break through committing to do the hard work required to unravel the truth of who you are. Hustle and be persistent, make sure you balance this with patience, and at times, stepping away from a rigid belief, injected value, people or situation.

This was the case with Elizabeth Gilbert following the massive success of Eat, Pray, Love. She shared about the crippling pressure of any follow up work that came from this success. With millions of anxious readers, she cranked out a manuscript over the course of one year, but she shared that it just didn’t feel right “The voice didn’t sound like me.”

She decided to put the manuscript away, never to be looked at again, and focused on her garden patch. Taking a break brought her clarity; rather than writing the book for the millions anticipating, she decided to start over and wrote it for an audience of 27 close friends, who needed the message of the book.

This very same situation happened to me when I embarked writing both of my books A Path to Wisdom and #Loneliness. In both occasions the first manuscript I wrote did not feel congruent to me. I felt rushed and in a way pressured to deliver the manuscript to my publishers. I walked away from both of my original scripts and created two new ones that are now read by millions of readers globally.

Being able to listen to your true authentic voice, not the one you have developed over the years of conditioning, or disassociation, or fear, is what helped me let go of what the books had to be and created the room for them to become what they meant to be.

In your striving, acknowledge your willingness to let go and just do it.

Here are the five principles to embrace to elevate your being:

1. Unravel, Know and Grow Your Value. There’s value in simply being alive, being all you can be, and knowing your presence matters. And there’s value in what you contribute to the world; to learn to value how both your inner “devil” and “angel” are there to support you on your journey to self-actualization, and how life adversities are there to help you live your highest values and share that with the world. Keep investing in your most valuable assets: your health, knowledge, and wisdom. Get yourself a mentor or a coach, there are many out there, choose one that is credible, speaks, lives and is capable of holding a clean mirror to teach you your truth. I personally love learning and consulting with various teachers including world human behavior expert Dr John Demartini.
2. Learn the art of mastering free will and determinism. Many people out there believe that they have no free-will, that all our actions and behaviors are predetermined neurologically through upbringing and environment. Neuroplasticity experts disagree; they have now shown to us that we can change our brain, and we’re wholly and solely responsible for what takes place in life. In my recent book #Loneliness I share how our experience gives way to both; sometimes, we freely choose to pass on those delicious chocolate cakes, other times we’re possessed by the Vanilla Ice Cream Hagen Daz-monster. There are times we’re nothing like our parents, and other times we’re a splitting image. What I notice in many people is their willingness to intrude in other people’s realities, offering services and reasons why they should be in your life. To the extent that our able, self-discipline and willpower needs to be exerted. Ultimately with decision-making, joy comes in knowing you’re in the driver’s seat rather than the passenger seat. Whether or not free will is an illusion, feeling as though you’ve expressed your will is better than being a mindless robot. Remember, taking ownership is always better than seeking to blame.
3. Train your mind to think fast and slow down when it is absolutely necessary. Many of my clients struggle when it comes to making a decision if they should go ahead with their head, or with their heart. That is the question that billions of people are currently asking on the planet. When I spent six weeks meditating I learnt to master my mind, to slow it down and to think fast by recollecting vast amount of data needed to make a decision. Thinking fast, or just going with your gut, is often tied in with the unconscious mind; science has shown that it’s incredibly accurate—once we identify a goal we want to accomplish in our life, our mind draws from the vast information we’re subconsciously exposed to, and responds to triggers that support the goal. Thinking slow requires more conscious effort to fully explore an issue, but can lead to overanalysing and inaction. Whether you ultimately decide to go with logic or intuition, realizing your physical and emotional state when making the decision is just as, if not more important. Being in a stressed, tired, or negative state will never yield the best decision. Learn to be balanced, to think fast, and slow down when you need to, best way to do it is while you’re rested and in a calm state.
4. Embrace change and permanence. Universe is constantly moving, evolving, and creating and destroying stars and galaxies. You are part of the same universe governed by the very same laws. If you’ve heard the words, “Gosh, you’ve changed,” it was likely with a derogative tone, and remorse over what happened to the person they once knew. To be grounded and consistent in our values is a good thing, pretence has never been notable. Yet at the same time, returning to your high-school reunion and seeing old friends stuck in the same old thing comes with a sense of shame, blame and guilt. To grow and change is both a good and a bad thing. Whilst stagnancy has never been celebrated, it is essential part of everyone’s journey. Repetition and evolution are two great words balancing the truths of permanence and change: you may never change careers in your life, but the reality is you’ve grown in your work. You may never leave your country, but you may have fulfilled all your dreams and are daily doing actions that are elevating your being.
5. Study both Science and Spirituality. Science without spirituality is blind, spirituality without science is foolish. The integration of the knowledge they both bring is key to understanding the universe, our origins, and the next steps in our evolution. The dawn of the enlightenment and scientific revolution was the great divide between faith and reason. Positivism and Empiricism became the dominant methods for determining truth, and all else was classed as superstition. But in the recent years, we’ve seen the traditional enemies overlap, with science validating once esoteric knowledge and practices like prayer and meditation.

The five principles above are a great reminder that while truth and confidence can be grounded in facts and figures, trust and assurance can also be found in what’s not visible to the naked eye, or immediate to your senses. Belief, gratitude, and faith—less tangible experiences, supported by science, all broaden and add to meaningful experiences in life.

Learn to use the TJS Evolutionary Method to embody the mentioned five principles into your daily life. It will help you on your journey to integrate the wholeness of who you are.  For those of you who are advanced students of life, you may want to start reading my newly released book #Loneliness –The Virus of The Modern Age.  In this book is where you start the journey to unravel the hidden lies that in time become the truths that you speak. Where you learn to be authentic, speak your truth, and honour your true essence.

Lastly, remember one thing, enlightenment is not an overnight thing, it is a lifelong commitment, it is your infinite soul’s way of letting you know how powerful you are, and it is a dance between “Good” and “Evil”, “Love and “Hate”, “Day” and “Night” and the many counterparts of the two polar opposite sides of you.

“Being truthful, authentic, and grateful is the first step to healing your body, mind, and heart.”

Which one of these vital principles that resonates most with you are you going to commit daily? Which one of them is most aligned to your values, why is it so, and please feel free to share with me and readers from around the globe why is it so. Write your thoughts in the comments below, share this article on social media and invite others to engage in a life changing dialogue.

Be authentic, wealthy, and healthy,

Tony J. Selimi

Speaker, Coach, Human Behavior and Cognition Expert

It’s that time of the year to wish you a stress free December, in preparation for the festive season and the New Year ahead.

For many as Christmas is approaching, it’s a wonderful time to celebrate love, but it’s also time when we can also look back and reflect on the year passed by.

To learn, grow and evolve from the mistakes made and the lessons gained. Most of all our beliefs, emotions and values get triggered more than any other time of the year. More often than before we don’t follow what we truly love, but instead we resolve the tension of our beliefs, emotions and values that have been with us since early childhood. We continue to do what we think we should do and then get trapped on the Christmas treadmill.

I think it should be called the ‘pressure season’ instead of the festive season. We end up feeling our space with things driven by needs and the desires that come from fulfilling other people’s needs. It is no wonder that success is out of reach when we fill our space and lives with things that take us so far away from the road to success.

So, how do we then create zero room for failure? How do we juggle the demands of our daily lives with the various things, people and situations that fill the space in our life that prevent us from focusing and creating the success we are seeking?

I know that you know, each present moment is a monumental moment that decides the direction that our life is going. The problem is that as we fill our personal space with so much noise we have become so desensitised, distracted and controlled that most people feel disempowered, out of control, and lose their ability to make the choices that are required to take their life in their chosen direction.

Often, the common theme whilst coaching my clients is around the good and the bad things my clients experience as Christmas and New Year are approaching. Some of them start to connect and feel with the spirit of joy, peace and union with the loved ones and others become stressed, pressured, and feel extremely lonely.

We all know that the way we are now living our lives differs from the way our ancestors lived their lives.

With so much technology and information being thrown at us daily, we seem to be losing our ability to listen to our true wants and needs. We create so much room for failure, room where distraction, noise, and pressure are the things that fill up the entire space living little room for success to enter our lives.

As we continue to fill this room with unwanted behaviours, thoughts, believes, we create the conditions for the failure to thrive. It’s understandable that we no longer are able to listen to the authentic voice that knows how to fill the room with beliefs, thoughts, and habits that help us manifest the abundance, the success, the happiness we require.

For these and the many other reasons most people feel it has become impossible to avoid failure, fear and worry. As the time passes by, we also start to lose trust in our innate abilities to positively move forward towards the direction we may want our lives to go towards.

Creating the outcomes, achieving the goals and do the things we thought we could do a year ago when we made our New Year’s Resolution becomes harder and harder to achieve. We consciously start to procrastination our own success without even know it how we do it.

A year passes by, and we go back into the cycle again, hoping the New Year will fix the old issues, create the success we wished we could have created this year.

What if there was another way? What if Creating abundance, success and live like the people you may admire do is truly not that complicated?

Actually it’s pretty easy once…you click on this link and watch how other people learned the TJS Evolutionary Method, read the Amazon UK Number 1 book A Path to Wisdom and invested in the integrated coaching yearly program “The Art of Intrusion Free Living and The Power of Being Coaching Program” that helped them go from distraction, fear, and confusion to zero room for failure and plenty room for creating success, abundance and inner peace.

I know that you do know that the simple shift you must make to take back control of your life and have complete success reaching all of your goals in 2015…and beyond are a must.

But even more important… Today I am going to share with you a way that guarantees you can start applying this simple formula for success immediately and integrate it fully into your body and mind.

And that is the key to my new program “The Intrusion Free Living and the Power Of Being”?

You see…

This proven formula for success is not a new concept. Some people (including me) have been talking about this subtle shift for years. The concept has been part of my Millionaire Mind Strategies program for over a decade. And when people use it… …tremendous results follow.

But, it wasn’t until a few years ago that I had an insight finally giving me the clarity to start breaking it down into a step-by-step system for integrating this formula into peoples life….

…which is where this is revolutionary.

As I discuss in more detail in my book, for this Evolution to happen, we must go through a revolution cycle. This cycle is what makes everything happen. Once you learn and understand this You have zero room for failure anymore!

When you have a system working with you can easily achieve success. Learning, doing, acting and being all of the things that TJS Evolutionary Method talks about guarantees your success…

Most of My private clients know that this process is life-changing experience for them, they start to shift, attract new opportunities, people and situations to support them through their path to wisdom journey. They start to vibrate at higher frequencies and listen in that frequency. All of that plust more is what my new coaching program: “The Intrusion Free Living and The Power of Being” can do for you in 2015 and beyond.

After years of wrestling with this principal I finally have a paint-by-numbers system for applying it for maximum benefits and rewards.

Just exercising my logical brain and helping others do the same, making each year new goals and taking small actions wasn’t enough. This way of being was not producing the outcomes nor the results we all wanted.

This forced me to do explore more, continue with my soul searching journey, go deeper within, and continued to work with my coach and healer to help me create the abundance i was seeking. Calming my mind helped me see with clarity, i started to generate the feeling I needed for the success I was seeking for myself and my clients.

Some of my answers came from this state of being. Working with so many healers i learned to meditate, in the process I also helped thousands of my clients do the same.

Helping my clients adopt daily meditation whilst I was taking them on a deeper journey into the self-using TJS Evolutionary Coaching Method started to generate exponential growth, shifts and success.

And it’s for this reason, I also decided to also create TJS Evolutionary Meditation Solutions meditation to aid many of you who choose to go through the process to Awaken Your Inner Doctor that help you in your journey to de-stress, let go of the fears, the anxiety, and the distraction that may be preventing you from being the abundant version of yourself.

This Meditation and Open and Awaken Your Heart Centre are part of TJS Evolutionary Meditations solutions designed specifically to activate the body’s natural healing powers and support you in your journey to open and awaken your heart so that the energy that Love releases can support you in achieving the success and the outcomes you may be planning for 2015.

Every word and sound is designed to deepen you. To position you and to allow you to relax, trust and surrender to the healing process and access the dormant part of yourself that you can use to create the success, the abundance and the life you may be wishing.

With such inner focus towards yourself, you will open up to allow your imagination to see, experience and feel the true healer, the success, and the power that is within you. Through the power of your mind you are able to directly influence every cell in your body, and these meditations guide you to tap into your own inner potential.

This is an excellent guided meditations for:

1. Achieving total body mind relaxation.

2. Connecting to the healing power within you.

3. Aid you to overcome emotional challenges such as: stress, depression, anxiety, overwhelm

4. Helping you overcome addictions, physical health challenges, and restore balance to your body

5. Guiding you to experience the true power of Love.

6. Help you with creative visualisation, sleep better, and start to invoke the feeling of the success you may be wanting but never succeeded to have.

As you awaken from the experience each meditation is designed for, you will feel peaceful, loved, healed, and with a sense of clarity and wellbeing.

To learn more about TJS Evolutionary Method, buy a copy of A Path to Wisdom and study the five pillars to help you live a balanced, healthy and peaceful life.

As you embody the wisdom from TJS Evolutionary Method you start to feel yourself returning to a healthier state of being. This meditations will help you access your mental healing faculties, connect and acknowledge you as the source of your healing potential, and reconnect your being to the infinite wisdom of love.

This meditations will help you awaken you to your own energy so you are able to connect to the masterful physician that resides in you.

Truthfully, once you adopt a daily routine and do these meditations for at least six weeks…it will make all sorts of sense.

You will understand why this simple shift in your consciousness through learning TJS Evolutionary Method, adopting mindfulness, and doing these meditations daily is so damn powerful.

As the time passes by, when you look back on your past, you will see how your outcomes would have been different if you knew what you NOW will know once you download and read A Path to Wisdom, do the two meditations daily to Awaken Your Heart Centre and Your Inner Doctor and for some of you who may choose start the new year with my latest “Intrusion Free Living and The Power of Being Coaching Program.”

Then you will be able to start applying it to everything you do.

Click here to take you to booking my initial two hour Question to Clarity Consultation so that you can have the clarity that is need to make the decisions that are required to be successful, abundant, and cope better with the daily challenges that may be presented on the way.

Be Light, Radiate Love

Tony J Selimi

P.S.

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