Welcome back, fellow growth seeker and change-maker!

I am writing this newsletter in Northern Macedonia, where I just finished teaching my ten-day Vital Planning Life and Business Mastery client-focused coaching and training program and helping my clients dissolve many mental and emotional blockages and solve business and employee issues that were causing them headaches, sleepless nights, and lead to him feeling stressed and burnout. I also coached an army general, a private hospital owner, a celebrity singer, and aspiring entrepreneurs.

Furthermore, I was interviewed on five T.V. stations in Northern Macedonia and Kosova on various business, leadership, human behaviour, personal success, and relationship-related topics. It also included stories and experiences of the recent Quilly® Award I received in Hollywood for The Unfakeable Code® book, Book Excellence and the Maincrest Media Book Award for A Path to Excellence book and the Hollywood Premier of The Truth About Reading documentary that tackles the growing illiteracy crisis in the USA.

This week’s newsletter was inspired by the growth, success, and breakthroughs I helped my clients achieve and the gratitude comments I received from everyone I met and interviewed. It is about The Octagon of Excellence® Method I describe in more detail in A Path to Excellence book, and how it can help you through tricky times and when you feel powerless, stuck, stressed and uninspired.

Before I share more, I trust my previous newsletter topic, So Busy That You Have No Time for Love, was valuable for you and your family, relationship, entrepreneurial, career, business, and financial growth and saying yes to love. For those looking for a more empowered and meaningful relationship, check out this article published by ISSUU magazine and learn why love is the destroyer and creator of life.

Let’s get your creative juices flowing by answering the following questions first:

Are you ready to break free from your current limits and get unstuck? Do you want to be more productive, create change in your life and reach the goals you have worked on for a long time faster? Would focusing your mental faculties on the things that help you achieve personal excellence benefit you?

If so, then this week’s newsletter is the guide for you!

One topic that has interested me since I was very young is what makes some live an average life and others willingly strive for personal excellence. My fascination with top mathematicians, physicians, and inventors such as Nikola Tesla, Albert Einstein, and Thomas Edison inspired me to study their lives more thoroughly. I learned that they all showed attributes of personal excellence and what it takes to leave a legacy that stands the test of time.

Having coached and mentored businesses from all market sectors and individuals from all professional backgrounds, I realised they faced similar issues. What was happening in their heads was the root of all their challenges. After I wrote and published The Unfakeable Code® in 2021, I felt inspired to write and recently publish A Path to Excellence book.

The reason is I wanted to share the process I used to help myself and all of my clients achieve personal, relationship, professional, financial and busienss breakthroughs and attain unshakeable confidence in The Octagon Method® with a mission to help others create phenomenal growth, fulfilment, and success. It is a step-by-step system that shows you how to transform your life by transforming perceived blocks into life breakthroughs and creating new opportunities.

It’s based on the teachings that took me over thirty years to acquire, teach, and master. As someone who has delivered over 25,000 coaching and training hours and helped thousands of people do just that, I know those who learn the eight principles shared and apply them daily will increase their chances of success in any of the critical areas of life they want to empower.

What is The Octagon of Excellence®?

It is a set of principles, a tool that helps you to get unstuck and move forward. It’s an eight-step process that can help you get unstuck and move forward. The Octagon of Excellence is a way to transform your life. You can read more about the book and the eight steps HERE!

A Path to Excellence Tony J. Selimi Leadership and Growth-Focused Development Book

Each step will help you clarify what you truly want in life; it will show you how to break down each item on the list you will be creating as you answer the questions into its most essential parts, then show you how to ask yourself what you need to do or change to achieve each item on your list. The key is focusing on one part at a time until it’s done right before moving on to the next.

The Octagon of Excellence® is a revolutionary approach to getting unstuck and achieving excellence as you move from one life cycle into the other. For instance, the end of a job, career, or relationship and the start of a new one. Throughout life, you will experience identity crises and lose a loved one. Sometimes you need to close one chapter of your life and start a new one. This robust framework can help you move forward and achieve whatever you desire as you go through various life cycles.

The first step to this method is understanding what each side of the octagon represents and looks like in your life. An octagon has eight cycles, transition, regeneration, focus, rebirth, balance, service, unity, and infinity, just like how you have eight areas of your life that are wise to focus on empowering simultaneously as you go through the various life cycles: Spiritual, Mental, Emotional, Physical, Relationship, Social, Career/Business and Finances. When these eight sides and eight processes are managed effectively and mindfully, there’s no limit to what you can accomplish!

To help you get unstuck, it’s time to get what blocks you out of your head and here are four questions that can help you do this:

1. What is the worst thing that could happen?
2. What am I terrified of?
3. What is the best possible outcome?
4. How can I turn this into an opportunity?

Do write down your answers before you continue reading. What came up for you? Have you noticed how many people often respond to the question “Why?” with “That’s the way it is. Because that’s what I chose, it’s not personal; it is what it is.”

But when you have a problem and you don’t know why, or any other thing or situation in life where there isn’t an obvious answer right away (or even at all), you can use this technique to help yourself find your reasons for things and situations in life by asking yourself questions such as:

Why did I do that? What was my reason? How did I feel at the time? How do I feel now? What else could I have done instead?

You are reading this article because you want personal excellence deep down. To help you don’t his journey, here are three truths worth remembering:

1. The first truth is that we are all worthy of excellence. That means you, me, the athlete across from you at practice, that guy who’s been struggling in class… Everyone has the potential to achieve excellence. We can do it with hard work and persistence, but most importantly, with being smart and believing in ourselves and our abilities.
2. The second truth is that we are all capable of excellence. You may think, “Well yeah, but I’m not a natural athlete, singer, scientist, engineer, entrepreneur, CEO, etc.” Or maybe your schoolwork isn’t coming easy for some reason—you’re getting B’s instead of As or A pluses like everyone else seems to be getting. That doesn’t mean anything! Anyone can become excellent at anything if they want to and put forth the effort required for success (the same way anyone can get better at any skill if they practice enough). I never imagined going from homeless to being honoured and celebrated in Hollywood for my work that took over thirty years to bring forward.
3. The third truth is that we all have the potential to achieve excellence through hard work and persistence. The key here is being persistent—no matter how often something doesn’t seem right or feels uncomfortable (like failing a couple of tests, failing in busienss, a relationship, creating a fashion brand, etc.), keep working on it until finally, one day,y everything clicks into place!

As I was coaching my client in Northern Macedonia, I wrote this quote I created a while back on one of the white stackable whiteboard sheets I use when I coach clients:

“Don’t give up on yourself; give up the gremlins in your head.” Tony J. Selimi ( do share it)

If you’re going to get anywhere in life, you need to believe in yourself. Don’t give up on your goals. Your goal isn’t the only thing keeping you going—your goals keep you going! Don’t give up on your dreams. You’ve got this! Nothing stops you from reaching them but yourself; if there were, we’d be too busy being happy with our lives to stop and think about it.

Don’t give up on your family (unless they’re gremlins, some of my family members are, and I learned to appreciate and love them from a distance). It can be tempting when things get tough or when everyone seems so much happier without us around—but trust me: no one is ever pleased without their family around to annoy them occasionally for their good.

Don’t give up on your friends (unless they’re gremlins). Take it from someone who knows: sometimes the most challenging part of an argument is remembering that neither side has a monopoly over truth; both sides have valid points that deserve respect and consideration before coming to any conclusion about which side deserves more empathy than another.*

Don’t give up on your health (unless you are already dead, in which case you aren’t reading this). Sometimes, something gets in the way of our exercise routines or eating habits; humans are imperfect creatures, prone as we are by nature toward laziness and gluttony!

But that doesn’t mean we should throw in the towel entirely; rather than giving into temptation every time something comes along that makes us feel guilty or distracted from our goals…why not try asking ourselves, “Is there anything I can do right now?” instead?

Chances are good that there is at least one small thing within our reach right now (like walking downstairs instead of taking the elevator) which would make all those oversized things seem less daunting tomorrow morning when everyone else is off doing their best while we’re stuck lying awake again thinking about how hard.

Another quote I shared and used to help my client grow is this:

“To achieve personal excellence is to master self-discipline and commit to achieving values-driven goals and a vision beyond oneself.” – Tony J. Selimi

Let’s go ahead and get right to it.

Self-discipline is a skill that can be learned, but it takes time and effort. You can start small by focusing on one thing at a time until you’ve mastered that skill. Then move on to the next task or project aligned with your values and goals. The key is to keep going; don’t give up when you feel like quitting or getting sidetracked. Investing in coaching and mentoring can significantly increase your self-discipline.

You can use tools and apps to help you stay motivated and self-disciplined when working toward your big dreams (like I did use The Octagon of Excellence® Method), but ultimately, improving your self-discipline comes down to doing more of what you already do well!

Here are Eight Simple Steps To Transform Your Life

Now that you’ve familiarised yourself with the Octagon of Excellence Method, it’s time to put it into practice. Here are eight simple steps to get you started:

1. Take daily inspired action.
2. Appreciate the negative and the positive, and focus on the positive.
3. Be grateful for what you have now. (And who you are now)
4. Forgive yourself and others as needed.
5. Invest in coaching and work with a qualified coach and experienced mentor that equally challenges and supports you.
6. Be patient with yourself and others when they make mistakes or fail to get back on track.
7. Be kind to yourself and others in your life.
8. Have fun!

By following the above eight steps, you can get unstuck, heal your life and reach your goals without feeling like you’re doing anything special! Use The Octagon of Excellence® Method to help you navigate the eight inevitable cycles of life transition, regeneration, focus, rebirth, balance, service, unity and infinity.

This method is based on what I have learned from ancient wisdom, the world’s best teachers, thirty years of working experience and the latest scientific discoveries, which provides you with a proven map for navigating through the ups and downs of life.

It offers practical tools to understand what is happening at any time in whatever life cycle you find yourself in and how to deal with it to create more freedom and order from stressful situations. By following this method step by step, as outlined in A Path to Excellence book – which essentially involves paying attention to what is happening inside and around you – you can obtain clarity about your own lives as well as other people’s lives too and what you can do to grow into your fullest potential.

To conclude,

When you read the word “excellence,” do you immediately think of something lofty and unattainable?

I know I used to. But as it turns out, excellence is pretty simple. The Octagon of Excellence® Method will show you how to reach your potential in all areas of your life by following just eight simple principles:

1. To break free from ambiguity, clarify what you want, why you want it, and when you want it, this will help you identify what’s necessary;
2. Awakening your astronomical vision requires committing to something bigger than yourself. This will help you focus on those things that will get you there;
3. To build resilience, it is wise to immediately confront any issues and respond mindfully and objectively. This will help you get unstuck from negative thoughts;
4. Making mistakes is human, correcting them awakens your excellence. Asking yourself quality questions when faced with mistakes and obstacles is a wise thing to do;
5. For better, more efficient and more effective results seek expert advice, coaching is a great way to help you remember that whatever happened yesterday is today’s lesson for tomorrow;
6. To grow on the inside and expand on the outside, collaborate. This will assist you practice self-discipline through daily connecting with others in more meaningful ways;
7. To unleash the power of gratitude, graciously give and accept compliments. Appreciating others promotes trust and learning from other people’s experiences by listening closely and empathempathisingothers’ feelings.
8. 8) Continuously celebrating small wins can change your physiology, strengthen your psychology, and maximise your potential.

I trust you got much inspiration and value from this week’s article on the importance of striving for personal excellence. For those of you who want to create unique relationships, careers, business, leadership, team and financial breakthroughs, as your coaching partner, my focus is to work together on finding out exactly the root cause of your blocks and effectively and efficiently find solutions to your frustrations, problems and create the mindset and the plan on accelerating your journey to self-mastery, living in abundance, develop personal and leadership excellence, grow your influence, success, fulfilment and inspiration.

Love and Wisdom

Tony J. Selimi – Award-Winning Author, Speaker, and Transformational Life and Business Coach SpeciaSpecialisingman Behaviour, Leadership Excellence, and Maximising Human Potential. Winner of the London SME Most Visionary Entrepreneur, Corporate Coaching and Recruitment Business Coach of the Year Award, Silver Winner of Literary Book Award, and Maincreast Media Book, New York City Big Book, Book Excellence, and the Quilly® Award for A Path to Wisdom, Loneliness, The Unfakeable Code®, and A Path to Excellence.

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P.S. I work virtually and in person with clients all over the globe, facilitating the realisation and accomplishment of personal, relational, professional, financial and business goals. Here are four ways I can assist you in creating life-changing breakthroughs, growth, and accelerating your journey to excellent health, influence, wealth, transformational leadership, and going from where you are to where you genuinely want to be in every critical area of life.

#1… Book a Breakthrough Consultation Session by sending an e-mail to info@tonyselimi.com. I invite entrepreneurs, influencers, growth seekers, high achievers and change-makers to spend five or ten incredible growth-focused days transforming what pains you into what inspires you by being privately coached and trained by me—taking place in beautiful locations worldwide. Booking yourself on Vital Planning Business and Life Mastery Training will assist you in learning new and more productive ways and proven methods, tools, and principles that can help you upgrade your psychology and achieve your wildest dreams. We will work together on expanding your vision and delivering the ever-evolving purpose you want to share with the world.

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What would change in your life if you acknowledged that you are the author of your own story and can create your future? Maybe you’ll grow an award-winning book, open a coaching business, or possibly be the partner, the leader, the successful individual you always wanted to be. Or perhaps you’ll never step outside your comfort zone, and that’s okay. You’re making a difference either way.

It’s scary to put yourself out there and be successful. This was me in 2009 when I faced one of my many worst fears – the fear of being successful. Back then, having been made redundant from a job I loved, my prospects of finding a new job were weak. The pressure to fulfil all of my financial commitments kept building. Everything around me kept telling me how much I was worth, that there were not enough senior technology jobs, and I had to lower my salary expectations if I wanted to find another job.

But deep down, I knew my worth, what I was capable of achieving, and by then, I had worked with many famous and successful coaches, trainers, and healers who helped me unleash my worth and stand in my authentic power.

Before I share some of the actions you can take to accelerate your success, here are some questions you may want to ponder with:

Do you ever feel like you could be more successful? Have there been times when you are not being appreciated for the value you bring into other people’s lives? Do you find yourself wondering about your most significant success limitations in life? Are you even aware of what kind of success you can achieve?

Suppose you are constantly making excuses, procrastinating, and judging others for the success they create in their personal, relational, social, spiritual, career, business or financial life. In that case, you are most likely reading my weekly newsletter because you want to be successful and grow to your fullest potential in all critical areas of life.

No matter what major challenge you are currently facing on your journey to success, underlying emotional issues stop you from being successful in your chosen field or area of life.

Everybody gets twenty-four hours per day…no more, no less…

Through my personal and client’s journey to success, I discovered that it matters not how much money you have or don’t have,  how educated you are, and your social position. How effectively you use the twenty-four hours a day, we all get matters.

Until maybe one day we invent a back to the future time machine; for now, it is wise to acknowledge that you can’t buy, beg, borrow or steal another one second, minute, hour, day, week, month, or a year.

What you do with those twenty-four hours is entirely up to you; of course, there will be those you love that consume some of that time. We all have obligations that must be met each day. We have jobs or businesses that provide us with the necessary income; a certain amount of time is required for sleeping, eating, socialising, reading, shopping, and fulfilling our relationship commitments.  However, what many of you may not stop and think about is how the entire.
Twenty-four are not all spoken for. How there are the few hours each day that you can use
As you want to use them. What you decide to do with them will primarily determine how successful or unsuccessful you will be in life.

Suppose you are someone who spends all of our “unspoken for hours” on social media, going out drinking, on the couch in front of the TV eating chips and drinking beer, coke, etc., in three years. In that case, you will still be doing the same tedious job, be in the same unfulfilled relationship, and give yourself or others excuses for why you weren’t the success you thought you could be.

For instance, some of those free hours if be used to learn how to grow your worth, build a business, be more financially astute, do new things or try different things, which could mean that in a short amount of time, you would have better chances for a more rewarding job, attract a better relationship, be healthier, or even turn to a successful entrepreneur that makes a difference by doing what you love.

That seems like a good idea, but where does one begin? What if success is about you being truly clear on what matters most to you?

This question that I answered back in 2012 helped me write many multi-award winning and bestselling books, appear on over 800 TV/Radio/Podcast shows, give a TEDx talk, speak around the world, and build a successful global lifestyle speaking, coaching and training business. My basic premise is to assist individuals from all professions, entrepreneurs, and executives to create mental, emotional, physical, social, relational, spiritual, financial, business and career breakthroughs to become more purposeful, successful, and thrive in every area of life.

My focus has been to be the coaching partner that helps you become successful while ensuring you quench your thirst for wellbeing, purpose, fulfilment and adventure.

If you’re not growing in all areas of life, you’re not thriving.

I just came back from Gran Canaries, where I spent five days coaching and training a client who reached out and booked my Vital Planning for Elevated Living Business and Life Mastery advanced learning and training program to assist him in living his life in more alignment with his authentic values, pursuing his ambitions and taking care of his emotional, mental and physical health. At the end of this learning and unlearning experience, my client shared how I’ve become the place and why many people and business owners like him turn to me when they need extra support or guidance.

I felt thrilled! When I first launched this unique learning experience in 2008, I had no idea of the breakthroughs and the success they would create for my client. I just knew that if my clients couldn’t find what they needed, my integrated life and business coaching advanced training would take them on an inside out self-mastery journey that focuses all of their mental and emotional faculties to help them excel and grow in business, life and career, so they succeed more quickly and thrive.

Over the years, I have helped I can teach you how to make sure that every goal across all areas of your life is CLEARER, SMARTER, and PURPOSEFUL. It is what makes you more effective and more inspired!

So, here are the three actions you can take right now:

1. Write down why success is essential for you.
2. Answer what success looks like for you.
3. Set CLEARER, SMARTER, and PURPOSEFUL goals and set aside a certain amount of hours each week to work on your plan and stick to it.

It is wise to identify what you can do yourself and what is it you need to ask for help; sometimes, you might get it for free, but if you want to get far in life, my recommendation is to pay for it and get a professional coach or mentor that can be the torch that shines a light on your path to success.

If you try to re-invent the wheel, you are just wasting that valuable resource, time. One thing to keep in mind, there’s a big difference between telling yourself that you are spending money when hiring a coach and investing money in your growth. Any time you spend some money learning something that will take you closer to what you want, that’s an investment that will pay dividends for life!

Success will come much faster when you don’t waste your time trying to do it all independently.

You’ve just read about Three Actions That Accelerate Your Success. Now it’s time to take the next step and get started on your path to creating the success you dream about daily. It’s time to expand your awareness of what’s possible beyond your perceived limits, evolve your business, career, and purpose, and become the successful individual, partner, and leader you know you can be.

There’s no reason you can’t grow into your fullest potential, have a successful co-loving relationship, be a successful individual, business owner, or leader, or attract the success you deep down want. I love sharing and teaching how to get the results and where you want to be by becoming more confident, booming, credible and capable of purposefully transforming in every area of your personal, relational, social, professional, financial and business life.

Love and Wisdom

Tony J. Selimi – Award-Winning Author, Speaker, and Transformational Live and Business Coach Specialising in Human Behaviour, Leadership Excellence, and Maximising Human Potential. Winner of the London SME Most Visionary Entrepreneur 2020 award, Corporate Coaching and Recruitment Business Coach of the Year 2021 Award, Silver Winner of Literary Book Award 2021, and Maincreast Media Book Award 2021 for A Path to Wisdom, #Loneliness, and The Unfakeable Code®.

PS – To consciously create the success you want, get in touch with me today! As your coaching partner, it will be an honour to work on addressing the issues that cause you headaches, pain, and frustrations and get you the clarity, the tools, and the plan that begins to put you on a path to success, grow you and your employees into the best purpose-driven leader possible. You’ll learn practical ways and skills to help you turn your fears into fuel for growth. You can inspire your employees and elevate them above their peers at competing companies while inspiring yourself as a leader.

I work on a virtual basis and in-person with clients all over the globe, facilitating the realisation and accomplishment of personal, professional, and business goals. Here are four ways I can assist you in creating life-changing breakthroughs, growth, and accelerating your journey to excellent health, influence, transformational leadership and success.

#1… Book a Breakthrough Consultation Session by sending an email to info@tonyselimi.com.

#2 … Grab your copy of my #1 Amazon bestselling and Multi-Award-Winning books, A Path to Wisdom, #Loneliness, The Unfakeable Code®, and enrol in my Mindfulness for Higher Productivity, Performance, and Profitable Life Udemy Course! Click here to join thousands of my happy students.

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So what are some of the factors that influence fear of Growing Into Your Fullest Potential?

Do you ever feel like you could do more? Have there been times when you felt creed, race, or culture had influenced your life and work experience? Do you find yourself wondering what your most significant limitations in life are? Are you even aware of what kind of fear you are afraid of? Suppose you are constantly making excuses, procrastinating, and not feeling at peace with yourself and others. In that case, you are most likely reading my weekly newsletter because you want to grow into your fullest potential in all critical areas of life.

No matter what major challenge you are currently facing, an underlying fear stops you from taking that step.

Let’s start by acknowledging the following…

Your fear plays a role in fulfilling your potential.

Fear is one of the primary emotions that we experience, and while the primary role of fear is to protect you, fear very often becomes a significant obstacle between you and your goals. To a large extent, success relies on knowing how to leverage fear.

Fear comes in many different forms. There are a variety of things that we are afraid of. Some may be afraid of heights or spiders; others may be afraid of failure or embarrassment. Fear comes in different shapes and sizes, but no matter what form it takes, it’s essential to understand how this emotion can work for you instead of against you.

What are some of the most common fears?

We all have fears. They are natural and part of what makes us human. But the fear of not being good enough, worthy enough, smart enough or any other reason we use to put off going after what we want can keep us from living a fulfilling and prosperous life.

The key is to recognise the fear, acknowledge it but don’t give into it. Fear is a bully that demands your attention and will taunt you with your worst insecurities if you let it. Don’t give in! You can do anything you set your mind to!

Is fear stopping you from experiencing life fully?

Suppose you are not showing up in the world as your authentic self daily. In that case, you are most likely wearing one of the masks created by your inauthentic being who has experienced a lifetime of threats, pains, disappointments, and rejections.  In my book The Unfakeable Code®, I share how various personas we adopt as we go through life can build protective mechanisms that imprison us in the prison of our creations. Reading the book, you’ll learn why those of you who are afraid to take off the mask, face your worst fears, and take risks are the ones who never achieve, never fulfil their dreams and never experience life fully. You may have beautiful intentions for better health, relationship, career, business, finances, social life, and a more kind and loving world.

However, fear can stop many of you from experiencing life fully. Fear’s insidious nature makes it hard to detect, but it is often the most significant factor holding you back from experiencing your fullest potential.

Why Fear Stops You?

Fear stops you because you think something has gone wrong when you feel it. You forget the very role of your amygdala, to fight, flight, freeze, or, as I mention in all of my books, create the freedom you always want.

Fear is a normal human emotion.

As you will see below, the list of how fear impacts your life is a long one. There are many benefits if you can avoid the pitfalls of being fearful and live more in the present.

You may feel that you have little or no control over your destiny, you may not value yourself enough to believe that you deserve to be happy and prosperous, or that it is too risky to follow your heart in case everything goes wrong. In short, if we were not worried about how things might turn out, we would have a lot less to worry about!

What are some of the drawbacks of fear?

First of all, fear stops you from authentically showing up. In other words, it keeps you from living your fullest and most colourful life. A life that is rich in emotion and rich in love.

Whether the client is an individual seeking to overcome personal challenges or a business seeking to improve productivity, performance, and profits, the first step is to assist them in identifying the specific fears related to whatever they wish to work on. Why? Because, no matter what they learn, no matter what instruction they are given, if those fears are not brought to light, it will stop them from creating the results they truly want. For every client I have helped, specific worries related to their life-long experiences have consciously and unconsciously influenced them to remain stuck.

Fear is also something that gets in the way of your happiness and can even prevent you from being able to live a happy life at all. Fear stops us from doing what we want to do or being whom we want to be.

Fear has so many different meanings for each one of us, but no matter how you look at it, anxiety can be detrimental to our health and well-being as individuals and societies.

Suppose your goal is to live a happy and fulfilling life full of meaning and purpose. In that case, I trust this article, as part of the Unfakeably Influencing the World newsletter, will help you understand why it’s essential to overcome your fears to achieve these goals.

Understanding the role of fear in your surrounding environment

Fear gives us a false sense of security. It limits your choices, doesn’t let you breathe, and generates anxiety and stress.

It can numb you, leaving you running in circles without direction. It creates low self-confidence, making it difficult to accomplish anything. And it keeps you from experiencing the joys of life because all you see is the negative side of everything.

But fear has an upside: it protects us from predators and makes us more potent after facing it.

Your subconscious mind thinks that if it holds back on its full potential, then nothing terrible will happen. That’s where fear enters the picture – as a friend who wants to protect you from harm and keep things status quo – even though this is not always true or helpful.

What can you do to overcome fear?

Those who resist facing the fears that make them uncomfortable are often those who don’t know they exist. It’s worth clarifying what aspects of your life may be causing you to fear taking your goals and dreams seriously, so you can improve your understanding of the situation and take steps towards a solution. Perhaps you aren’t afraid to invest more time in studying and getting better at a new skill, but what about investing more time in developing yourself as a lover, leader, business owner, or celebrity person? Fear is nothing more than an issue of perspective.

You’ll find it helpful if you clarify what types of activities cause you such negative feelings; keeping these on hand will be beneficial when seeking out professional help or counselling, as this list is meant to be used as a starting point for further research into areas where some form of growth may occur.

What are the benefits of fear in unfakeably influencing the world?

“You’re not alone,” I told one of my clients after booking himself to my ten-days Vital Planning Business, and Life Mastery focused coaching and training experience. “You don’t have to be afraid of what you can do, just the people who tell you that you’re not capable of achieving anything great. They’ll fail and tell you it’s your fault they failed… but they’re wrong.”

“Yeah,” he responded as he put his hand on my shoulder. “It’s a hard road, it’s tough to remain focused in these seven hours a day breakthrough coaching with you, Tony, but I now see how it leads to freedom and, as you say in The Unfakeable Code®, Book, live freely on your terms.”

I smiled thinking about this; this was beautiful client feedback. He understood the value of fearlessness, even though he had experienced failure in the past.

You’ve just read about Factors That Influence Fear of Growing Into Your Fullest Potential. Now it’s time to take the next step and get started on your path to knowing the fears behind your repeated patterns, failures, and unfulfilled dreams. It’s time to expand your awareness of what’s possible beyond your perceived fears, grow your purpose, become an authentic individual, partner, and leader and activate purpose across your entire life, including your business.

Get in touch with me today! As your coaching partner, it will be an honour to work on addressing the issues that cause you headaches, pain, and frustrations and get you the clarity, the tools, and the plan that begins to grow you and your employees into the best purpose-driven leader possible. You’ll learn practical ways and skills to help you turn your fears into fuel for growth. You can inspire your employees and elevate them above their peers at competing companies while inspiring yourself as a leader.

There’s no reason you can’t grow into your fullest potential, have a co-loving relationship, develop your leadership skills, boost your business, attract better opportunities and clients,  and improve the well-being of your organisation.  I love sharing how to get the results and where you want to be by becoming more confident, sure, credible and capable of purposefully transforming in every area of your personal, professional and business life.

Love and Wisdom

Tony J. Selimi – Award-Winning Author, Speaker, and Transformational Live and Business Coach Specialising in Human Behaviour, Leadership Excellence, and Maximising Human Potential. Winner of the London SME Most Visionary Entrepreneur 2020 award, Corporate Coaching and Recruitment Business Coach of the Year 2021 Award, Silver Winner of Literary Book Award 2021, and Maincreast Media Book Award 2021 for A Path to Wisdom, #Loneliness, and The Unfakeable Code®.

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There comes a moment in our lives where no matter what we do, we don’t seem to see an end to our troubles. We end up feeling emotional, down, and hopeless. We lose faith in our abilities, we start to ride a never ending emotional rollercoaster, and we end up feeling vulnerable to the external stimulants that have the power to create an emotional storm.

When this happens, just like the many of the clients I see daily, many of you too end up closing down, withdrawing, and pushing away the people who may be there in your reality to help you grow. It is during this time that you can understand better the reasons you feel that way and get the clarity required for you to go from feeling hopeless to being inspired and stepping into your greatness.

It is rather strange, that it is also in such moments that we stumble across people who feel amazing, are successful, and are living inspired lives. They radiate confidence, kindness, and have a very smart appeal that deep down within ourselves we tend to resent them for and equally find them irresistibly attractive.

They tend to be funny, loving, trustworthy and most of all passionate in what they do. If you make a choice you too can change the destination called hopelessness. No, this is not a blog post to tell you all about somebody who has high self-worth, self-esteem, or self-confidence so that you feel even worse about yourself.

This is not a post to talk about how everything in other people’s life is going perfectly and so can everything in your life. Also, this is not a post that is going to tell you that the world is actually less complicated, less difficult and less challenging than it actually is. This is a post to awaken you, to remind you that no matter what you are going through in your life, you have a voice. And you are important.

Whilst the world may not be perfect and you may feel hopeless at times, one important thing to remember is that you are not alone and things will get better… but you have to use your reasoning, your choice, and your voice.

Recently I delivered a speech at The Inspired Stage on the value of the instrument you all play-your voice. Your voice is your own. It is your own personal projection of the way you are inside. It is the voice of your opinions, of your thoughts, of your emotions.

It is the way in which you inform and communicate to the world about your aspirations, the struggles, the achievements, the good things and the bad things you go through. By using your voice, you are able to express yourself to the world in a way that only you can do.

My talk with the audience at The Inspired Stage was about the importance of using our voice by first telling the audience that I know what it is like to be a refugee, depressed, and homeless. I know the deep, dark despair found in the Syrian refugees that are being uprooted from their homes is the feeling of homeless, hopeless, and fearful.

Once I was a person who thought of me as kind, smart, funny and loving, I slipped into a depression, helplessness, and my self made inner prison during the times when after the civil war in former Yugoslavia broke out, I ended up homeless in the streets of London.

The fact that I was only 19, alone with no family, friends or roof over my head I went through very severe bullying as a refugee and someone who sought safe haven in UK from the atrocities of civil war.

I became very depressed and very suicidal and actually attempted suicide as back then I thought there was nothing more to lose.

While I was in the lowest point of my life, I also began to question myself and my identity. I began to question why I am here, how come many of my comrades died and I survived, and what is it I can do to take back the direction my life was going. I questioned everything about my life, my ability to speak, to be happy, be great and even to live a purposeful life.

But I know I was rescued by the many people that fortune put on my path. It is in their kindness, compassion, and love that I found the strength to overcome the post war depression, the fears from living my life in a limbo, and from not knowing if I will ever see my family again.

Despite feeling hopeless, despite feeling as if I was not valuable, worthy, and despite feeling like I didn’t want to live on this planet anymore, deep down I felt a connection with something greater than I have ever experienced before. It is this inner voice that spoke up to me, it is the love that many people showered me with that became the light that started to shine my path from the darkness that had enveloped my heart.

I knew then I had to listen to my inner voice and the many people that God put on my path or I would end up losing the life that I was born to live. The point here is that I was not strong enough to use my voice, so the many people who fortune put on my path became my voice that slowly started to take me into hope, gratitude, and access my greatness.

I was strong enough to tell few of the people I had developed trusts of my suicidal thoughts, but I was not strong enough to ask for help outright. By making the choice to listen to this inner voice, I saved my life.

If you are someone going through feeling hopeless, acknowledge within yourself the voice that knows that no matter what you are going through, you have a voice and you are important. You too can connect to your authentic voice, listen to your cry for help that can help you prevent from potentially feeling overwhelmed, depressed, and in the worst case scenario commit suicide.

Thus, the importance of using your voice, have coach, or a mentor to help you through this journey is priceless. It could save your life or even the life of a friend. We have all heard it before the saying “There is a light at the end of that tunnel.” The truth is that back then, at the age of twenty, with no family, no income, and no friends my tunnel was black, and so was the many people I came across on my frequent trips to the Home Office in Croydon.

Remember, no matter what you are going through in your life, you are a voice, an authentic being, and you are important. Use your voice. It is the only thing that is uniquely yours that can help you communicate the greatness that lives in every cell of your body. It could save your life. It could save the life of a friend, and it could save your relationship too. Either way, when you’re feeling helpless you need to listen to your voice and the ALARMs that your body is sending you and make sure you communicate them to someone. That is the only way anybody will ever know you need help, that you need support. It’s okay to need that, it’s not okay to not voice your need.

To unleash your greatness be ready to act on those emotions that can put you in the prison of your creation and do what the greatest achievers do in order to rise to be the best in world in their work and personal lives.

To help those who get a thrill in wanting to make the choice to go from hopelessness to greatness in their own lives, in their way of being, as well as create lives they adore I created TJS Evolutionary Method: The ALARM and TJS Meditation Solutions that you can learn this powerful tool that you can use to achieve greatness in all of the eight key areas of life: Spiritual, mental, Emotional, Physical, Business, finances, relationships and money.

Meditation is scientifically proven to aid your healing process, you can download them directly from ITunes, you can get your copy of the book and find the links to these powerful meditations by going to http://www.apathtowisdom.com

And I know you totally get that your days (and mine) are numbered. So this day’s the right day to start living FULL ON…

With this outcome in mind, I spent many hours reflecting on and then writing 5 of my best ideas for living in a way that will cause you to be in your greatness and make history…

May these 5 insights fuel your rise. And transform your inner game…‎

#1. ‎Dream up a vision so brave it makes all around you roll with laughter. Or reply with ridicule.

#2. Care a lot more about how many people you help than how helpless you feel inside.

#3. Become the master of your craft. The undisputed titan of your field. And–quite simply–the best there ever was.

#4. Protect your pristine reputation. It’s an asset of priceless value. And each day, make your good name worth even more by doing acts of excellence, work that astonishes and gestures that inspire.

#5. When you feel helpless, feel the pain. And then make a choice to stand up. You were born for victory. Use failure as your fuel to propel you to your greatness.

If you are ready to balance your emotions, overcome procrastination, and get deeper within your consciousness to find the root cause of you feeling hopeless, take the next step and book yourself a two hour clarity coaching consultation and let me help you in your journey to unleashing your greatness. To book click Here!

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Ok. That’s it for today. Worked hard on this post. Hope it is super valuable, inspirational, and the following five steps are actionable! Until next time, let me take this opportunity to say a big thank you and I love you to all the wonderful team at The Inspired Stage for creating a platform for speakers to Inspire People from all walks of life to be their greatness. In my next book #Loneliness The Virus of The Modern Age I go into much deeper on the global issues that we are all facing now and in the many years to come.

Believe in the call on your life to do amazing things…make today, that day you listen to your call to Greatness!

Be great, awesome, and healthy,

Drinking good fresh made green juice that my very dear friend Farhan kindly brought over for me last night and listening to my heart’s calling as I write this message to you.

The first hints of Spring fill the air. The sun is shining, the trees are smiling, and the parks are filling with color. As I look from the window I see a pigeon resting on a tree branch, enjoying the warmth of the sun, and despite the occasional wind blowing, it remaining its perfect balance, calmness, and stillness. As if the pigeon was there just for me, observing me, keeping me company, and reminding me of the importance of silence and the tranquillity I get each morning when I meditate.

And this new season brings with it gifts, blessings and opportunities… but, don’t be fooled, they do not just come to you because of some Universal Law, anything you are experiencing is a result of your own making. You are a creator of your life, imagine who would you be if you knew this wisdom at a very young age, you were empowered, inspired, and nurtured to remain in your flow.

In my thinking, we’re on the beginning of this year. Just a few months left to go before the summer, this is a great opportunity to re-asses, rethink, and re-plan your lives.

It is what I did in the last three days with the world renowned human behavioural specialist Dr John Demartini. Having spent last 25 years taking my life from living on the streets, working in cafes, bars, restaurants, retail shops, to building a very successful IT career and then becoming an Elite Life Coach, Best Selling Author and a heart centred Entrepreneur, I know what it takes to become a Global inspired teacher that John is.

After attending The Break Through Experience, seeing the results, and the shifts I experienced in two long days, I knew it unlocked the parts of my consciousness that despite the experiences, the knowledge, and the wisdom accrued kept me in the prison of my own creation.

I finally left the corporate world in 2011, since then, I have delivered over 25,000 coaching hours, run over 20 workshops, and assisted so many people from all walks of life in UK and Internationally resolve many spiritual, mental, physical, emotional, relationship, financial, business and love challenges.

I completed my business accelerator program called KPI-Become a Key Person of Influence run by Darshana Ubl and Daniel Priestley and published my book A Path to Wisdom: How to live a balanced, healthy and peaceful life. Within six months it became a best seller and started to recieve thank you messages from so many souls around the world.

I knew I had transcended the many teachers and coaches I had worked so far as some of them started to become my private clients. Having done most of the Anthony Robbins courses, attended few of his events, learning many healing disciplines, my vision of who I am and what I am here to do kept expanding exponentially.

Before attending The Break Through Experience, I saw many of the John’s talks on many YouTube videos. I spent years learning many disciplines to help me in my spirit guided mission to be of a Global service to humanity. One night, I meditated, entered a deep space of stillness, and in that moment the my heart told me that to realize my big vision I must meet with this man and study his work.

So I did, back then, with no job in sight, I did not have the finances to pay for it, I remember after his talk my friend Daniel and I approached him to see if we could get a discount if we signed up together. He said kindly but firmly no, I knew in that moment that this man means not only business, but also he values himself, is extremly wise, knowledgeable, and devoted his life to help humanity, he was on the same call that my heart was very familiar with.

A call that has been with me since I can remember and one that would not leave me alone until I listened and honoured it. I went outside, approached his team of assistants, gave them my Virgin American Express Card that I keep for rainy days and booked the course.

Looking back, it turned out to be one of the best decision I made. A decision that lead to many opportunities, to giving myself permission to shine, be more, and achieve more. With all of my personal or business clients I now bring additional tools, wisdom, and knowledge that add tremendous value to thier lives. Learnign from John has helped me in all spheres of my Life, in my writings, and in my inspired heart driven mission.

Remember, deep inside your mind, heart and soul, you too have an inspired purpose, dream, vision and calling, that you would love to bring into reality and to the world. But if you are like me, while you are evolving along the journey of creating your dream, you occasionally run into mental, emotional, or physical roadblocks.

These roadblocks or hindering states of challenge or chaos can arise from not having your life organized and prioritized in such a manner that you have assisted yourself in attaining or fulfilling your desired mission. The Master Planning for Life – Life Organizer three day weekend with Dr John Demartini. is a well worth investment. It assisted me in clarifying even more the visions that I see every time I am in that space of stillness. It was also a great confidence boost to share that vision with John and pick his brains to clarify certain aspects of it.

I know from personal expereince it will help you too fulfil what is truly most important to your body, mind, heart and soul. I now look forward to attending The Prophecy Experience and continue to learn and be more to everyone I serve.

…excellent if you started strong in life and have all of your needs met. But if like me you went through all the struggles, you will know that what makes mastery is how wow you END it…

And the best way to predict how you’ll finish this year within the epic we call your life are the choices you’ll make today.

So, with great respect and encouragement I ask you…on this fine day, will you…

• Listen in silence to your hearts calling so you’re amped and on fire with energy?

Protect your focus and just concentrate monomaniacally on purely what matters?

Dig deep when it’s hard and deliver when it’s tough?

Aim for legendary, hold yourself to Dr Demartini’s-Level standards and reach for the highest in everything you do?

Think highest thoughts and speak good words?

Be radically helpful, acutely of use to other humans and walk with love in your heart?

And–TODAY–will you learn something new, will you be grateful for what you have, will you acknowledge who you are?…

…you’re smart, strong and talented…so you get that all it takes are a few fresh insights, practiced consistently over time, to completely change the direction of your life. Forever…

…a massive commitment to learning and a love of knowledge is a game-changer…because as you know more you can achieve more. It is for this reason that I created TJS Evolutionary Method that I now use in my day to day helping clients resolve personal, business, health, emotional, love, or spiritual life challenges.

…people who have read the book, done the exercises were stunned by the wealth of value, original insights and raised their vibration required for you to unlock your magnificent selves. Some now are personal clients that are like to continue with their personal, professional, and spiritual development to quench thier thirst for wisdom, for love, and for shining their inner light.

…in case you missed it, here is the link where you can download it now by clicking HERE or you can also get a signed hard copy directly from me.

…if you want to know what your true calling is, daily meditation can help, here is a heart centering meditation that you can do daily, download this meditation and let it take you on an inner journey to create inner stillness that is needed for you to listen to your hearts voice. Let me take this opportunity to say a big thank you to my vocal coach Anthony Wade who’s speaker and vocal training has been extremly valueable in creating these meditations that help you increase your vibration and elevate your inner being. To expereince the magic that Anthony Wade brings into my life, I highly recommend to book yourself in one of his Immersion Days, you can do so by clicking HERE.

Hope all this information I’ve worked countless hours to create for you whilst watching the pigeon outside my window peacefully meditating is fuelling your inspiration, productivity, happiness and contribution to the construction of a better world.

I’m here to help, serve, and inspire. Make that call and listen to your soul.

Your light soul partner, I Love you and thank you. ,

Tony J Selimi,

Elite Life Coaching for Inspired Living.,

This past week I have been following Invictus Games the new international sporting event for wounded, injured and sick Servicemen and women.

It may not have quite caught the imagination of the nation the way the Paralympics did but it has been the scene of some heroic endeavour and brought out heavyweight pop and rock names for a good cause.

You may be asking yourself, what can an entrepreneur learn from this amazing sporting event? Well, frankly, quite a lot… With Prince Harry as its patron, the Invictus Games pitched into existence through collaboration, a lot of hard work, and being persistent.

Prince Harry’s speech at the closing ceremony moved and inspired every participant, viewer and anyone who was watching from home. For sure it moved me, in many ways.

With so many challenges throughout my life, I learned how to be Invictus, fearless and commit to my entrepreneurial journey. My dad always told me: “Tony, you can cut back on other things, but never on your education. Always fill your life with books.”

Like many people I grew up with, I strived to be great, but working with so many coaches, teachers, healers my appetite grew bigger and started to aspire to an even higher standard…

…to become the best coach and world renown healer, speaker and Author there ever was.

Watching the Invictus Games was another reminder of how important is to play the real game, to be yourself, and to believe in the dream you are creating.

The TJS Evolutionary Method: The ALARM is a valuable tool that I now use with my clients and take them through some of my most advanced thinking on this point and walk them through the mental model I’ve created to sustain people’s motivation, discover their true life purpose and greatness through a 5 step Method.   

Until you read the book, please allow me to share some core ideas to help you sustain Invictus Entrepreneur spirit every day:

1. Start with your mindset. You may have heard this many times now, but your performance in the world is simply the result of the things you believe. If you really don’t think you’re the kind of person who produces epic results or becomes uber-fit or creates a financial fortune or elevates entire communities, then you’re just not going to do what it takes to make these visions real…

…Try it for yourself, change your private story about your potential and your behaviour changes by itself. Each section of my book helps you begin within. Always, it is the reflection of our inner world that we observe in our outer reality.

2. Know your Limits and Clear out your constraints. So many of us want to sustain our Invictus Entrepreneurial Spirit over an entire career versus being one hit wonders. But, instead we fill our lives with so many energy drains and constraints that we never create greatness that endures.

My encouragement: identify what and who drains your energy, delete the energy vampires from your life, clean out all complexity, build a team around you that frees you to fly, remove anything toxic and cherish simplicity. Because that’s where genius lives.  

3. Surround yourself with the best. The more you associate yourself with successful people, the more you start to be smart and talented. So get this simple truth, the calibre of your associations determines the level of your success… I grew up in Macedonia, there is an old saying: tell me who your friends are I will know who you are..

…some intelligent research has been done on the drivers of exceptional performance. Recently I attending the Trust Conference founded by Roger Hamilton and Michelle Clark and did Talent Dynamics Profile Assessment. Being a Star Profile it gave me the clarity on the kind of team and people I need to surround myself to be my best.

…in other words, associating with others aiming to become world-class lifts up–and sustains–your Invictus Entrepreneurial Spirit. To make the final months of this year the single best months in the history of your entire life, you absolutely must commit to having conversations–and building alliances–with people who are a few levels above you.

In April i launched my first book “A Path to Wisdom-How to live a balanced, healthy and peaceful life.” Since then, not only changes peoples’ lives around the world, but also it has inspired many Entrepreneurs to achieve highest level of success, wealth, decency and be of service to our world.

I have spoken at various events, travelled to many countries to work with private clients and helped many entrepreneurs with their businesses. 

I would like to take this opportunity and thank everyone at KPI Business Accelerator Program and my publisher Mindy Gibbins-Klein for helping me be an Invictus Entrepreneur and a Key Person of Influence.

Some who have read my book took the insights and advanced tools and raised their personal lifestyles to the point where they feel healthy, inspired and achieved true freedom for the first time in decades.

…You may now wonder where this journey its taking me next…

4: Keep developing and training. I have seen it with so many of my clients as well as occasionally with myself how easy it is to get to a great place and then slow down on your practice protocols. But the very best of the best practice even harder as they become more successful…

With the Help of my personal friend and vocal coach Anthony Wade also known as DR Voice I’m now turning my focus to complete my TJS Evolutionary Meditation Solutions. This is a set of tools and meditations designed to help people overcome fears, stress, anxiety and pave the way for inner peace, balance and healing.

If you have been inspired and ready to be Invictus Entrepreneur, get in touch now to book your Clarity Coaching Consultation and start your journey to being your best that you can be.

…If like me you love the old movies, you would remember what the Spartan warriors taught us: “sweat more in practice and you’ll bleed less at war.”

That’s it for now, I truly hope that this message serves–and fuels–your ascent up to amazing…

…I’m here to help, coach, develop and inspire your Invictus Entrepreneurial Journey…over the long run.

So together we get you to your finest life. You just deserve no less than enjoying your best.

P.S. VERY IMPORTANT…

…Congratulations to everyone who downloaded my Awaken and Open Your Heart Meditation, do this meditation daily to build an iconic heart based business and live a life that makes history….

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Use this guided meditation to tap into your heart space and center your inner self by helping you connect to the source of your awareness in its purest form. Release tensions, any disharmony in your body, and heal any parts of your body with healing white light and the healing power of your heart.

You will awaken into a conscious awareness feeling energised, loved, calm and revived – and able to tackle the challenges that lie in your way.

Some that i personaly coach have rewired their mindset for deep gratitude, daily happiness and their finest health of their lives. The success stories still pour in…

Ok… the point being….

…it would have been so easy for me to drop the game, morale and not try… …but I know “comfort zone” is not really where I want to be.

Remember to download Heart Awakening Meditation from ITunes or The Velvet Journey Website and start your day feeling relaxed, inspired and euphoric.

Lastly, please make sure you sign up to receive inspirational monthly newsletter full of great advice, topics and updates on my journey as well as the schedule of my talks, events and workshops.

With much love, respect and appreciation,

Tony J Selimi
Elite Life and Business Success Coach, Mentor, Healer and Author.

Kindly note you can do one more thing and write a review of my book on Amazon World as well as on Amazon UK. As a thank you, book a healing, coaching or a mentoring session with me in September and enjoy 20% off.

I love you and thank you for helping me with my mission to reach, inspire and touch the lives of more than 10 Million people by end of this year.

This is one of the most common fears faced by millions worldwide. You can notice its presence in your life by becoming aware if you can accept yourself for who you are today, but deep down, you’re worried about changing and losing yourself.

You’re reluctant to push for more money at work because you’re afraid spirituality and wealth don’t mix. Or it may be because people may know you as a good person, but you’re rarely described as charismatic or forward-thinking.

By sticking to who you are instead of who you could be, you miss out on various career and financial opportunities. When you see people with the abundance you know you could have, you may experience an uncontrollable feeling of resentment towards them.

This fear, just like the fear of unworthiness I spoke about in the previous article, doesn’t affect you all the time, but it can still do some damage when you least expect it.

So let’s dig deeper and see what happens to you when you’re affected by the fear of losing your identity?

So let us dig deeper and see what happens to you when you’re affected by the fear of losing your identity?

• If you’re affected by this fear, you may be able to accept yourself for who you are today – but subconsciously, you’re constantly worried about changing and losing yourself along the way.
• You’re reluctant to push for more money at work because you’re afraid spirituality and wealth don’t mix.
• People may know you as a competent person, but you often doubt you have what it takes to be wealthy.
• By sticking to who you are instead of who you could be, you miss out on various career and financial opportunities.
• When you see people with the abundance you know you could have, you may experience an uncontrollable feeling of resentment towards them.

What happens when you’re unaffected by the fear of losing identity?

• You speak your truth and become authentic.
• You’ll naturally gravitate towards career and life choices that grow you.
• You’ll become more aware of your infinite potential and how you can achieve it, not just of who you are.
• You’ll more often find yourself in a state of optimal flow, where you’re both happy at the moment and looking forward to your future.
• You become a better leader, manager, friend, partner, son, husband, brother, dad, uncle, etc. You start to live and create your life from your heart.

Click here to start learning more empowering ways to transform your life. In the meantime, grab your copy of “A Path to Wisdom” to help you eliminate the fears that are holding you back from living a more aware, abundant, and authentic life.

In the following article, I will be talking to you about the impact that “Fear of Change” has on your life and how this fear keeps you small, stuck in your prison and how your life would be when you transcend and overcome this fear. Sign up for my newsletter by clicking here to be kept informed and start receiving articles to inspire you to go deep within and start knowing who you are, how you operate, and how you can tune your body for optimal living.

You can also get in touch and book me to deliver a “#Fear2Freedom” workshop to your organisation, clients or a two-hour Fear2Freedom Coaching Consultation and learn to say goodbye to fear and say Hello to your newfound Freedom.

As your coaching and training partner, our focus will be for you to become confident, energised, productive, healthy, wealthy and wise.

To your joy, success and happiness,

Tony J. Selimi