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					<description><![CDATA[Dear growth seeker, Thank you for choosing to invest your time in reading this article about the importance of transformative leadership and growing the most precious asset you will ever possess - You. So many of you have messaged me here on my website, LinkedIn, Instagram, Facebook and on WhatsUp to ask me to share  [...]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[Tony J. Selimi <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/why-unleashing-the-power-of-transformational-leadership-matters/">Why Unleashing The Power of Transformational Leadership Matters</a> <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/author/admin/">Tony J. Selimi</a><p>Dear growth seeker,</p>
<p>Thank you for choosing to invest your time in reading this article about the importance of transformative leadership and growing the most precious asset you will ever possess &#8211; <strong>You.</strong></p>
<p>So many of you have messaged me here on my website, LinkedIn, Instagram, Facebook and on WhatsUp to ask me to share some insights on the recent most spoken two topics that affect every human being &#8211; Will Smith&#8217;s violent response after the comedian Chris Rock made a joke about his wife Jada Pinkett Smith which not only shocked the live audience at the Oscars but also sparked media attention around the world and the invasion of Ukraine. So I decided to write this article and share my thoughts in a way that can start the so needed leadership conversations not only in every business and organisation but also in governments around the world.</p>
<p>Both incidents mentioned above are great examples of the destructive power of our inability to control ourselves when emotions, biases, and judgment get the best of us. Perhaps it is time to shape the narratives around the kind of distraction we as human beings and what Authoritarian and Transactional Leadership are capable of. But it is also a great example of how the same distraction can create a rippling effect of uniting leaders to step up and focus on the safety, growth and protection of their people and the very same foundation upon which democracy is built.</p>
<p>The Ukrainian leader Volodymyr Oleksandrovych Zelensky, a former actor and comedian who became the sixth and incumbent president of Ukraine, is an excellent example of the traits of Transformational Leadership. He rose to the challenges he as an individual faced when the war in Ukraine started, but he also managed to mobilise his people to fight one of the strongest armies in the world and managed to galvanise the EU and NATO leaders to step up their game.</p>
<p>The truth is&#8230;</p>
<p><strong>Transformational leaders are focused on the safety, wellbeing, growth and development of their people. They set clear expectations, honour commitments, and keep their employees accountable to goals. Transformational leadership has been shown to result in higher morale, decreased turnover, greater motivation (both for the leader and for team members), more innovation and creativity, increased productivity, better communication between employees and management, improved performance in high-stress situations (such as emergencies), increased trust among employees and higher earnings for the company as a whole.</strong></p>
<p>As an employee or a manager, you&#8217;re already great at hitting your deadlines, completing projects on time and under budget, and maintaining positive relationships with your direct reports. But when there&#8217;s a big, hairy project that needs to be completed—like launching a new product or implementing an organisational change—that&#8217;s where you fall short. You feel like you&#8217;re spinning your wheels trying to rally the troops. You don&#8217;t know what steps to take to get out of this rut and gain traction.</p>
<p>One of the main benefits to use coaching, training, and development as an empowering tool to activate leadership in everyone in your organisation is this:</p>
<p><strong>Transformational Leaders Are Excellent at Asking Quality Questions and at Listening.</strong></p>
<p>They ask questions to understand how people feel about a situation. They ask questions to help people get to the root of a complex problem. They ask questions to help people find solutions. They ask questions that help <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/five-vital-steps-successful-people-use-to-help-master-your-life/">people move forward in life</a>, whether it is by identifying their blind spots or providing direction and inspiration for a new way forward.</p>
<p>What better way to transform your people than by asking questions that will help them think outside the box, consider new perspectives and improve their performance, decision-making and communication?</p>
<p>For instance, in The Unfakeable Code®, I share more about what questions could you ask your people to help them rethink their approach to a provocation or a project? What questions could you ask them to encourage them to take off the mask and be open to exploring new ideas or looking at things differently? What questions could you ask that would help them make more effective decisions? Or communicate more effectively with customers or colleagues?</p>
<p>Another reason to promote authentic leadership in your organisation is this:</p>
<p><strong>Transformational Leaders Are Excellent at Empowering Others.</strong></p>
<p>Empowerment is a simple concept to understand. It means giving people the freedom to make decisions and act on them. Empowerment is essential in an organisation since the manager won&#8217;t always be there to guide others, so they need to be empowered to make their own decisions.</p>
<p>Over the years, I have had the pleasure to <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/product/clarity-coaching-consultation/">coach and mentor businesses</a> from all market sectors and leaders of some of the fortune 500 companies to create a culture where empowerment thrives by building trust within the board,  teams, and every employee in the organisation. As we worked together on achieving their objectives, every client has realised <strong>how trust and empowerment go hand in hand;</strong> if you don&#8217;t trust someone, you&#8217;re unlikely to empower them with decision-making authority.</p>
<p>In our professional careers, we all come across transactional leaders and managers. They are perceived as inauthentic, dull, and unworthy of our trust because of how they act, behave, and treat the people they manage. Such leaders don&#8217;t get many opportunities to practice being exciting and original, so they stay disempowered.</p>
<p>With enough encouragement, coaching, and training, anyone can be anything. So why not invest in activating leadership across your entire organisation?</p>
<p><strong>Transformational Leaders Inspire Vision and Purpose.</strong></p>
<p>You may have heard the old saying, &#8220;dance like no one is watching.&#8221; Maybe you&#8217;ve said it yourself. Dancing like no one is watching has become a cliché for letting go, but what if it were more than just a feel-good adage?</p>
<p>What if dancing like no one was watching was the first step toward achieving something you want – dancing on Broadway, winning an Olympic medal, or just shedding a few pounds and feeling better about yourself?</p>
<p>Most <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/five-vital-steps-successful-people-use-to-help-master-your-life/">people are afraid to take that first step</a> because they&#8217;re worried about what other people will think. But we believe there&#8217;s a real opportunity to achieve your goals if you ignore everyone else and focus on what you want.</p>
<p><strong>Transformational Leaders Encourage Innovation.</strong></p>
<p>Good leaders are open-minded, and this openness is a crucial part of what makes them suitable. They&#8217;re willing to consider new ideas and ways, encouraging others to do the same. This makes it easier for their employees to think creatively, which can help the team address challenges or identify new opportunities.</p>
<p><strong>Transformational Leaders Set Challenging Goals.</strong></p>
<p>Transformational leaders set challenging goals and can mobilise people to achieve them. Volodymyr Zelensky, NATO and the EU are great examples of this. They also create a sense of urgency, setting deadlines and milestones to keep things on track. Finally, they empower followers by giving them the freedom to achieve the end in their way.</p>
<p>This doesn&#8217;t mean that you can say: &#8220;I have a great idea! We should build an Android Artificial Intelligence Powered phone!&#8221; Then hand the team a blank canvas, walk away and expect results. Setting challenging goals is essential but not enough; these leaders also ensure that followers understand their role in achieving the outcome and providing the necessary resources. Both NATO and the EU are giving Ukraine many resources to help them fight back Russia Invasion. And finally, they make sure team members have sufficient time for reflection to plan their next steps appropriately (rather than jumping from crisis to crisis).</p>
<p><strong>Transformational Leadership Assist in Creating Effective, Efficient and Energised Managers and Employees.</strong></p>
<p>In one of the companies, I was hired to assist them in addressing low productivity, poor performance, and high turnover staff issues. I observed how many did not like working for the company because they felt not listened to, not necessary, and did not want to face colleagues used to moaning, criticising, and bringing other people down. Their leaders were not listening to what everyone in the company felt, which many found to be demoralising and destructive.</p>
<p>What I did as their coaching partner was to clarify the behaviours that fuel transactional leadership and management and use it to:</p>
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<li><a title="Consulting, Coaching and Business Mentoring" href="https://tonyselimi.com/product/clarity-coaching-consultation/"><strong>Motivate and inspire staff to achieve their full potential</strong></a></li>
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<li><strong>Create a positive and supportive environment</strong></li>
<li><strong>Encourage teamwork, innovation and collaboration</strong></li>
<li><strong>Set challenging and values-driven goals</strong></li>
<li><strong>Improve employee&#8217;s mental health, performance and wellbeing</strong></li>
<li><strong>Grow their reputation, productivity and profits</strong></li>
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<p>I love travelling the world and assisting others in creating transformational results. One thing that inspired me throughout my life to keep learning, growing, and sharing my gifts for the benefit of others is what my father, a successful restaurateur told me as I was growing up:</p>
<p><strong>&#8220;My son, if you want your <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/events/master-class-learn-the-most-potent-secret-for-growing-6-9-figure-businesses/">business to grow, then assist others to grow</a> by leading by example.&#8221;</strong></p>
<p>You&#8217;ve just read about the <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/why-unleashing-the-power-of-transformational-leadership-matters/">transformative leadership</a> possible for you and your organisation. Now it&#8217;s time to take the next step and get started on your path to being a <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/why-unleashing-the-power-of-transformational-leadership-matters/">transformative leader and activating leadership</a> across your entire business.</p>
<p>Get in touch with me today! As your coaching partner, it will be an honour to work on addressing the issues that cause you headaches, pain, and frustrations and get you the clarity, the tools, and the plan that begins to grow you and your employees into the best transformational leader possible. You&#8217;ll learn practical ways and skills that will help you to inspire your employees and elevate them above their peers at competing companies while also inspiring yourself as a leader.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s no reason your organisation can&#8217;t become the market leader, and I love sharing how to get the results and where you want to be by becoming a transformative leader.</p>
<p>Love and Wisdom</p>
<p><a title="Tony J Selimi Bio" href="https://tonyselimi.com/tony-j-selimi-bio/">Tony J. Selimi</a> &#8211; Award-Winning Author, Speaker, and Transformational Live and Business Coach Specialising in Human Behaviour, Leadership Excellence, and Maximising Human Potential. Winner of the London SME Most Visionary Entrepreneur 2020 award, Corporate Coaching and Recruitment Business Coach of the Year 2021 Award, Silver Winner of Literary Book Award 2021, and Maincreast Media Book Award 2021 for A Path to Wisdom, #Loneliness, and The Unfakeable Code®.</p>
<p>PS – I work on a virtual basis and in-person with clients all over the globe, facilitating the realisation and accomplishment of personal, professional, and business goals. Here are four ways I can assist you in creating life-changing breakthroughs, growth, and accelerating your journey to excellent health, influence, transformational leadership and success.</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[As the end of 2016 approaches, it is perfect time reflect on the year passed by, revaluate our life, and start planning the year ahead. If you are ready to take the reins of your life and in need of some form of guidance then you have come to the rigth place. In this blog  [...]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[Tony J. Selimi <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/five-vital-steps-to-accelerate-your-success-in-2017/">Five Vital Steps to Accelerate Your Success in 2017</a> <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/author/admin/">Tony J. Selimi</a><p>As the end of 2016 approaches, it is perfect time reflect on the year passed by, revaluate our life, and start planning the year ahead.</p>
<p>If you are ready to take the reins of your life and in need of some form of guidance then you have come to the rigth place. In this blog I am going to share with you five vital steps to help you consciously decide what is going to be in store for you in 2017.</p>
<p>For many people out there 2016 has been a turbulent year full of uncertainty, fear, and unexpected events that equally shocked and awakened humanity in profound ways.</p>
<p>Throughout history we have had similar events that brought about all of the good and bad things we today love or like to criticise.</p>
<p>The truth is all that we observe in life is the creation of our collective consciousness, but our human awareness barely recognizes this. We have become blinded to the existence of a higher order, the intelligence that governs all life, the equilibrium that already is in place, and our individual contribution.</p>
<p>It is precisely this vail that I observe in many of my clients who seek my help to accelerate their human and business potential.</p>
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<p>Our brain is always balanced but our human awareness is blinded by our skewed perceptions and limiting beliefs. It is this that stops many people from <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/theartofcreatingyourdreamlife/">creating the life they truly want and dream</a> about.</p>
<p>All of the <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/five-vital-steps-successful-people-use-to-help-master-your-life/">successful people</a> that I have studied, been mentored by, and have come across know this. They all had mentors, coaches, and a great plan that they followed in order to achieve <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/the-five-step-formula-for-unprecedented-success/">unprecedented success</a> they now enjoy.</p>
<p>It is this same choice that I made back in 2010 that helped me <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/five-vital-steps-to-accelerate-your-success-in-2017/">accelerate my growth and create a very successful</a> global coaching, training, speaking, and consulting business that I now love.</p>
<p>We hear it all the time, been told by our parents, society, friends, etc that succeeding at anything you need to work hard and it takes a lot of time to achieve the results we want.</p>
<p><strong>Over the period of time they become our beliefs that subconsciously create the reality we so desperately want to change.</strong></p>
<p>It is this kind of outdated beliefs that are running programs in your subconscious mind that sabotage your success. Many of you fall in the same trap that your parents, friends, and other people around you might be caught.</p>
<p>What coaching did for me and can do for you is to help you change this, to bring to your conscious awareness your beliefs that sabotage everything you may be working hard to create.</p>
<p>To help you accelerate your success it is essential to work with someone who can be a clean mirror and a fine tuned ear that picks up traces of injected values and beliefs that may be incapacitating your inborn abilities to succeed.</p>
<p>Up to 2010 I used to work very long hours to make ends meet. Like most people around me I felt frustrated, fearful of what future has on hold for me, and lacked the direction my life was going to take.</p>
<p>What happened in the last six years forever changed the way I perceive and create my reality. Instead of working hard for the things I wanted to achieve in my life, I now live daily with new empowering beliefs that support me to work smarter. I now help people do the same so just like me they too are also able to create conscious quantum jumps that pitch into existence the things they truly want.</p>
<p>Here are the five vital steps I use daily, teach my clients, and you too can adopt to accelerate your human potential and help you focus, plan, and create your desired outcomes in 2017.</p>
<p><strong>Step 1: Clarify what Success means to You</strong></p>
<p>One of the major problems that most of my clients face is the lack of clarity behind the success they are seeking. Before you go to step two, take pen and paper and write down how your <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/five-vital-steps-successful-people-use-to-help-master-your-life/">life will change when you achieve the success</a> you are seeking. For instance if you want more money, write down what will you do once you had money, what meaning will those experiences have for you.</p>
<p><strong>Step 2: Create a Detailed Plan</strong></p>
<p>A plan is like a road map that shows you where you are now and the best route to use to get to where you want to be. Being a student of wisdom I love learning from Dr John Demartini. In one of his seminars I heard him say “Those who fail to plan, plan to fail&#8221;. It is this that inspired me to create my Vital Planning for Elevated Living document that helped me <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/accelerate-your-success-in-5-easy-steps/">accelerate my success</a> and has now become very popular coaching program that clients from all professional backgrounds use to plan their purpose driven life.</p>
<p>Don’t just think “I have a plan in my head”, the truth is you won’t remember all the little twists and turns along the road&#8230;write it down in black and white and in as much detail as you can. Each and every day, do at least one thing that will advance your progress toward the outcomes you want to achieve in 2017 and beyond.</p>
<p><strong>Step 3: Invest in Your Continues Learning</strong></p>
<p>My grandfather used to say to me, the water that does not flow becomes polluted. Similarly, if you are not continuously learning, your knowledge becomes outdated and toxic for your body-mind and heart. Learn everything you can about what inspires you, invest in you by working with an expert to help you advance your learning. Knowledge is power. Surround yourself with people that achieved the success you are seeking, and find ways to serve people who are seeking the knowledge and the success you already have achieved.<br />
<strong>Step 4: Find a Great Role Model, Coach or a Mentor</strong></p>
<p>If you start to associate with someone who has succeeded in the field you are pursuing, associate yourself as closely as you can with that person. Get them to be your mentor, coach, or find ways to be of service to them. First-hand knowledge is more valuable than any other kind. Successful people have already made mistakes and they can help you avoid some pitfalls. They can open doors for you that would remain firmly closed without their help.</p>
<p>The truth is, the more you learn about yourself, the more you can organize this information in ways that you can easily access when you need it. The more you invest in your personal and business development, the faster you will grow. Continues investment in myself helped me become a <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/social-cognition-the-solution-to-global-problems/">global expert in human behaviour and cognition</a> known as The See-Through Coach. A best-selling and five times award-winning author who now loves helping the owners of 6,7,8 and 9 <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/events/master-class-learn-the-most-potent-secret-for-growing-6-9-figure-businesses/">figure businesses</a> resolve problems, advance their learning, and accelerate their results whatever they may be.<br />
<strong>Step 5: Take Action and Apply What You Learn</strong></p>
<p>I come across so many amazing people who have spent years of learning that are struggling in their life. The only thing that stops them is not having the clarity required in order for them to apply what they know and take the appropriate action to <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/the-mindset-billionaires-use-to-achieve-success/">achieve the success</a> they want. Make sure you use the knowledge that you gain from your coach, mentor, seminars you attend or from doing your own research and put it into action now.</p>
<p>The overnight <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/five-vital-steps-successful-people-use-to-help-master-your-life/">success people</a> observe in me happened because I chose daily to not take &#8220;no&#8221; for an answer. When I get knocked down&#8230;I tell yourself to get up. When a door closes&#8230;I find ways to crawl through a window. If you too did what successful people do, you too one day end up becoming an overnight success in the eyes of those who did not take action during the time you kept trying.</p>
<p>If you find yourself stuck in situations that stress you out or make you frustrated, take action now and make 2017 the year you accelerate your success. If you have procrastinated about stuff for months or even years &#8211; perhaps being more confident, address <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/events/mindfulness-the-medicine-for-physical-emotional-and-mental-wellness/">mental or emotional</a> issues, getting fit, starting your own business or finding a loving partner &#8211; why not make 2017 the year you really go for it!</p>
<p>If your life has been a bit flat for a while, make 2017 the year you embrace something amazing! Experience the world in a different way, step out of your comfort zone, be daring.</p>
<p>I have a selection of Coaching Programs that together with my signature five day Vital Planning for Elevated Living Program will help you get your life back on track, do what you love and be abundantly rewarded, so what are you waiting for?</p>
<p>Schedule a clarity coaching consultation in 2017 and start taking back control of your life, your business, your organization.</p>
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<p>On that note, I wish you a fabulous start of the New Year, make sure you take action and encourage yourself to believe in your ability to change things in 2017!</p>
<p>Go for it! Make 2017 special and create the success you want. Make it the year you say, &#8220;Wow! That&#8217;s when it all changed, it’s the year I became successful!&#8221;</p>
<p>Here is to your joy, success and accelerated growth,</p>
<p>Tony J Selimi<div class="fusion-clearfix"></div></div></div></div></div>The post <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/five-vital-steps-to-accelerate-your-success-in-2017/">Five Vital Steps to Accelerate Your Success in 2017</a> first appeared on <a href="https://tonyselimi.com">Tony J. Selimi</a>.]]></content:encoded>
					
		
		
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					<description><![CDATA[If you agree that Mastery is an inner process of transformation from the inside out then you have come to the right place. You are not alone...Many people around the world including celebrities such as George Clooney, President Obama, Hillary Clinton, Angelina Jolie, Oprah, even the new president elect Donald Trump experience the feeling of being  [...]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[Tony J. Selimi <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/five-vital-steps-successful-people-use-to-help-master-your-life/">Five Vital Steps Successful People Use to Help MASTER Your Life</a> <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/author/admin/">Tony J. Selimi</a><p><strong>If you agree that Mastery is an inner process of transformation from the inside out then you have come to the right place. </strong></p>
<p>You are not alone&#8230;Many people around the world including celebrities such as<strong> George Clooney, President Obama, Hillary Clinton, Angelina Jolie, Oprah, even the new president elect Donald Trump</strong> experience the feeling of being stuck, isolated, and becoming uncertain about their future.</p>
<p>This also was the case with me six years ago when I faced redundancy. Looking back, I had to <strong>face the fears, the shame, and the loneliness</strong> that came as I embarked on a never ending emotional roller coaster that each passing day dragged me deeper in the caves of solitude being tied up with unbreakable chains that kept me imprisoned in the prison of my own creation.</p>
<p>As I hit rock bottom, I decided to purchase every personal development program out there. I also started to attend talks, seminars, and workshops in the hope to take ownership of the direction my life was going. I continued to work with my coach, mentor, and the various healers to help me heal from within.</p>
<p>It was also during this time that I came across <a href="https://drdemartini.com">Dr John Demartin</a>i whose programs, guidance and mentorships alongside the <a href="http://www.keypersonofinfluence.com/aff/uk/?p=tsel&amp;w=bkpi">KPI Program (Business Accelerator Nine Months Program) </a>helped me create the breakthroughs that lead me to create a very successful coaching, training, and speaking business that I now enjoy and love.</p>
<p>Having travelled the world with coaching successful private clients, I got to understand how I and most people on this planet operated from the victim/rescuer/observer role. It is this that places us on an emotional roller coaster that only the unhealthy part of our ego enjoys.</p>
<p>This got me thinking and took me on another inner self discovery journey. I went to see my spiritual teacher John of God in Brazil and spend three weeks meditating at the casa asking God, the spirits, and the Universe to help me create a unique methodology that billions of people around the world can use to let go the victim mindset of their past and become masters of their destiny.</p>
<p>As part of my <a href="http://www.keypersonofinfluence.com/aff/uk/?p=tsel&amp;w=ffyb">KPI program</a>, to raise my profile and be able to reach more people I had to write a book. My first attempt was disastrous, I felt pushed and what I wrote did not resonate with my heart. Although many people told me the book was amazing, my heart new I had to write the manual for humanity that since childhood I have been thinking about.</p>
<p>Despite the investment in money, energy and time made so far, I decided to <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/events/book-writing-retreat-lets-do-it-in-italy/">write the book</a> that felt close to my heart. I hired my publisher Mindy Gibbins-Klein as my book coach to help me focus and keep me accountable throughout my writing process.</p>
<p>I started to <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/events/book-writing-retreat-lets-do-it-in-italy/">write my first book</a> A Path to Wisdom from my Pimlico flat, as I got hired to coach clients around the world, my writing continued in some amazing locations that many of my successful UK and international clients love to take me.</p>
<p>The book writing continued during the time I was coaching clients in the island of Hvar in Croatia, Essaouira and Marrakech in Morocco, Swiss Alps, Macedonia, Kosovo, Germany, and the final draft was finished in Brazil at the Casa Dom Ignazio just before Christmas 2013.</p>
<p>Little I knew back then that three years down the line I would become an international award-winning and best-selling author of not only my first book <a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/Path-Wisdom-balanced-healthy-peaceful/dp/1909623571/ref=pd_bxgy_14_img_2?_encoding=UTF8&amp;psc=1&amp;refRID=780KJHT7S2AA7KNZQ6BM">A Path to Wisdom</a> but also my newly released book <a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/Loneliness-Virus-Modern-Age/dp/1504343999/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1480447934&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=%23loneliness">#Loneliness the Virus of The Modern Age</a>.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>As more people become aware to the truth that the outer world we experience is the external out-picturing of our internal thoughts, feelings and attitudes, the better our world becomes and the faster they become masters of their reality. It is this inner journey that is required for billions of people to take to become empowered to change their outer world experience of life whatever they may be. </strong></p></blockquote>
<p>The twenty five conscious engineering steps that I talk about in A Path to Wisdom are part of the <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/about/tjs-method/">TJS Evolutionary Method®</a> that I use to help personal, professional, and the owners of 6,7,8 and now even 9 figure business owners find solutions to their problems.</p>
<p>The method is set up in a way that helps people change their inner world first. In my humble opinion, we are here to be all we can be, to learn, expand, and accelerate our human potential. From studying, observing, coaching, and being with some very successful people I know that there is no other way..</p>
<p>For sure you know it already&#8230;&#8230;You always have the choice to stop playing the victim game but it takes a certain amount of courage to do so. It also takes for someone who has walked the talk to be a great mirror to help you polish your own mirror.</p>
<p>Here are the five vital steps you can use each day to <strong>Master Your Life.</strong></p>
<ol>
<li>See everything you experience as something that you created in order to grow spiritually from. Each and every day repeat to yourself this mantra I teach all of my clients: <strong>“I acknowledge that I am the master of my reality and equally embrace support and challenge.”</strong></li>
<li>When challenged by a situation or a person, remember its their pain, shame, or fear that speaks. <strong>Chose to see the Christ/Love/Light/Mohamed/Buddha Spirit within everyone and adjust your response accordingly.</strong></li>
<li>When you wake up ask yourself, how else can you serve the people you encounter each day. <strong>This will put you in a daily mode of practicing an attitude of gratitude.</strong></li>
<li><strong>Learn to Live in the NOW.</strong> Yes we all have things we want to have, achieve and create, it is the very same yearning to have things that stops you from living, being and loving the moment.</li>
<li><strong>You are a miracle, to unleash the wisdom you have make sure you invest in a coach/mentor/healer, etc.</strong> It is the best investment that reaps countless rewards.</li>
</ol>
<p>It is this consistent investment in me that I used to heal my body, balance my mind, <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/product/awaken-your-senses-master-your-emotions/">master my emotions,</a> and awaken my heart to the infinite wisdom of the love. It is what lead me become human behaviour expert globally known as The See-Through Coach who helps thousands of clients accelerate their personal and business growth.</p>
<p>It is my heart’s thirst to reach, educate, and heal the lives of one billion people that inspires me into action every awakening day. It is this mission and vision to be of service to humanity that recently got me to being interviewed in San Diego by legendary Brian Tracy and appear on ABC, NBC, CBS, Fox and their affiliate channels.</p>
<p>Now it&#8217;s up to you to <strong>use these Five Steps daily to grow in an ever-expanding spiral reality</strong>. This is really how the universe functions: Stars are like spirals of energy, we are those stars, so make sure repeat the cycle to learn, grow, and use the five vital steps shared all over again.</p>
<p>Be authentic, wealthy, and healthy,</p>
<p><strong>Tony J. Selimi</strong></p>
<p>P.S. Check out the events calendar to attend any of my talks and seminars in 2017. <strong>Get in touch to help you inspire your audience, book a consultation, or learn more about my work. You start reading, <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/events/master-class-learn-the-most-potent-secret-for-growing-6-9-figure-businesses/">learning and growing</a> by daily taking ACTION!</strong></p>The post <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/five-vital-steps-successful-people-use-to-help-master-your-life/">Five Vital Steps Successful People Use to Help MASTER Your Life</a> first appeared on <a href="https://tonyselimi.com">Tony J. Selimi</a>.]]></content:encoded>
					
		
		
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					<description><![CDATA[It's summertime in London, where ever you go you see trees, flowers, and bushes in full bloom. The leaves protect you from the hot summer sun. The warm breezes flow to cool you down from the heat radiating back at you from the heated concreate pathways, buildings, and other objects that easily store suns energy.  [...]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[Tony J. Selimi <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/five-attitudes-to-unleash-your-greatness/">Five Attitudes to Unleash Your Greatness</a> <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/author/admin/">Tony J. Selimi</a><p>It&#8217;s summertime in London, where ever you go you see trees, flowers, and bushes in full bloom. The leaves protect you from the hot summer sun. The warm breezes flow to cool you down from the heat radiating back at you from the heated concreate pathways, buildings, and other objects that easily store suns energy.</p>
<p>We are born great, yet we are taught otherwise. It is this thought that has occupied my mind from an early age that lead me to pursue a life time of learning, studying many life disciplines, and seeking great teachers that helped me in my journey to understand how to unleash the greatness in me, the infinite wisdom that deep down my heart knew I had, and live a meaningful life.</p>
<p>This journey of seeking the truth led me to travel the world and seek opportunities, possibilities, and people who were on a similar journey to not unleash their own greatness, but also to travel the world and teach others the love and the wisdom that is built in each and every one of us. </p>
<p>I know there are many teachers, prophets, and studies that have been around for years but one man that truly helped me integrate the work that started at a very young age is Dr <a href="https://drdemartini.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">John Demartini</a>.</p>
<p>Following a talk that Dr Demartini held in London I felt that this man was speaking all that I knew, as if he had gone inside my brain and was able to articulate everything that I then did find it very hard to do. </p>
<p>I attended his <a href="https://drdemartini.com/event/the-breakthrough-experience-sep-2015-london-london" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Breakthrough Experience</a> where I truly let go of the illusion that I held for many years. The story about my relationship with my mother that kept me imprisoned and deny myself the permission to be, shine, and pursue my dreams.</p>
<p>The shift I experienced was amazing, I was fortunate enough to have John as my surrogate during the collapse process, the room disappeared, and all I could see is my mum and me embodied by pure love. Tears of inspiration kept coming out of my eyes, my <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/product/open-your-heart-and-awaken-your-soul/">heart opened,</a> and I could see clearly the path ahead.</p>
<p>I knew John was absolutely relentless in his pursuit of truth, perfection, and greater understanding of life. A year passed by fast, many things started to shift in my life, most importantly I published my book A Path to Wisdom that within four months made it to the Number One List of Amazon Best Selling List in the Personal Development and Spiritual Development Categories. </p>
<p>My personal, family and professional life started to shift fast. As part of my ongoing commitment to my personal development as well as add more value to my clients, my heart knew I wanted to continue to learn from John.</p>
<p>I committed to attend his <a href="https://drdemartini.com/event/prophecy-i-experience-sep-2016-london-london" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Prophecy Experience</a> in Johannesburg, I paid for the course in advance, and few days down the line as if by magic I had a coaching request from a client from Johannesburg who having read my book him and his wife decided to fly me over to do some work together. Once again applying the wisdom John shares in his bestselling book “How to Make a Hell of a Profit and Still Go to Heaven” got me to see the magic that unleashes when we honour universal truths. </p>
<p>The Prophecy Experience in Johannesburg helped me witness the pure mastery born of an adult lifetime of learning, practice, and gorgeously expressing itself. </p>
<p>His commitment to his work, monomaniacal focus, study, and sacrifice allowed him to produce teachings that quenched my souls yearning for wisdom, truth, and unleashing the greatness I knew I had since I was a five year child. Each of the seven days John took us through in-depth study of each of the seven areas of life: Business, Mental, Emotional, Physical, Spiritual, Financial, and Relationship. </p>
<p>At the end of seven days intensive work, I felt my already thirty years of study were just given a full upgrade that was needed to go globally and share my work and wisdom to inspire others to embrace their greatness, truth, and love.  </p>
<p>So what did John teach me that created immense impact, achievement, and inspired me to go global and have a greater impact?</p>
<p>….It was the 5 Attitudes of Unleashing Your Inner Genius that I am about to share with you all</p>
<p>#1. Do The Work, Walk the Talk.</p>
<p>I do not come often <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/five-vital-steps-successful-people-use-to-help-master-your-life/">people who sleep on average five</a> hours a day, do a lot of research, and love what they do. John is not seeking fame, fortune, glory, or happiness. He is in pursue of universal truth and teaches how &#8220;Balance&#8221; just isn&#8217;t the game of most people playing at legendary performance. Their lives are all about their craft. It&#8217;s their true love, their greatest passion and their central mission. And because of this, they overcome the impatience, self-doubt, fear of stumbling and attraction to distraction that causes most of us to give up prior to genius showing up. </p>
<p>#2. Perfect Your Processes. </p>
<p>Observing John for real, watching all of his videos, and reading his books helped me get that elite performance that takes years of deep training. John sees himself as apprentice, learning the skill (often at the feet of a master) step by step, day by day until he perfects the process and then he goes on and teaches it. He just like me was committed to his education and overcome life adversities in pursue of universal truths. He has ritualized the discipline and now teaches is to those who are called to be more. Spending time with John, sharing few breakfast meetings got me to understand how greatness takes time to master, and I felt inspired to continue to write, learn, and teach all that I have learnt to my clients (Darwin had the devotion to study barnacles for 8 years as part of forging his scientific understanding). </p>
<p>#3. The Courageousness of Originality Is Living Your Dream.</p>
<p>John is no different to me, or you. Like many great teachers out there, he too went through a series of phases. He started as a beginner (every pro was once an amateur). In this period, watch the masters and copy their moves. With focus, grit and practice you too can reach the next part: technical brilliance. Attendees of Prophecy were delighted by John’s proficiency, so was I. As he continued with his teachings, he reached the final stage where he now globally teaches what he has learned. This is where world-class skill meets serious heart. I saw how John has the guts to express his own voice. Do his own thing. Misbehave in ways no one has ever seen or has the courage to do, his natural wit, charm, and love for his work left me <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/when-youre-truly-authentic-theres-no-such-thing-as-my-feelings-have-power-over-me/">feeling inspired to be even more authentic</a> in my teachings, writings and in showing my own greatness. This is the goal of every A-Player. To become a phenomenon, a legend, a timeless being. </p>
<p>#4. Access Your Inner Genius </p>
<p>You are born great, you know that it’s you inner play that prevents you from winning the game of your life. What I mean by this observation is that that being a genius is less about natural gifts than internal character. The titans of all time are not the smartest nor the most talented, the best of the best are those with the character traits that allow them to stick to the vision, transcend insecurity, endure the pain of intense practice and ignore the envious ridicule of their critics. It is what John, I and many of you must do to pursue your greatness, honour your life mission, and live purposeful. It is through accessing my inner genius that I am now bringing into this world my next book #Loneliness The Virus of The Modern Age due to be published in August. </p>
<p>#5 Invest in Your Personal and Spiritual Development</p>
<p>Driving a car without rear and mid mirror is dangerous to you and others on the road. Similarly for you to drive safely through your journey to greatness it is essential to find a teacher, coach, and a mentor that can be your mirrors through your journey to greatness. I am not talking about friend or people who offer you free advice, I am talking about you investing your money, time and energy in someone who can help you achieve the greatness you are seeking.</p>
<p>As a Speaker, Elite Life Coach, and a Spiritual Teacher I am committed to my personal and spiritual development. It is one of the many reasons that I will continue to invest in learning from the best teachers around the world such as Dr John Demartini so that I am constantly providing greater value to every client I am of service to. To unleash your greatness be ready to do what the greatest achievers do in order to rise to be the best in world in their work and personal lives. </p>
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<p>Ok. That&#8217;s it for today. Worked hard on this post. Hope it is super valuable, inspirational, and actionable! Until next time, let me take this opportunity to say a big thank you and I love you to DR John Demartini for all of the teachings you bring into this world, for the Prophecy Experience that helped me further acknowledge the lies that concealed my truth, for being an inspired teacher in my life, and for your time, love, and support by writing a foreword for my next book #Loneliness The Virus of The Modern Age.</p>
<p>Believe in the <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/your-life-is-your-call-awaken-and-make-that-call/">call on your life</a> to do amazing things&#8230;make today, that day you listen to your call to Greatness!</p>
<p><strong>P.S Photo taken by <a href="http://www.worldvisionphotos.co.uk/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Dianna Bonner</a></strong></p>The post <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/five-attitudes-to-unleash-your-greatness/">Five Attitudes to Unleash Your Greatness</a> first appeared on <a href="https://tonyselimi.com">Tony J. Selimi</a>.]]></content:encoded>
					
		
		
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