As the end of 2016 approaches, it is perfect time reflect on the year passed by, revaluate our life, and start planning the year ahead.

If you are ready to take the reins of your life and in need of some form of guidance then you have come to the rigth place. In this blog I am going to share with you five vital steps to help you consciously decide what is going to be in store for you in 2017.

For many people out there 2016 has been a turbulent year full of uncertainty, fear, and unexpected events that equally shocked and awakened humanity in profound ways.

Throughout history we have had similar events that brought about all of the good and bad things we today love or like to criticise.

The truth is all that we observe in life is the creation of our collective consciousness, but our human awareness barely recognizes this. We have become blinded to the existence of a higher order, the intelligence that governs all life, the equilibrium that already is in place, and our individual contribution.

It is precisely this vail that I observe in many of my clients who seek my help to accelerate their human and business potential.

Our brain is always balanced but our human awareness is blinded by our skewed perceptions and limiting beliefs. It is this that stops many people from creating the life they truly want and dream about.

All of the successful people that I have studied, been mentored by, and have come across know this. They all had mentors, coaches, and a great plan that they followed in order to achieve unprecedented success they now enjoy.

It is this same choice that I made back in 2010 that helped me accelerate my growth and create a very successful global coaching, training, speaking, and consulting business that I now love.

We hear it all the time, been told by our parents, society, friends, etc that succeeding at anything you need to work hard and it takes a lot of time to achieve the results we want.

Over the period of time they become our beliefs that subconsciously create the reality we so desperately want to change.

It is this kind of outdated beliefs that are running programs in your subconscious mind that sabotage your success. Many of you fall in the same trap that your parents, friends, and other people around you might be caught.

What coaching did for me and can do for you is to help you change this, to bring to your conscious awareness your beliefs that sabotage everything you may be working hard to create.

To help you accelerate your success it is essential to work with someone who can be a clean mirror and a fine tuned ear that picks up traces of injected values and beliefs that may be incapacitating your inborn abilities to succeed.

Up to 2010 I used to work very long hours to make ends meet. Like most people around me I felt frustrated, fearful of what future has on hold for me, and lacked the direction my life was going to take.

What happened in the last six years forever changed the way I perceive and create my reality. Instead of working hard for the things I wanted to achieve in my life, I now live daily with new empowering beliefs that support me to work smarter. I now help people do the same so just like me they too are also able to create conscious quantum jumps that pitch into existence the things they truly want.

Here are the five vital steps I use daily, teach my clients, and you too can adopt to accelerate your human potential and help you focus, plan, and create your desired outcomes in 2017.

Step 1: Clarify what Success means to You

One of the major problems that most of my clients face is the lack of clarity behind the success they are seeking. Before you go to step two, take pen and paper and write down how your life will change when you achieve the success you are seeking. For instance if you want more money, write down what will you do once you had money, what meaning will those experiences have for you.

Step 2: Create a Detailed Plan

A plan is like a road map that shows you where you are now and the best route to use to get to where you want to be. Being a student of wisdom I love learning from Dr John Demartini. In one of his seminars I heard him say “Those who fail to plan, plan to fail”. It is this that inspired me to create my Vital Planning for Elevated Living document that helped me accelerate my success and has now become very popular coaching program that clients from all professional backgrounds use to plan their purpose driven life.

Don’t just think “I have a plan in my head”, the truth is you won’t remember all the little twists and turns along the road…write it down in black and white and in as much detail as you can. Each and every day, do at least one thing that will advance your progress toward the outcomes you want to achieve in 2017 and beyond.

Step 3: Invest in Your Continues Learning

My grandfather used to say to me, the water that does not flow becomes polluted. Similarly, if you are not continuously learning, your knowledge becomes outdated and toxic for your body-mind and heart. Learn everything you can about what inspires you, invest in you by working with an expert to help you advance your learning. Knowledge is power. Surround yourself with people that achieved the success you are seeking, and find ways to serve people who are seeking the knowledge and the success you already have achieved.
Step 4: Find a Great Role Model, Coach or a Mentor

If you start to associate with someone who has succeeded in the field you are pursuing, associate yourself as closely as you can with that person. Get them to be your mentor, coach, or find ways to be of service to them. First-hand knowledge is more valuable than any other kind. Successful people have already made mistakes and they can help you avoid some pitfalls. They can open doors for you that would remain firmly closed without their help.

The truth is, the more you learn about yourself, the more you can organize this information in ways that you can easily access when you need it. The more you invest in your personal and business development, the faster you will grow. Continues investment in myself helped me become a global expert in human behaviour and cognition known as The See-Through Coach. A best-selling and five times award-winning author who now loves helping the owners of 6,7,8 and 9 figure businesses resolve problems, advance their learning, and accelerate their results whatever they may be.
Step 5: Take Action and Apply What You Learn

I come across so many amazing people who have spent years of learning that are struggling in their life. The only thing that stops them is not having the clarity required in order for them to apply what they know and take the appropriate action to achieve the success they want. Make sure you use the knowledge that you gain from your coach, mentor, seminars you attend or from doing your own research and put it into action now.

The overnight success people observe in me happened because I chose daily to not take “no” for an answer. When I get knocked down…I tell yourself to get up. When a door closes…I find ways to crawl through a window. If you too did what successful people do, you too one day end up becoming an overnight success in the eyes of those who did not take action during the time you kept trying.

If you find yourself stuck in situations that stress you out or make you frustrated, take action now and make 2017 the year you accelerate your success. If you have procrastinated about stuff for months or even years – perhaps being more confident, address mental or emotional issues, getting fit, starting your own business or finding a loving partner – why not make 2017 the year you really go for it!

If your life has been a bit flat for a while, make 2017 the year you embrace something amazing! Experience the world in a different way, step out of your comfort zone, be daring.

I have a selection of Coaching Programs that together with my signature five day Vital Planning for Elevated Living Program will help you get your life back on track, do what you love and be abundantly rewarded, so what are you waiting for?

Schedule a clarity coaching consultation in 2017 and start taking back control of your life, your business, your organization.

It’s that time of the year to wish you a stress free December, in preparation for the festive season and the New Year ahead.

For many as Christmas is approaching, it’s a wonderful time to celebrate love, but it’s also time when we can also look back and reflect on the year passed by.

To learn, grow and evolve from the mistakes made and the lessons gained. Most of all our beliefs, emotions and values get triggered more than any other time of the year. More often than before we don’t follow what we truly love, but instead we resolve the tension of our beliefs, emotions and values that have been with us since early childhood. We continue to do what we think we should do and then get trapped on the Christmas treadmill.

I think it should be called the ‘pressure season’ instead of the festive season. We end up feeling our space with things driven by needs and the desires that come from fulfilling other people’s needs. It is no wonder that success is out of reach when we fill our space and lives with things that take us so far away from the road to success.

So, how do we then create zero room for failure? How do we juggle the demands of our daily lives with the various things, people and situations that fill the space in our life that prevent us from focusing and creating the success we are seeking?

I know that you know, each present moment is a monumental moment that decides the direction that our life is going. The problem is that as we fill our personal space with so much noise we have become so desensitised, distracted and controlled that most people feel disempowered, out of control, and lose their ability to make the choices that are required to take their life in their chosen direction.

Often, the common theme whilst coaching my clients is around the good and the bad things my clients experience as Christmas and New Year are approaching. Some of them start to connect and feel with the spirit of joy, peace and union with the loved ones and others become stressed, pressured, and feel extremely lonely.

We all know that the way we are now living our lives differs from the way our ancestors lived their lives.

With so much technology and information being thrown at us daily, we seem to be losing our ability to listen to our true wants and needs. We create so much room for failure, room where distraction, noise, and pressure are the things that fill up the entire space living little room for success to enter our lives.

As we continue to fill this room with unwanted behaviours, thoughts, believes, we create the conditions for the failure to thrive. It’s understandable that we no longer are able to listen to the authentic voice that knows how to fill the room with beliefs, thoughts, and habits that help us manifest the abundance, the success, the happiness we require.

For these and the many other reasons most people feel it has become impossible to avoid failure, fear and worry. As the time passes by, we also start to lose trust in our innate abilities to positively move forward towards the direction we may want our lives to go towards.

Creating the outcomes, achieving the goals and do the things we thought we could do a year ago when we made our New Year’s Resolution becomes harder and harder to achieve. We consciously start to procrastination our own success without even know it how we do it.

A year passes by, and we go back into the cycle again, hoping the New Year will fix the old issues, create the success we wished we could have created this year.

What if there was another way? What if Creating abundance, success and live like the people you may admire do is truly not that complicated?

Actually it’s pretty easy once…you click on this link and watch how other people learned the TJS Evolutionary Method, read the Amazon UK Number 1 book A Path to Wisdom and invested in the integrated coaching yearly program “The Art of Intrusion Free Living and The Power of Being Coaching Program” that helped them go from distraction, fear, and confusion to zero room for failure and plenty room for creating success, abundance and inner peace.

I know that you do know that the simple shift you must make to take back control of your life and have complete success reaching all of your goals in 2015…and beyond are a must.

But even more important… Today I am going to share with you a way that guarantees you can start applying this simple formula for success immediately and integrate it fully into your body and mind.

And that is the key to my new program “The Intrusion Free Living and the Power Of Being”?

You see…

This proven formula for success is not a new concept. Some people (including me) have been talking about this subtle shift for years. The concept has been part of my Millionaire Mind Strategies program for over a decade. And when people use it… …tremendous results follow.

But, it wasn’t until a few years ago that I had an insight finally giving me the clarity to start breaking it down into a step-by-step system for integrating this formula into peoples life….

…which is where this is revolutionary.

As I discuss in more detail in my book, for this Evolution to happen, we must go through a revolution cycle. This cycle is what makes everything happen. Once you learn and understand this You have zero room for failure anymore!

When you have a system working with you can easily achieve success. Learning, doing, acting and being all of the things that TJS Evolutionary Method talks about guarantees your success…

Most of My private clients know that this process is life-changing experience for them, they start to shift, attract new opportunities, people and situations to support them through their path to wisdom journey. They start to vibrate at higher frequencies and listen in that frequency. All of that plust more is what my new coaching program: “The Intrusion Free Living and The Power of Being” can do for you in 2015 and beyond.

After years of wrestling with this principal I finally have a paint-by-numbers system for applying it for maximum benefits and rewards.

Just exercising my logical brain and helping others do the same, making each year new goals and taking small actions wasn’t enough. This way of being was not producing the outcomes nor the results we all wanted.

This forced me to do explore more, continue with my soul searching journey, go deeper within, and continued to work with my coach and healer to help me create the abundance i was seeking. Calming my mind helped me see with clarity, i started to generate the feeling I needed for the success I was seeking for myself and my clients.

Some of my answers came from this state of being. Working with so many healers i learned to meditate, in the process I also helped thousands of my clients do the same.

Helping my clients adopt daily meditation whilst I was taking them on a deeper journey into the self-using TJS Evolutionary Coaching Method started to generate exponential growth, shifts and success.

And it’s for this reason, I also decided to also create TJS Evolutionary Meditation Solutions meditation to aid many of you who choose to go through the process to Awaken Your Inner Doctor that help you in your journey to de-stress, let go of the fears, the anxiety, and the distraction that may be preventing you from being the abundant version of yourself.

This Meditation and Open and Awaken Your Heart Centre are part of TJS Evolutionary Meditations solutions designed specifically to activate the body’s natural healing powers and support you in your journey to open and awaken your heart so that the energy that Love releases can support you in achieving the success and the outcomes you may be planning for 2015.

Every word and sound is designed to deepen you. To position you and to allow you to relax, trust and surrender to the healing process and access the dormant part of yourself that you can use to create the success, the abundance and the life you may be wishing.

With such inner focus towards yourself, you will open up to allow your imagination to see, experience and feel the true healer, the success, and the power that is within you. Through the power of your mind you are able to directly influence every cell in your body, and these meditations guide you to tap into your own inner potential.

This is an excellent guided meditations for:

1. Achieving total body mind relaxation.

2. Connecting to the healing power within you.

3. Aid you to overcome emotional challenges such as: stress, depression, anxiety, overwhelm

4. Helping you overcome addictions, physical health challenges, and restore balance to your body

5. Guiding you to experience the true power of Love.

6. Help you with creative visualisation, sleep better, and start to invoke the feeling of the success you may be wanting but never succeeded to have.

As you awaken from the experience each meditation is designed for, you will feel peaceful, loved, healed, and with a sense of clarity and wellbeing.

To learn more about TJS Evolutionary Method, buy a copy of A Path to Wisdom and study the five pillars to help you live a balanced, healthy and peaceful life.

As you embody the wisdom from TJS Evolutionary Method you start to feel yourself returning to a healthier state of being. This meditations will help you access your mental healing faculties, connect and acknowledge you as the source of your healing potential, and reconnect your being to the infinite wisdom of love.

This meditations will help you awaken you to your own energy so you are able to connect to the masterful physician that resides in you.

Truthfully, once you adopt a daily routine and do these meditations for at least six weeks…it will make all sorts of sense.

You will understand why this simple shift in your consciousness through learning TJS Evolutionary Method, adopting mindfulness, and doing these meditations daily is so damn powerful.

As the time passes by, when you look back on your past, you will see how your outcomes would have been different if you knew what you NOW will know once you download and read A Path to Wisdom, do the two meditations daily to Awaken Your Heart Centre and Your Inner Doctor and for some of you who may choose start the new year with my latest “Intrusion Free Living and The Power of Being Coaching Program.”

Then you will be able to start applying it to everything you do.

Click here to take you to booking my initial two hour Question to Clarity Consultation so that you can have the clarity that is need to make the decisions that are required to be successful, abundant, and cope better with the daily challenges that may be presented on the way.

Be Light, Radiate Love

Tony J Selimi

P.S.

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I decided to write this blog in the early hours of Monday morning after having a conversation with an old friend of mine whom I was meant to meet today but we did not as he felt ashamed to meet due to being broke and feeling uncomforteable to speak his truth.

Before I go into the details on how fear of success can show up and impact your life, let me tell you a story about this guy. This friend is someone I love and respect very much, despite all the time and efforts he has put to attend many personal development workshops, publishing a book, and starting a life coaching company he is not making any money.

Many entrepreneurs that I have coached, mentored and helped to create and develop their business go through this stage where no matter how much effort they put they simply do not make money. What’s been interesting to observe with hundreds of clients is that some people manage to get out of this space of lack easily, and others get stack in this space where they find it difficult to manifest money for years until they decide to do something about it.

Are you also someone who no matter what you do you feel stuck?

The Good News!

You’re a not alone in this situation, what you ought to remember is that you are a doer. You’ve got the brains and the potential to move mountains. But you’ve also got this pesky habit of wanting to avoid the spotlight no matter what. In meetings, you’d rather say silent than voice out your amazing idea.

You fear power and leadership, because you’ve seen others hurt by it. You know you could earn more money, but you’re paralyzed by self-doubt and procrastination. When you think about your past, there may be one or two incidents where your friends or family members were jealous of you and your accomplishments.

This fear just like any other fear doesn’t affect you all the time, but it can still do some damage when you least expect it. Watch out for it, and try to make a mental note of the scenarios in which it creeps up on you.

What happens when you’re affected by the fear of success?

• If you’re affected by this fear, you may very well be a doer. You’ve got the brains and the potential to move mountains. But you’ve also got this pesky habit of wanting to avoid the spotlight no matter what.
• In meetings, you’d rather say silent than voice out your amazing idea. You fear power and leadership, because you’ve seen others hurt by it.
• You know you could earn more money, but you’re paralyzed by self-doubt and procrastination.
• And when you think about your past, there may be one or two incidents where your friends or family members were jealous of you and your accomplishments.

What happens when you’re unaffected by the fear of success?

• Your self-confidence will skyrocket, and you’ll start speaking out and accomplishing more at work and in social situations.
• You’ll be compelled to share your unique gift with others, and they’ll reciprocate by giving more of themselves to you too.
• You’ll become a magnet for people and opportunities that grow you and take your life and career to the next level.

What can you do about overcoming the fear of success?

You can do these simple exercises to help you overcome the fear of success, here are five things you can do to overcome the fear of success:

• Identify what makes you feel anxious when you think of success, this could be your deep rooted subconscious believes that keep you stuck in the rat
• Make a list of your limited beliefs and create your personalised positive affirmations, you can download from my website a free e-book on how to do this
• Look within, start to meditate and learn to tap to universal abundance
• Focus, get clear to what your self-worth is, as you do the universe will reward you accordingly
• Trust your inner guidance to help you raise your vibrational state so that you can tap into the abundance energy

If you are still struggling and want to learn more about how to transform from “Fear of Successes to Freedom and Making Money” you may want to attend any of my workshop or send your details to book@healoneself.co.uk to be kept informed about my forthcoming book “A Path to Wisdom” due to be released in Spring 2014 as it might be just the solution you have been looking for.

The book will be available on sale from Amazon, kindle, iPad, and the major retailers.

You can also book a two hour Fear2Success Elite Life Coaching Consultation and learn to say good by to Fear and say Hello to your new found Freedom and Success you wish to create.

In my next article i am going to talk to you about what happens when you’re affected by the ‘Fear of Failure’.

Helping you become healthy, wealthy and wise.

Tony J Selimi