In today’s fast-paced world, personal growth and professional development have become essential for success. Whether you’re a CEO striving for leadership excellence or a professional navigating life’s challenges, finding the right executive coaching website can be a game-changer. These platforms offer tools, resources, and coaching programs to unlock your potential and align your goals with your true purpose.

In this guide, we’ll explore how to choose the best executive coaching website for your needs, the key factors to consider, and why industry leaders like Tony J. Selimi have redefined the standards for transformational coaching.

Why Executive Coaching Websites Are Vital for Success

The Growing Demand for Executive Coaching

As industries evolve, the demand for personalized leadership development, emotional resilience, and career clarity is skyrocketing. Executive coaching websites bridge this gap by providing access to seasoned coaches who can help clients overcome barriers and achieve measurable success.

If you’ve ever searched for “executive life coach near me” or “executive coaching pricing packages,” you’ve likely come across a myriad of options. But how do you differentiate between platforms? And how do you ensure they align with your personal or organizational goals?

What Makes a Great Executive Coaching Website?

A top-notch executive coaching website must offer:

• Expert Profiles: Insight into the credentials and experience of the coaches.
• Comprehensive Pricing Packages: Transparent and customizable pricing for one-on-one or group coaching.
• Transformational Testimonials: Real success stories that validate the effectiveness of the coaching methodologies.
• Tailored Resources: Access to books, tools, and exclusive programs.
• Accessibility: Easy-to-navigate platforms with seamless booking and communication systems.

Key Features to Look For in Executive Coaching Websites

1. Expertise and Credentials

A credible website showcases the qualifications of its coaches. Leaders like Tony J. Selimi stand out with decades of cross-disciplinary research, combining business, engineering, neuroscience, leadership, human behaviour, and spiritual principles to create life-changing breakthroughs.

Look for coaches who:

• Have a proven track record of working with executives, entrepreneurs, and industry leaders.
• Offer proprietary methodologies for long-lasting results.

2. Comprehensive Coaching Packages

When evaluating executive coaching pricing packages, ensure the site offers flexibility. Packages should cater to various needs, from short-term solutions to in-depth, year-long programs.

For example, Tony J. Selimi’s 12-Step Growth Accelerator Method® and Vital Planning For Elevated Living Life Management System® are designed to address personal and professional challenges, delivering exceptional results for clients ranging from CEOs to A-list celebrities.

3. Authentic Testimonials and Case Studies

The best executive coaching websites feature testimonials that highlight transformative journeys. Success stories can give you confidence in the coaching process and demonstrate the potential outcomes.

For instance, Tony J. Selimi has over 27,000 hours of coaching experience, with testimonials showcasing how his programs have helped individuals overcome anxiety, addiction, and business challenges.

4. Access to Resources

Websites that offer additional tools, such as books and digital courses, enhance the coaching experience. Titles like Tony’s A Path to Wisdom, #Loneliness, The Unfakeable Code® and A Path to Excellence provide valuable insights for readers even beyond one-on-one sessions.

Why Tony J. Selimi Sets the Benchmark for Executive Coaching

Tony J. Selimi’s reputation as a transformational coach stems from his unique personal and professional growth approach. Here’s what sets him apart:

1. Science-Backed Methodologies

Tony combines neuroscience, leadership, and human behaviour principles to deliver practical solutions. His methods are designed to empower clients to break through barriers and achieve clarity in their personal and professional lives.

2. Tailored Coaching Programs

Every session with Tony is personalized to meet the client’s unique needs, ensuring impactful and measurable results. His one-on-one coaching sessions are particularly popular among high-net-worth individuals and C-level executives.

3. Proven Success

Tony’s clients include Fortune 500 CEOs, entrepreneurs, and high-achieving professionals. His programs are a testament to his ability to create profound transformation and growth.

How to Select the Right Executive Coach for Your Needs

When narrowing down your options, consider the following steps:

Step 1: Identify Your Goals

Before selecting a coaching website, define what you want to achieve. Are you looking to:

• Develop leadership skills?
• Overcome personal challenges?
• Align your career with your life’s purpose.

Step 2: Research Coaches and Programs

Read through coach profiles and program details. Look for industry leaders who align with your goals.

Step 3: Evaluate Pricing and Accessibility

Compare executive coaching pricing packages to find a program that fits your budget and timeline. Transparency is key.

Step 4: Read Reviews and Testimonials

Genuine client testimonials can provide insight into the quality of the coaching services.

Step 5: Test the Waters

Many executive coaching websites offer free consultations. Use this opportunity to assess whether the coach and their approach resonate with you.

The Role of Books in Executive Coaching

Books like Climb Greater Heights, The Unfakeable Code®, and A Path to Excellence can complement coaching sessions by providing actionable insights and exercises. Other best books on executive coaching may include works by thought leaders in leadership, productivity, and emotional intelligence.

Unlocking the Benefits of Executive Coaching

Whether navigating personal challenges, striving for business success, or simply looking to enhance your quality of life, an executive coaching website can serve as your guide.

Tony J. Selimi’s programs have helped thousands achieve clarity, resilience, and purpose. With tailored solutions and innovative methodologies, his coaching empowers clients to:

• Break through limiting beliefs.
• Build emotional resilience.
• Achieve sustainable growth in all areas of life.

Final Thoughts

Finding the right executive coaching website is an investment in your future. Platforms like TonySelimi.com offer a comprehensive personal and professional development approach, combining science, spirituality, and real-world experience to deliver unparalleled results.

If you’re ready to embark on a transformative journey, explore the site’s resources, coaching packages, and testimonials. Remember, your success story begins with a single step—choosing the right coach to guide you toward your goals.

Alma Stasel

Welcome back, fellow growth seeker and change-maker!

I am writing this newsletter in Northern Macedonia, where I just finished teaching my ten-day Vital Planning Life and Business Mastery client-focused coaching and training program and helping my clients dissolve many mental and emotional blockages and solve business and employee issues that were causing them headaches, sleepless nights, and lead to him feeling stressed and burnout. I also coached an army general, a private hospital owner, a celebrity singer, and aspiring entrepreneurs.

Furthermore, I was interviewed on five T.V. stations in Northern Macedonia and Kosova on various business, leadership, human behaviour, personal success, and relationship-related topics. It also included stories and experiences of the recent Quilly® Award I received in Hollywood for The Unfakeable Code® book, Book Excellence and the Maincrest Media Book Award for A Path to Excellence book and the Hollywood Premier of The Truth About Reading documentary that tackles the growing illiteracy crisis in the USA.

This week’s newsletter was inspired by the growth, success, and breakthroughs I helped my clients achieve and the gratitude comments I received from everyone I met and interviewed. It is about The Octagon of Excellence® Method I describe in more detail in A Path to Excellence book, and how it can help you through tricky times and when you feel powerless, stuck, stressed and uninspired.

Before I share more, I trust my previous newsletter topic, So Busy That You Have No Time for Love, was valuable for you and your family, relationship, entrepreneurial, career, business, and financial growth and saying yes to love. For those looking for a more empowered and meaningful relationship, check out this article published by ISSUU magazine and learn why love is the destroyer and creator of life.

Let’s get your creative juices flowing by answering the following questions first:

Are you ready to break free from your current limits and get unstuck? Do you want to be more productive, create change in your life and reach the goals you have worked on for a long time faster? Would focusing your mental faculties on the things that help you achieve personal excellence benefit you?

If so, then this week’s newsletter is the guide for you!

One topic that has interested me since I was very young is what makes some live an average life and others willingly strive for personal excellence. My fascination with top mathematicians, physicians, and inventors such as Nikola Tesla, Albert Einstein, and Thomas Edison inspired me to study their lives more thoroughly. I learned that they all showed attributes of personal excellence and what it takes to leave a legacy that stands the test of time.

Having coached and mentored businesses from all market sectors and individuals from all professional backgrounds, I realised they faced similar issues. What was happening in their heads was the root of all their challenges. After I wrote and published The Unfakeable Code® in 2021, I felt inspired to write and recently publish A Path to Excellence book.

The reason is I wanted to share the process I used to help myself and all of my clients achieve personal, relationship, professional, financial and busienss breakthroughs and attain unshakeable confidence in The Octagon Method® with a mission to help others create phenomenal growth, fulfilment, and success. It is a step-by-step system that shows you how to transform your life by transforming perceived blocks into life breakthroughs and creating new opportunities.

It’s based on the teachings that took me over thirty years to acquire, teach, and master. As someone who has delivered over 25,000 coaching and training hours and helped thousands of people do just that, I know those who learn the eight principles shared and apply them daily will increase their chances of success in any of the critical areas of life they want to empower.

What is The Octagon of Excellence®?

It is a set of principles, a tool that helps you to get unstuck and move forward. It’s an eight-step process that can help you get unstuck and move forward. The Octagon of Excellence is a way to transform your life. You can read more about the book and the eight steps HERE!

A Path to Excellence Tony J. Selimi Leadership and Growth-Focused Development Book

Each step will help you clarify what you truly want in life; it will show you how to break down each item on the list you will be creating as you answer the questions into its most essential parts, then show you how to ask yourself what you need to do or change to achieve each item on your list. The key is focusing on one part at a time until it’s done right before moving on to the next.

The Octagon of Excellence® is a revolutionary approach to getting unstuck and achieving excellence as you move from one life cycle into the other. For instance, the end of a job, career, or relationship and the start of a new one. Throughout life, you will experience identity crises and lose a loved one. Sometimes you need to close one chapter of your life and start a new one. This robust framework can help you move forward and achieve whatever you desire as you go through various life cycles.

The first step to this method is understanding what each side of the octagon represents and looks like in your life. An octagon has eight cycles, transition, regeneration, focus, rebirth, balance, service, unity, and infinity, just like how you have eight areas of your life that are wise to focus on empowering simultaneously as you go through the various life cycles: Spiritual, Mental, Emotional, Physical, Relationship, Social, Career/Business and Finances. When these eight sides and eight processes are managed effectively and mindfully, there’s no limit to what you can accomplish!

To help you get unstuck, it’s time to get what blocks you out of your head and here are four questions that can help you do this:

1. What is the worst thing that could happen?
2. What am I terrified of?
3. What is the best possible outcome?
4. How can I turn this into an opportunity?

Do write down your answers before you continue reading. What came up for you? Have you noticed how many people often respond to the question “Why?” with “That’s the way it is. Because that’s what I chose, it’s not personal; it is what it is.”

But when you have a problem and you don’t know why, or any other thing or situation in life where there isn’t an obvious answer right away (or even at all), you can use this technique to help yourself find your reasons for things and situations in life by asking yourself questions such as:

Why did I do that? What was my reason? How did I feel at the time? How do I feel now? What else could I have done instead?

You are reading this article because you want personal excellence deep down. To help you don’t his journey, here are three truths worth remembering:

1. The first truth is that we are all worthy of excellence. That means you, me, the athlete across from you at practice, that guy who’s been struggling in class… Everyone has the potential to achieve excellence. We can do it with hard work and persistence, but most importantly, with being smart and believing in ourselves and our abilities.
2. The second truth is that we are all capable of excellence. You may think, “Well yeah, but I’m not a natural athlete, singer, scientist, engineer, entrepreneur, CEO, etc.” Or maybe your schoolwork isn’t coming easy for some reason—you’re getting B’s instead of As or A pluses like everyone else seems to be getting. That doesn’t mean anything! Anyone can become excellent at anything if they want to and put forth the effort required for success (the same way anyone can get better at any skill if they practice enough). I never imagined going from homeless to being honoured and celebrated in Hollywood for my work that took over thirty years to bring forward.
3. The third truth is that we all have the potential to achieve excellence through hard work and persistence. The key here is being persistent—no matter how often something doesn’t seem right or feels uncomfortable (like failing a couple of tests, failing in busienss, a relationship, creating a fashion brand, etc.), keep working on it until finally, one day,y everything clicks into place!

As I was coaching my client in Northern Macedonia, I wrote this quote I created a while back on one of the white stackable whiteboard sheets I use when I coach clients:

“Don’t give up on yourself; give up the gremlins in your head.” Tony J. Selimi ( do share it)

If you’re going to get anywhere in life, you need to believe in yourself. Don’t give up on your goals. Your goal isn’t the only thing keeping you going—your goals keep you going! Don’t give up on your dreams. You’ve got this! Nothing stops you from reaching them but yourself; if there were, we’d be too busy being happy with our lives to stop and think about it.

Don’t give up on your family (unless they’re gremlins, some of my family members are, and I learned to appreciate and love them from a distance). It can be tempting when things get tough or when everyone seems so much happier without us around—but trust me: no one is ever pleased without their family around to annoy them occasionally for their good.

Don’t give up on your friends (unless they’re gremlins). Take it from someone who knows: sometimes the most challenging part of an argument is remembering that neither side has a monopoly over truth; both sides have valid points that deserve respect and consideration before coming to any conclusion about which side deserves more empathy than another.*

Don’t give up on your health (unless you are already dead, in which case you aren’t reading this). Sometimes, something gets in the way of our exercise routines or eating habits; humans are imperfect creatures, prone as we are by nature toward laziness and gluttony!

But that doesn’t mean we should throw in the towel entirely; rather than giving into temptation every time something comes along that makes us feel guilty or distracted from our goals…why not try asking ourselves, “Is there anything I can do right now?” instead?

Chances are good that there is at least one small thing within our reach right now (like walking downstairs instead of taking the elevator) which would make all those oversized things seem less daunting tomorrow morning when everyone else is off doing their best while we’re stuck lying awake again thinking about how hard.

Another quote I shared and used to help my client grow is this:

“To achieve personal excellence is to master self-discipline and commit to achieving values-driven goals and a vision beyond oneself.” – Tony J. Selimi

Let’s go ahead and get right to it.

Self-discipline is a skill that can be learned, but it takes time and effort. You can start small by focusing on one thing at a time until you’ve mastered that skill. Then move on to the next task or project aligned with your values and goals. The key is to keep going; don’t give up when you feel like quitting or getting sidetracked. Investing in coaching and mentoring can significantly increase your self-discipline.

You can use tools and apps to help you stay motivated and self-disciplined when working toward your big dreams (like I did use The Octagon of Excellence® Method), but ultimately, improving your self-discipline comes down to doing more of what you already do well!

Here are Eight Simple Steps To Transform Your Life

Now that you’ve familiarised yourself with the Octagon of Excellence Method, it’s time to put it into practice. Here are eight simple steps to get you started:

1. Take daily inspired action.
2. Appreciate the negative and the positive, and focus on the positive.
3. Be grateful for what you have now. (And who you are now)
4. Forgive yourself and others as needed.
5. Invest in coaching and work with a qualified coach and experienced mentor that equally challenges and supports you.
6. Be patient with yourself and others when they make mistakes or fail to get back on track.
7. Be kind to yourself and others in your life.
8. Have fun!

By following the above eight steps, you can get unstuck, heal your life and reach your goals without feeling like you’re doing anything special! Use The Octagon of Excellence® Method to help you navigate the eight inevitable cycles of life transition, regeneration, focus, rebirth, balance, service, unity and infinity.

This method is based on what I have learned from ancient wisdom, the world’s best teachers, thirty years of working experience and the latest scientific discoveries, which provides you with a proven map for navigating through the ups and downs of life.

It offers practical tools to understand what is happening at any time in whatever life cycle you find yourself in and how to deal with it to create more freedom and order from stressful situations. By following this method step by step, as outlined in A Path to Excellence book – which essentially involves paying attention to what is happening inside and around you – you can obtain clarity about your own lives as well as other people’s lives too and what you can do to grow into your fullest potential.

To conclude,

When you read the word “excellence,” do you immediately think of something lofty and unattainable?

I know I used to. But as it turns out, excellence is pretty simple. The Octagon of Excellence® Method will show you how to reach your potential in all areas of your life by following just eight simple principles:

1. To break free from ambiguity, clarify what you want, why you want it, and when you want it, this will help you identify what’s necessary;
2. Awakening your astronomical vision requires committing to something bigger than yourself. This will help you focus on those things that will get you there;
3. To build resilience, it is wise to immediately confront any issues and respond mindfully and objectively. This will help you get unstuck from negative thoughts;
4. Making mistakes is human, correcting them awakens your excellence. Asking yourself quality questions when faced with mistakes and obstacles is a wise thing to do;
5. For better, more efficient and more effective results seek expert advice, coaching is a great way to help you remember that whatever happened yesterday is today’s lesson for tomorrow;
6. To grow on the inside and expand on the outside, collaborate. This will assist you practice self-discipline through daily connecting with others in more meaningful ways;
7. To unleash the power of gratitude, graciously give and accept compliments. Appreciating others promotes trust and learning from other people’s experiences by listening closely and empathempathisingothers’ feelings.
8. 8) Continuously celebrating small wins can change your physiology, strengthen your psychology, and maximise your potential.

I trust you got much inspiration and value from this week’s article on the importance of striving for personal excellence. For those of you who want to create unique relationships, careers, business, leadership, team and financial breakthroughs, as your coaching partner, my focus is to work together on finding out exactly the root cause of your blocks and effectively and efficiently find solutions to your frustrations, problems and create the mindset and the plan on accelerating your journey to self-mastery, living in abundance, develop personal and leadership excellence, grow your influence, success, fulfilment and inspiration.

Love and Wisdom

Tony J. Selimi – Award-Winning Author, Speaker, and Transformational Life and Business Coach SpeciaSpecialisingman Behaviour, Leadership Excellence, and Maximising Human Potential. Winner of the London SME Most Visionary Entrepreneur, Corporate Coaching and Recruitment Business Coach of the Year Award, Silver Winner of Literary Book Award, and Maincreast Media Book, New York City Big Book, Book Excellence, and the Quilly® Award for A Path to Wisdom, Loneliness, The Unfakeable Code®, and A Path to Excellence.

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P.S. I work virtually and in person with clients all over the globe, facilitating the realisation and accomplishment of personal, relational, professional, financial and business goals. Here are four ways I can assist you in creating life-changing breakthroughs, growth, and accelerating your journey to excellent health, influence, wealth, transformational leadership, and going from where you are to where you genuinely want to be in every critical area of life.

#1… Book a Breakthrough Consultation Session by sending an e-mail to info@tonyselimi.com. I invite entrepreneurs, influencers, growth seekers, high achievers and change-makers to spend five or ten incredible growth-focused days transforming what pains you into what inspires you by being privately coached and trained by me—taking place in beautiful locations worldwide. Booking yourself on Vital Planning Business and Life Mastery Training will assist you in learning new and more productive ways and proven methods, tools, and principles that can help you upgrade your psychology and achieve your wildest dreams. We will work together on expanding your vision and delivering the ever-evolving purpose you want to share with the world.

#2 … Grab your copy of my #1 Amazon bestselling and Multi-Award-Winning books, A Path to Wisdom, #Loneliness, The Unfakeable Code®, A Path to Excellence and enrol in my Mindfulness for Higher Productivity, Performance, and Profitable Life Udemy Course! Click here to join thousands of happy students.

#3 … Make the fastest progress by hiring me to work with you on your business to train and grow your teams.

#4 … Hire me as a speaker to educate, inspire and transform your audience at your next company or industry event.

What would change in your life if you acknowledged that you are the author of your own story and can create your future? Maybe you’ll grow an award-winning book, open a coaching business, or possibly be the partner, the leader, the successful individual you always wanted to be. Or perhaps you’ll never step outside your comfort zone, and that’s okay. You’re making a difference either way.

It’s scary to put yourself out there and be successful. This was me in 2009 when I faced one of my many worst fears – the fear of being successful. Back then, having been made redundant from a job I loved, my prospects of finding a new job were weak. The pressure to fulfil all of my financial commitments kept building. Everything around me kept telling me how much I was worth, that there were not enough senior technology jobs, and I had to lower my salary expectations if I wanted to find another job.

But deep down, I knew my worth, what I was capable of achieving, and by then, I had worked with many famous and successful coaches, trainers, and healers who helped me unleash my worth and stand in my authentic power.

Before I share some of the actions you can take to accelerate your success, here are some questions you may want to ponder with:

Do you ever feel like you could be more successful? Have there been times when you are not being appreciated for the value you bring into other people’s lives? Do you find yourself wondering about your most significant success limitations in life? Are you even aware of what kind of success you can achieve?

Suppose you are constantly making excuses, procrastinating, and judging others for the success they create in their personal, relational, social, spiritual, career, business or financial life. In that case, you are most likely reading my weekly newsletter because you want to be successful and grow to your fullest potential in all critical areas of life.

No matter what major challenge you are currently facing on your journey to success, underlying emotional issues stop you from being successful in your chosen field or area of life.

Everybody gets twenty-four hours per day…no more, no less…

Through my personal and client’s journey to success, I discovered that it matters not how much money you have or don’t have,  how educated you are, and your social position. How effectively you use the twenty-four hours a day, we all get matters.

Until maybe one day we invent a back to the future time machine; for now, it is wise to acknowledge that you can’t buy, beg, borrow or steal another one second, minute, hour, day, week, month, or a year.

What you do with those twenty-four hours is entirely up to you; of course, there will be those you love that consume some of that time. We all have obligations that must be met each day. We have jobs or businesses that provide us with the necessary income; a certain amount of time is required for sleeping, eating, socialising, reading, shopping, and fulfilling our relationship commitments.  However, what many of you may not stop and think about is how the entire.
Twenty-four are not all spoken for. How there are the few hours each day that you can use
As you want to use them. What you decide to do with them will primarily determine how successful or unsuccessful you will be in life.

Suppose you are someone who spends all of our “unspoken for hours” on social media, going out drinking, on the couch in front of the TV eating chips and drinking beer, coke, etc., in three years. In that case, you will still be doing the same tedious job, be in the same unfulfilled relationship, and give yourself or others excuses for why you weren’t the success you thought you could be.

For instance, some of those free hours if be used to learn how to grow your worth, build a business, be more financially astute, do new things or try different things, which could mean that in a short amount of time, you would have better chances for a more rewarding job, attract a better relationship, be healthier, or even turn to a successful entrepreneur that makes a difference by doing what you love.

That seems like a good idea, but where does one begin? What if success is about you being truly clear on what matters most to you?

This question that I answered back in 2012 helped me write many multi-award winning and bestselling books, appear on over 800 TV/Radio/Podcast shows, give a TEDx talk, speak around the world, and build a successful global lifestyle speaking, coaching and training business. My basic premise is to assist individuals from all professions, entrepreneurs, and executives to create mental, emotional, physical, social, relational, spiritual, financial, business and career breakthroughs to become more purposeful, successful, and thrive in every area of life.

My focus has been to be the coaching partner that helps you become successful while ensuring you quench your thirst for wellbeing, purpose, fulfilment and adventure.

If you’re not growing in all areas of life, you’re not thriving.

I just came back from Gran Canaries, where I spent five days coaching and training a client who reached out and booked my Vital Planning for Elevated Living Business and Life Mastery advanced learning and training program to assist him in living his life in more alignment with his authentic values, pursuing his ambitions and taking care of his emotional, mental and physical health. At the end of this learning and unlearning experience, my client shared how I’ve become the place and why many people and business owners like him turn to me when they need extra support or guidance.

I felt thrilled! When I first launched this unique learning experience in 2008, I had no idea of the breakthroughs and the success they would create for my client. I just knew that if my clients couldn’t find what they needed, my integrated life and business coaching advanced training would take them on an inside out self-mastery journey that focuses all of their mental and emotional faculties to help them excel and grow in business, life and career, so they succeed more quickly and thrive.

Over the years, I have helped I can teach you how to make sure that every goal across all areas of your life is CLEARER, SMARTER, and PURPOSEFUL. It is what makes you more effective and more inspired!

So, here are the three actions you can take right now:

1. Write down why success is essential for you.
2. Answer what success looks like for you.
3. Set CLEARER, SMARTER, and PURPOSEFUL goals and set aside a certain amount of hours each week to work on your plan and stick to it.

It is wise to identify what you can do yourself and what is it you need to ask for help; sometimes, you might get it for free, but if you want to get far in life, my recommendation is to pay for it and get a professional coach or mentor that can be the torch that shines a light on your path to success.

If you try to re-invent the wheel, you are just wasting that valuable resource, time. One thing to keep in mind, there’s a big difference between telling yourself that you are spending money when hiring a coach and investing money in your growth. Any time you spend some money learning something that will take you closer to what you want, that’s an investment that will pay dividends for life!

Success will come much faster when you don’t waste your time trying to do it all independently.

You’ve just read about Three Actions That Accelerate Your Success. Now it’s time to take the next step and get started on your path to creating the success you dream about daily. It’s time to expand your awareness of what’s possible beyond your perceived limits, evolve your business, career, and purpose, and become the successful individual, partner, and leader you know you can be.

There’s no reason you can’t grow into your fullest potential, have a successful co-loving relationship, be a successful individual, business owner, or leader, or attract the success you deep down want. I love sharing and teaching how to get the results and where you want to be by becoming more confident, booming, credible and capable of purposefully transforming in every area of your personal, relational, social, professional, financial and business life.

Love and Wisdom

Tony J. Selimi – Award-Winning Author, Speaker, and Transformational Live and Business Coach Specialising in Human Behaviour, Leadership Excellence, and Maximising Human Potential. Winner of the London SME Most Visionary Entrepreneur 2020 award, Corporate Coaching and Recruitment Business Coach of the Year 2021 Award, Silver Winner of Literary Book Award 2021, and Maincreast Media Book Award 2021 for A Path to Wisdom, #Loneliness, and The Unfakeable Code®.

PS – To consciously create the success you want, get in touch with me today! As your coaching partner, it will be an honour to work on addressing the issues that cause you headaches, pain, and frustrations and get you the clarity, the tools, and the plan that begins to put you on a path to success, grow you and your employees into the best purpose-driven leader possible. You’ll learn practical ways and skills to help you turn your fears into fuel for growth. You can inspire your employees and elevate them above their peers at competing companies while inspiring yourself as a leader.

I work on a virtual basis and in-person with clients all over the globe, facilitating the realisation and accomplishment of personal, professional, and business goals. Here are four ways I can assist you in creating life-changing breakthroughs, growth, and accelerating your journey to excellent health, influence, transformational leadership and success.

#1… Book a Breakthrough Consultation Session by sending an email to info@tonyselimi.com.

#2 … Grab your copy of my #1 Amazon bestselling and Multi-Award-Winning books, A Path to Wisdom, #Loneliness, The Unfakeable Code®, and enrol in my Mindfulness for Higher Productivity, Performance, and Profitable Life Udemy Course! Click here to join thousands of my happy students.

#3 … Make the fastest progress by hiring me to work with you on your business to train and grow your teams. Just reply to this message and put “private” in the subject line. Let me know a little about you or your business and what you’d like to work on together, and I’ll get you the quote, invoice, and the necessary booking details.

#4 … Hire me as a speaker to educate, inspire and transform your audience at your next company or industry event. Click HERE to download my speaker sheet and fill in the form with your event info, and once I hear from you, I’ll send you the contract and fee info back.

So what are some of the factors that influence fear of Growing Into Your Fullest Potential?

Do you ever feel like you could do more? Have there been times when you felt creed, race, or culture had influenced your life and work experience? Do you find yourself wondering what your most significant limitations in life are? Are you even aware of what kind of fear you are afraid of? Suppose you are constantly making excuses, procrastinating, and not feeling at peace with yourself and others. In that case, you are most likely reading my weekly newsletter because you want to grow into your fullest potential in all critical areas of life.

No matter what major challenge you are currently facing, an underlying fear stops you from taking that step.

Let’s start by acknowledging the following…

Your fear plays a role in fulfilling your potential.

Fear is one of the primary emotions that we experience, and while the primary role of fear is to protect you, fear very often becomes a significant obstacle between you and your goals. To a large extent, success relies on knowing how to leverage fear.

Fear comes in many different forms. There are a variety of things that we are afraid of. Some may be afraid of heights or spiders; others may be afraid of failure or embarrassment. Fear comes in different shapes and sizes, but no matter what form it takes, it’s essential to understand how this emotion can work for you instead of against you.

What are some of the most common fears?

We all have fears. They are natural and part of what makes us human. But the fear of not being good enough, worthy enough, smart enough or any other reason we use to put off going after what we want can keep us from living a fulfilling and prosperous life.

The key is to recognise the fear, acknowledge it but don’t give into it. Fear is a bully that demands your attention and will taunt you with your worst insecurities if you let it. Don’t give in! You can do anything you set your mind to!

Is fear stopping you from experiencing life fully?

Suppose you are not showing up in the world as your authentic self daily. In that case, you are most likely wearing one of the masks created by your inauthentic being who has experienced a lifetime of threats, pains, disappointments, and rejections.  In my book The Unfakeable Code®, I share how various personas we adopt as we go through life can build protective mechanisms that imprison us in the prison of our creations. Reading the book, you’ll learn why those of you who are afraid to take off the mask, face your worst fears, and take risks are the ones who never achieve, never fulfil their dreams and never experience life fully. You may have beautiful intentions for better health, relationship, career, business, finances, social life, and a more kind and loving world.

However, fear can stop many of you from experiencing life fully. Fear’s insidious nature makes it hard to detect, but it is often the most significant factor holding you back from experiencing your fullest potential.

Why Fear Stops You?

Fear stops you because you think something has gone wrong when you feel it. You forget the very role of your amygdala, to fight, flight, freeze, or, as I mention in all of my books, create the freedom you always want.

Fear is a normal human emotion.

As you will see below, the list of how fear impacts your life is a long one. There are many benefits if you can avoid the pitfalls of being fearful and live more in the present.

You may feel that you have little or no control over your destiny, you may not value yourself enough to believe that you deserve to be happy and prosperous, or that it is too risky to follow your heart in case everything goes wrong. In short, if we were not worried about how things might turn out, we would have a lot less to worry about!

What are some of the drawbacks of fear?

First of all, fear stops you from authentically showing up. In other words, it keeps you from living your fullest and most colourful life. A life that is rich in emotion and rich in love.

Whether the client is an individual seeking to overcome personal challenges or a business seeking to improve productivity, performance, and profits, the first step is to assist them in identifying the specific fears related to whatever they wish to work on. Why? Because, no matter what they learn, no matter what instruction they are given, if those fears are not brought to light, it will stop them from creating the results they truly want. For every client I have helped, specific worries related to their life-long experiences have consciously and unconsciously influenced them to remain stuck.

Fear is also something that gets in the way of your happiness and can even prevent you from being able to live a happy life at all. Fear stops us from doing what we want to do or being whom we want to be.

Fear has so many different meanings for each one of us, but no matter how you look at it, anxiety can be detrimental to our health and well-being as individuals and societies.

Suppose your goal is to live a happy and fulfilling life full of meaning and purpose. In that case, I trust this article, as part of the Unfakeably Influencing the World newsletter, will help you understand why it’s essential to overcome your fears to achieve these goals.

Understanding the role of fear in your surrounding environment

Fear gives us a false sense of security. It limits your choices, doesn’t let you breathe, and generates anxiety and stress.

It can numb you, leaving you running in circles without direction. It creates low self-confidence, making it difficult to accomplish anything. And it keeps you from experiencing the joys of life because all you see is the negative side of everything.

But fear has an upside: it protects us from predators and makes us more potent after facing it.

Your subconscious mind thinks that if it holds back on its full potential, then nothing terrible will happen. That’s where fear enters the picture – as a friend who wants to protect you from harm and keep things status quo – even though this is not always true or helpful.

What can you do to overcome fear?

Those who resist facing the fears that make them uncomfortable are often those who don’t know they exist. It’s worth clarifying what aspects of your life may be causing you to fear taking your goals and dreams seriously, so you can improve your understanding of the situation and take steps towards a solution. Perhaps you aren’t afraid to invest more time in studying and getting better at a new skill, but what about investing more time in developing yourself as a lover, leader, business owner, or celebrity person? Fear is nothing more than an issue of perspective.

You’ll find it helpful if you clarify what types of activities cause you such negative feelings; keeping these on hand will be beneficial when seeking out professional help or counselling, as this list is meant to be used as a starting point for further research into areas where some form of growth may occur.

What are the benefits of fear in unfakeably influencing the world?

“You’re not alone,” I told one of my clients after booking himself to my ten-days Vital Planning Business, and Life Mastery focused coaching and training experience. “You don’t have to be afraid of what you can do, just the people who tell you that you’re not capable of achieving anything great. They’ll fail and tell you it’s your fault they failed… but they’re wrong.”

“Yeah,” he responded as he put his hand on my shoulder. “It’s a hard road, it’s tough to remain focused in these seven hours a day breakthrough coaching with you, Tony, but I now see how it leads to freedom and, as you say in The Unfakeable Code®, Book, live freely on your terms.”

I smiled thinking about this; this was beautiful client feedback. He understood the value of fearlessness, even though he had experienced failure in the past.

You’ve just read about Factors That Influence Fear of Growing Into Your Fullest Potential. Now it’s time to take the next step and get started on your path to knowing the fears behind your repeated patterns, failures, and unfulfilled dreams. It’s time to expand your awareness of what’s possible beyond your perceived fears, grow your purpose, become an authentic individual, partner, and leader and activate purpose across your entire life, including your business.

Get in touch with me today! As your coaching partner, it will be an honour to work on addressing the issues that cause you headaches, pain, and frustrations and get you the clarity, the tools, and the plan that begins to grow you and your employees into the best purpose-driven leader possible. You’ll learn practical ways and skills to help you turn your fears into fuel for growth. You can inspire your employees and elevate them above their peers at competing companies while inspiring yourself as a leader.

There’s no reason you can’t grow into your fullest potential, have a co-loving relationship, develop your leadership skills, boost your business, attract better opportunities and clients,  and improve the well-being of your organisation.  I love sharing how to get the results and where you want to be by becoming more confident, sure, credible and capable of purposefully transforming in every area of your personal, professional and business life.

Love and Wisdom

Tony J. Selimi – Award-Winning Author, Speaker, and Transformational Live and Business Coach Specialising in Human Behaviour, Leadership Excellence, and Maximising Human Potential. Winner of the London SME Most Visionary Entrepreneur 2020 award, Corporate Coaching and Recruitment Business Coach of the Year 2021 Award, Silver Winner of Literary Book Award 2021, and Maincreast Media Book Award 2021 for A Path to Wisdom, #Loneliness, and The Unfakeable Code®.

PS – I work on a virtual basis and in-person with clients all over the globe, facilitating the realisation and accomplishment of personal, professional, and business goals. Here are four ways I can assist you in creating life-changing breakthroughs, growth, and accelerating your journey to excellent health, influence, transformational leadership and success.

#1… Book a Breakthrough Consultation Session by sending an email to info@tonyselimi.com.

#2 … Grab your copy of my #1 Amazon bestselling and Multi-Award-Winning books, A Path to Wisdom, #Loneliness, The Unfakeable Code®, and enrol in my Mindfulness for Higher Productivity, Performance, and Profitable Life Udemy Course! Click here to join thousands of my happy students.

#3 … Make the fastest progress by hiring me to work with you on your business to train and grow your teams. Just reply to this message and put “private” in the subject line. Let me know a little about you or your business and what you’d like to work on together, and I’ll get you the quote, invoice, and the necessary booking details.

#4 … Hire me as a speaker to educate, inspire and transform your audience at your next company or industry event. Click HERE to download my speaker sheet and fill in the form with your event info, and once I hear from you, I’ll send you the contract and fee info back.

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In pursuit of happiness, success, and wealth you will stumble across many challenges that will either paralyze you or inspire you to take action. Which one applies to you depends on your ability to safely navigate through an ocean of emotions, thoughts, beliefs, and injected values that you have been exposed since a very young age.

It is no secret that we live in a world that is technologically advanced, economically challenging, and mentally draining. We are consumed by fears, worries, and troubles of life that push us in various directions without us having the time to realize how much we have missed out on life.

In this dynamic way of living our lives we often forget the true power that lives within each one of us. Each human being is equipped with the ability to gain the wisdom that can turn their life’s greatest adversity into opportunities and massive breakthroughs.

On this journey to learn from some of the greatest minds of our time, I concluded that what really matters to us all is directly correlated with how happy, successful, and content we are inside.

So, to understand these three key human needs I spent the last twenty five years researching, learning, and writing about my findings. It is the many personal life challenges that put me on the path I am today, what inspired me to write two best-selling books, what lead to being endorsed by Dr John Demartini, and being interviewed by legendary Brian Tracy and Jack Canfield, the author of Chicken Soup for the Soul and The success principles.

Before you continue reading the rest of this article take a moment and answer this important question:

Why is it important for you to pursue a life that brings you the success, health and wealth that you deserve? 

Truth is anyone with a grain for grey matter understands that for us to be able to pay the ever increasing rents, soaring education and medical costs, and cope with the demands of our daily lives we need to find ways to generate wealth at times where globally the salaries and the standard of living are dropping.

In simple words, you are working more and more for less and less. This is not the life you came to live nor is the American dream you may think it is. If you look at what is happening globally, you will come to understand it is more in line with one of the worst scenes from a very scary movie.

If you are reading this you are either a curious soul, on your way to creating the success you are seeking, or created the wealth and are ready for the next steps in your journey to create an unprecedented success in all of the eight key areas of life.

Whatever your reason may be, here are the Five Vital Steps of the TJS Formula I use with thousands of clients from all sectors, markets and professions to help them create unprecedented success, achieve perfect health, and create more wealth in their life.

The same five steps are also what I used in my own personal life to become an expert in my field, travel the world, coach ealite clients, meet interesting people, resolve business problems, and internationally be known as The See-Through Coach who within five years went from zero to building a seven figure coaching, speaking and consulting business.

If you are an entrepreneur, business owner, coach, author, healer, or someone who loves to grow, then you may choose to adopt this formula to create the success, credibility, and the lifestyle you want.

Clarity + Consistency + Commitment + Credibility + Collaboration = TJS Success Formula

Success means different things to different people, whatever it may be for you, use this five step formula in your day to day life to gain the clarity you require. Become consistent in your actions that are required to enhance all of the eight key areas of life.

It is your commitment to learn, grow, and educate your mind that will lead to your credibility and for many people to want to collaborate with you. Using TJS Formula on a daily basis will help you build the credibility required to be known as the expert in your field who goes out in the world and makes a major difference.

Using TJS Success Formula consistently you too can gain the clarity required to step into your greatness, by investing in your education, professional training and personal development you will build the credibility required to build a successful lifestyle business that many of my clients have today, and through collaboration with people who are in sync with your values you too can reach new heights.

Investment in time, energy and money in my personal development is what helped me create TJS Success Formula and reach new heights I never imagined I could.

In the process I overcame many of my personal and business challenges that I share in more detail in my #1Amazon best-selling books A Path to Wisdom and #Loneliness to help others create the success they require, achive the balance that is neccessary to build a legacy.
One of my mentors and teachers that consistently I have been learning from is Dr John Demartini, international best-selling author who’s wisdom, guidance, and support have been paramount in helping me acknowledge my truth, free my soul, and expand my vision.

The more I learned about who I truly am, the more I became of service to ever increasing number of people, and the more people started to invite me to take an expert role on a global speaking stage.

All my life I have consistently spent 10% to 20% of my income in my personal and professional development. I also worked with some of the greatest healers around the world and attended seminars designed to help me build a global business.

I used TJS Success Formula to create my own unique IP that I share in both of my award-winning books A Path to Wisdom and #Loneliness. I also use it when I create partnerships with other successful individuals such as Joel and Timea Van der Molen, the owners of Vandercom, a leading telecommunication and IT service provider company, Nick Nanton from Celebrity branding, and many other world renowned figures such as Steve Harrison and Jack Canfield.

TJS Success formula is just one of the many formulas that are hidden in the twenty five principles of TJS Evolutionary Method-ALARM®.

Use the above to propel you on your journey to creating unprecedented success, heal your body mind, and increase your capacity to receive by serving more people in the world.

And if you are someone who loves to be the one percenter, is ready to accelerate their human potential, and on a mission to achieve unprecedented success and wealth then pm to book your two hour initial consultation.

Using my unique approach I have helped many people reach a flow state that helped them create The Most Amazing Life Possible.

To your joy, health, and greatness,

Tony Jeton Selimi

P.S. Even when it is cloudy the sun shines every day, so can you. Get up and shine!

As the end of 2016 approaches, it is perfect time reflect on the year passed by, revaluate our life, and start planning the year ahead.

If you are ready to take the reins of your life and in need of some form of guidance then you have come to the rigth place. In this blog I am going to share with you five vital steps to help you consciously decide what is going to be in store for you in 2017.

For many people out there 2016 has been a turbulent year full of uncertainty, fear, and unexpected events that equally shocked and awakened humanity in profound ways.

Throughout history we have had similar events that brought about all of the good and bad things we today love or like to criticise.

The truth is all that we observe in life is the creation of our collective consciousness, but our human awareness barely recognizes this. We have become blinded to the existence of a higher order, the intelligence that governs all life, the equilibrium that already is in place, and our individual contribution.

It is precisely this vail that I observe in many of my clients who seek my help to accelerate their human and business potential.

Our brain is always balanced but our human awareness is blinded by our skewed perceptions and limiting beliefs. It is this that stops many people from creating the life they truly want and dream about.

All of the successful people that I have studied, been mentored by, and have come across know this. They all had mentors, coaches, and a great plan that they followed in order to achieve unprecedented success they now enjoy.

It is this same choice that I made back in 2010 that helped me accelerate my growth and create a very successful global coaching, training, speaking, and consulting business that I now love.

We hear it all the time, been told by our parents, society, friends, etc that succeeding at anything you need to work hard and it takes a lot of time to achieve the results we want.

Over the period of time they become our beliefs that subconsciously create the reality we so desperately want to change.

It is this kind of outdated beliefs that are running programs in your subconscious mind that sabotage your success. Many of you fall in the same trap that your parents, friends, and other people around you might be caught.

What coaching did for me and can do for you is to help you change this, to bring to your conscious awareness your beliefs that sabotage everything you may be working hard to create.

To help you accelerate your success it is essential to work with someone who can be a clean mirror and a fine tuned ear that picks up traces of injected values and beliefs that may be incapacitating your inborn abilities to succeed.

Up to 2010 I used to work very long hours to make ends meet. Like most people around me I felt frustrated, fearful of what future has on hold for me, and lacked the direction my life was going to take.

What happened in the last six years forever changed the way I perceive and create my reality. Instead of working hard for the things I wanted to achieve in my life, I now live daily with new empowering beliefs that support me to work smarter. I now help people do the same so just like me they too are also able to create conscious quantum jumps that pitch into existence the things they truly want.

Here are the five vital steps I use daily, teach my clients, and you too can adopt to accelerate your human potential and help you focus, plan, and create your desired outcomes in 2017.

Step 1: Clarify what Success means to You

One of the major problems that most of my clients face is the lack of clarity behind the success they are seeking. Before you go to step two, take pen and paper and write down how your life will change when you achieve the success you are seeking. For instance if you want more money, write down what will you do once you had money, what meaning will those experiences have for you.

Step 2: Create a Detailed Plan

A plan is like a road map that shows you where you are now and the best route to use to get to where you want to be. Being a student of wisdom I love learning from Dr John Demartini. In one of his seminars I heard him say “Those who fail to plan, plan to fail”. It is this that inspired me to create my Vital Planning for Elevated Living document that helped me accelerate my success and has now become very popular coaching program that clients from all professional backgrounds use to plan their purpose driven life.

Don’t just think “I have a plan in my head”, the truth is you won’t remember all the little twists and turns along the road…write it down in black and white and in as much detail as you can. Each and every day, do at least one thing that will advance your progress toward the outcomes you want to achieve in 2017 and beyond.

Step 3: Invest in Your Continues Learning

My grandfather used to say to me, the water that does not flow becomes polluted. Similarly, if you are not continuously learning, your knowledge becomes outdated and toxic for your body-mind and heart. Learn everything you can about what inspires you, invest in you by working with an expert to help you advance your learning. Knowledge is power. Surround yourself with people that achieved the success you are seeking, and find ways to serve people who are seeking the knowledge and the success you already have achieved.
Step 4: Find a Great Role Model, Coach or a Mentor

If you start to associate with someone who has succeeded in the field you are pursuing, associate yourself as closely as you can with that person. Get them to be your mentor, coach, or find ways to be of service to them. First-hand knowledge is more valuable than any other kind. Successful people have already made mistakes and they can help you avoid some pitfalls. They can open doors for you that would remain firmly closed without their help.

The truth is, the more you learn about yourself, the more you can organize this information in ways that you can easily access when you need it. The more you invest in your personal and business development, the faster you will grow. Continues investment in myself helped me become a global expert in human behaviour and cognition known as The See-Through Coach. A best-selling and five times award-winning author who now loves helping the owners of 6,7,8 and 9 figure businesses resolve problems, advance their learning, and accelerate their results whatever they may be.
Step 5: Take Action and Apply What You Learn

I come across so many amazing people who have spent years of learning that are struggling in their life. The only thing that stops them is not having the clarity required in order for them to apply what they know and take the appropriate action to achieve the success they want. Make sure you use the knowledge that you gain from your coach, mentor, seminars you attend or from doing your own research and put it into action now.

The overnight success people observe in me happened because I chose daily to not take “no” for an answer. When I get knocked down…I tell yourself to get up. When a door closes…I find ways to crawl through a window. If you too did what successful people do, you too one day end up becoming an overnight success in the eyes of those who did not take action during the time you kept trying.

If you find yourself stuck in situations that stress you out or make you frustrated, take action now and make 2017 the year you accelerate your success. If you have procrastinated about stuff for months or even years – perhaps being more confident, address mental or emotional issues, getting fit, starting your own business or finding a loving partner – why not make 2017 the year you really go for it!

If your life has been a bit flat for a while, make 2017 the year you embrace something amazing! Experience the world in a different way, step out of your comfort zone, be daring.

I have a selection of Coaching Programs that together with my signature five day Vital Planning for Elevated Living Program will help you get your life back on track, do what you love and be abundantly rewarded, so what are you waiting for?

Schedule a clarity coaching consultation in 2017 and start taking back control of your life, your business, your organization.

No matter how each one of us feels, no matter what we do or not do, the truth is every time we look up, we see the sun, the moon, the sky, and an infinite universe filled with stars that at night come alive and shine their light equally on us all. What could be possible if each one of us comes out of our cocoon and just like stars, every day we shine our love and light? What would change in your life if right now you decided to make a Dent in the universe?

What if, just like I did, you too can find a way to activate your inner genius, become focused, and connect with the right people that can help you on your journey. I trust what you are about to read is going to inspire you into action so that you reach for your star, create a clear vision, and take the steps required to help you deliver your highest vision and make a dent in the universe.

So how did a homeless man who twenty-six years ago fled the atrocities of civil war, could not speak English, had no money, no family or friends to turn too ended up on a British Airways Business Class to San Diego, staying at Hard Rock Hotel in a King Suite room, being interviewed by legendary Brian Tracey, connect with Nick Nanton from Celebrity Branding You, and appear on ABC, NBC, Fox, and CBS discussing about my work, award-winning books, and real life coaching documentaries created in partnership with the founders of Vandercom, Joel Van der Molen and Timea Van der Molen. Some of you may be wondering how did I go about creating a concourse of wisdom which is helping people access, activate, and accelerate their human and business potential.

Others may be thinking how did I attract clients from all professions, sectors, and markets including Dr Emanuele Garbelli with whom we are on a mission to transform healthcare globally, Philip Carvil, a space physiology scientist on a mission to create product and services for safe travel to space, and Paul McMonagle on a mission to help people globally heal their OCD and support them on their journey to perfect health? Pretty impressive, wouldn’t you agree?

For many people what I just shared sounds mission impossible, but for me, like a phoenix, I chose to rise triumphantly from the ashes of my misery, loneliness, and emotional pain and become Human Behaviour expert known internationally as The See-Through Coach who loves inspiring others find solutions to global problems that mankind is facing now and in the not far distant future.

Looking back at my life, I now see with clarity how the pain, the adversities, and the isolation I experienced were what shaped me to daily strive to become a better person, to help others heal, and on this path to learn how both pain and pleasure in equal measure were what helped me focus, create and deliver a vision that is now making a Dent in the universe.

In 2009, my life took a very different turn, without much of a warning I was subjected to corporate backstabbing games that led me feeling stressed, emotionally weak, and destabilised my entire life. I was surprised to learn that I was far from alone on this journey; it seems that many people up and down the country faced redundancy and unfair dismissals that triggered various fears, mental and emotional health related issues, as well as stress-related problems in their personal, professional, and business life.

I started to isolate myself by avoiding seeing friends and family because I didn’t want them to know; I was ashamed, fearful, and became insecure of my worth I knew I had inside. Luckily, I am not one to dwell in this kind of state. I quickly began searching for solutions, I spent a great deal of time evaluating different online programs, I bought The Sylva Method, Hands of Light, Sedona Method, and started to attend talks, seminars and hired few healers and coaches to help me get out of this state.

Each time I passed through Piccadilly, Leicester-square, and Charing Cross Road I found myself in Waterstones, Watkins Spiritual bookshop, and Foyles. I bought and started to read two to four books a week. All of this helped a little, but I was still a long way from that light at the end of the tunnel. If losing the job I loved wasn’t bad enough, I also experienced a major breakdown and had identity crisis that lead me to give power to the voices of my injected values, beliefs, and the unmet expectations of others. Over the months that followed, I studied Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT), Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) and became qualified Transformational Life Coach.

I then signed up to attend a nine-month entrepreneurial program called “How to become a Key Person of Influence (KPI).” During these nine months, I met so many entrepreneurs on a similar journey to me. I focused my time, energy and money to work with a coach, attend Dr John Demartini’s talks and seminars, and learn how to apply to my business the five simple steps of the KPI Method that Daniel Priestly, the founder of KPI, uses to help entrepreneurs become a key person of influence.

During this nine-month program I learned how to perfect my pitch, create coaching products full of value, built an international profile, create TJS Evolutionary Method, publish my unique IP, and partner up with others to take this unique work ad make a Dent in the universe by reaching, educating, healing, and touching the hearts of one billion people.

Within months of publishing my book A Path to Wisdom, it reached Amazon Number One Best-selling list in Personal Development Category ahead of many global teachers like Louise Hay, Anthony Robbins, and many other respected figures in the personal, professional, business and spiritual development industry. I just kept re-investing everything I was earning from my coaching clients, healing sessions, and business consulting in my personal, professional, and business development. Working with Dr John Demartini helped me clarify my vision, mission, and purpose and be paid my worth.

The more integrated I became inside, the more I started to attract the right clients, opportunities and partnerships to help me deliver the fruits that many of my clients were experiencing to a global audience. The more clients I coached, the more I activated my inner genius and the bigger my vision became. Supporting so many clients resolve their personal, professional and business problems as well as from personal experience I felt called to write about loneliness. A global problem that is not going away, but instead it is increasing exponentially through the power of the internet and social media.

The desire to help people breakthrough their loneliness, find solutions to their mental, physical, emotional related health problems as well as relationship, business, financial and self-love issues, is what inspired me to focus my time, energy, and money to create a powerful five-step method that when applied daily it helps them find the switch that activates their inner light, healing power and infinite wisdom of love. so that they can live more fulfilling, connected, and purposeful lives

We are so connected technologically, yet feel very alone in our hearts, this is a growing problem, we are symbiotic by design, our survival depends on our connection and collaboration with each other. Knowing this I started to think about a solution to the segregation we experience worldwide that people can use daily to live more fulfilling, connected, and purposeful lives. It is this dream to connect people in ways

It is this dream to connect people in ways that help them create heart, mind and soul coherence that inspired me to write another book. It is this thirst for being of service to humanity that gave birth to another international award-winning book#Loneliness – The Virus of The Modern Age. I spend six months researching the subject of loneliness.

I learnt how loneliness impacts our genes, weakens our immune system, and is the root cause of the separation we experience globally. Using my trademarked methodology in human development, the TJS Evolutionary Method® (TJS Method) alongside TJS Meditation Solutions, the TJS Value Alignment, as well as Vital Planning for Elevated Living Five Day Seminar to help more clients achieve results I started to attract better clients and far greater opportunities that I ever thought possible.

It is this vision to create life manual to reach, educate, and inspire one billion people to live more fulfilling, connected, and purposeful lives that gave birth to my next book #Loneliness – The Virus of The Modern Age. I spent six months researching the subject of loneliness. I learnt how loneliness impacts our genes, weakens our immune system, and is the root cause of the separation we experience globally. Using my trademarked methodology in human development, the TJS Evolutionary Method® (TJS Method) alongside TJS Meditation Solutions, the TJS Value Alignment, as well as Vital Planning for Elevated Living Five Day Seminar to help more clients achieve results I started to attract better clients and far greater opportunities that I ever thought possible.

This lead to taking my business and my life to a whole new level, one that lead me to Nick Nanton, Brian Tracey, and with their support appear on ABC, NBC, Fox, and CBS TV channels to reach more people and make a Dent in the Universe. Here are Five Vital Steps to help you on your journey to unleash your value, create a business and products that solve global problems, and in turn support you on your journey to making a Dent in the universe.

1. Acknowledge Your Worth. What I mean by that is get clear on who you are, what is your credibility, and what value you do you have that the world needs.
2. Love the unlovable. Many of you reject things that are not loving to you, true master sees the balance in everything you experience, the good and the bad. Learn to see the other side of everything that you currently may perceive as unlovable.
3. Achieve inner equilibrium. Your physiology will thank you for balancing your skewed perception, the more balanced you feel within, the more you become in your outer world.
4. Results you want are your creation. Whatever the challenge may be, remember to get the results you want you must commit your time, love and energy. Make sure you know it is your responsibility to create the happiness you deserve.
5. A miracle is what you are by design, learn to activate, accelerate and advance this wisdom that is within you to create the miracles you desire in your life. Start by having a great conversation with your higher self. Go into the future, find the man you have become, and let him write a letter to your current self on how you went about in making a Dent in the universe.

Apply these five vital steps of the TJS Evolutionary Method on a daily basis, they will awaken your purpose, wisdom, and hearts intelligence. If what you have read rings true to your heart, then please make sure you leave your comments below and let me and my subscribers know your inspirational story. Don’t forget to start reading and learning the method and the steps shared in my books and to sign up to receive my inspirational newsletter packed with food for the mind and heart, follow me on twitter, fb public page, Instagram, and connect with me on LinkedIn.

You may also choose to start your coaching journey with me, if so, my recommendation is to book a two hour of clarity coaching consultation during which we will identify what you need to do in order for you to get clear on the next steps you need to make to shine your light and make a dent in the universe.

In the next blog, I am going to share what happens next as I go through the Celebrity Branding Experience with Nick, Brian, his team of expertise at the Hard Rock Hotel in San Diego, and the live interview with Brian Tracey.

Finally, thank you for stopping by, being a valued subscriber, a reader of my books, and a fan, valued client, and most importantly a fellow light friend, on this short life journey.

Love and wisdom

Tony J. Selimi

“It is in respecting, manging, and using your time effectively that you stay focused, clear, sharp, present, and build an extraordinary life.” -Tony J. Selimi

Weather you acknowledge it or not time is a precious and limited commodity of which we all are given in equal measure. Everybody gets twenty four hours per day…no more, no less…

It matters not how much money you have or don’t have, how educated you are, what your social position you belong too, if you are married, single, gay or straight, white, black, Asian, or other, the fact is…

You still get only twenty four hours a day, no more and no less. You can’t buy, beg, borrow or steal another one minute.

As much as we would like to think we are in charge of these twenty four hours, the truth is what we do with those twenty four hours is not entirely up to us.

We all have obligations that must be met each day. We have jobs that provide us with necessary income, a certain amount of time is required for eating and sleeping and our relationships with our loved ones require some amount of time each day but the entire twenty four are not all spoken for.

These are the few hours each day that we can use as we want to use them. What we decide to do with them will mostly determine how successful or unsuccessful we will be in life.

If we spend all of our “unspoken for hours” on fb, playing games, or on the couch in front of the TV eating chips and drinking coke, in five years we will still be doing the same boring job. When I decided to write my book A Path to Wisdom: How to live a balanced, healthy and peaceful life, I had to put in my diary minimum of 2 hours a day writting time. This helped me to remain focused, in the flow, and publish my book on time.

Some of those free hours if, used to learn new things or to try different things, could mean that in a short amount of time we would have better jobs, better relationships or even better health.

That seems like a good idea but where does one begin when clouds of confusion surround our brain?

#1: Get clear of the outcomes you wish to create. Write down in details what you want to achieve, why you want those things, and how they would make you feel once you have accomplished your goals. You can use TJS Evolutionary Method to help you in this process to help you listen from within what your being is asking you to do. Learnign how to use and apply this method will save you time and help you get step closer to your desired success.

# 2: For a plane to reach its destination safely it needs both a physical pilot and an auto pilot. Both are needed to safely reach a pre-set destination. So do you. Trying to do everything on your own will not get you the results that a good coach can help you navigate safely through the adversities that may pop out on your way to attaining your desired outcomes. Ask for help, sometimes people go for free advice, I believe if you want outstanding outcomes you might have to pay the expert that in long term saves you time, money, energy and the emotions. If you try an re-invent the wheel, you are just wasting that valuable resource that you have, time.

One thing to keep in mind when getting a good coach to help you in your journey, there’s a big difference between spending money and investing money. Any time you spend some money on learning something that will take you closer to what you want, that’s investment!

# 3: Use your time effectively by making sure you set aside a certain amount of hours each
week to work on your goal, and stick to it. Be persistent, consistent, and productive. The time that is not used effectively is the time that could be used to attain your goals.

#4: Acknowledge within you that you are part of life, part of the greater picture that knows in order to create success it must also experience the failure. Nature does the same, in order to create it must destroy life. The progress in becoming successful is messy. The very nature of any type of growth being personal, business, finance, health or spiritual means that you’ll experience distraction, disruption, confusion and what at first sight appears to be difficulty. It is in these moments you need to keep in mind that difficulties are improvement in wolf’s clothing. And that rather than falling backward, you choose to fail forward, stand up again with a knowing that your challenges are actually showing you you’re moving ahead. It’s a simple yet brilliant way to keep your perceptions balanced through your journey to attaining success.

#: Love is a powerful force that forces us to go into war with one another and equally makes us love our enemies. Align the outcomes you wish to create with your highest values, it is only then that your heart opens up and gives you the energy to create the success you desire. Success will come much faster when you don’t waste your time trying to do it all on your own.

I trust the above five steps help you bring success faster your way, get clear of what you want, and use the infinite wisdom of love as the antidote to your frustrations, fears, and stress that may come up in your pursue for success. Appreciating your time in times of crisis is what takes you from living an average life to creating an extraordinary success.

Believe in the call on your life to do amazing things by making today the day you listen to your hearts call to Success!

And, if what you have read has inspired you, please get in touch and let me help you honour your talents, be successful, unleash your leader, and make awesome things happen for you, your organization, and the clients you serve. It gives me a great pleasure through coaching, mentoring, speaking, and team work to help you and your company be successful. To get in touch please click HERE!

Be great, awesome, and healthy,

Tony J. Selimi

Coach, Human Behaviour and Cognition Specialist

It’s a brand new year, and you know that you have the light bulb within you to create anything you desire!

How does a year filled with more peace, love, joy, abundance, and wellbeing sound to you?

What if you could gain access to tools and information proven to help connect with your spirit, bust through your blocks, let go of fear, and live a more elevated life?

Imagine a life free of limitations, full of opportunities and overflowing with abundance, healing and wellbeing where struggles with relationships, health, weight, money or career are at a minimum, and love, freedom and happiness are part of your everyday experience.

It may sound too good to be true, but I assure you living this way IS possible. Whether this year you are looking to re-train your mind, earn more money, start your business, heal your body, connect with your spirit, discover your soul purpose or access your intuition, what I am about to share with you has something for you!

The first five things you need to do in 2015 is…

1. Get Yourself a Coach

2. Become clear of the outcomes, the goals and the impact you want to make.

3. Establish a clear game plan.

4. Learn the Body, Mind, Spirit Rules of the game you want to play

5. Become persistent by committing to seeing it through to the end.

THE FACT IS…

It’s irresponsible to start 2015 unfocused, unprepared, and uncommitted. It is the same as wanting to go on holiday but never booking a ticket. Yet, that is going to be the reality for far too many.

But it does not have to be that way for you. If you want to make big things happen in 2015, then check out the following insights that I use to help all of my clients achieve extraordinary results.

It all starts with these 23 lessons–the BEST lessons I’ve learned in my life. I first shared them last year when I published my book A A Path to Wisdom and coached many committed entrepreneurs and clients from all walks of life who found them so valuable I wanted to share them with you at the start of the New Year.

And so……here are 30 insights to help you fly. Please don’t forget to share them so we help uplift all around us too…

#1. Success is about becoming focused on your few best opportunities.

#2. Resisting change prevents you from the main source of your growth.

#3. The more you invest in growing and developing your spiritual self, your emotional self, and your mindset and way of seeing the world, the more everything you touch transforms in a breathtakingly positive way.

#4. Don’t accept mediocrity, always pursue perfection in all what you do.

#5. Daily spend time to meditate and allow your mind to be quiet, to heal, and help it recharge.Click here to download this meditation that Awakens Your Natural healing abilities of your body, release any tensions with ease, and leaves you feeling calm, energised, and peaceful.

#6. Live in doing daily acts of kindness. Doing something super-nice for at least one stranger a day gives them a gift and an even larger one to yourself.

#7. Do activities that relax you. Book yourself a monthly massage, the one i truly enjoy and recommend to all of my clients is Adam Frewer’s Energy Healing Full body Massage. Believe me, you’ll body will thank you for it.

#8. The smartest thing you can do to grow a great company is to first learn how to pitch your business. What helped me most is doing the KPI Program, for further details click here..

#9. Replace tv, reading Metro News Paper, and other negative news that are toxic with watching inspired videos. You tube is perfect for that.

#10. Have the discipline to clean out all the energy-draining people in your life. Sometimes this may include the very same people we love most-our family members, friends and people we may date. You really do rise or fall to the level of your associations.

#11. Doing huge dreams we have never done can be frightening. Yet when we push to the edges of our limits, our limits expand.

#12. Make time for yourself to get inspired, no one around you will ever be inspired unless you radiate that energy.

#13. Learn to eat healthy. Your diet affects your moods. Eat like a superstar.

#14. Talk less. Visualise, feel, and do more.

#15. Know your values, it is what you have highest on your values what determines what decision and choices you make. Integrity is more valuable than income.

#16. Model people you admire, love and who inspire you and you’ll find at the end of your life you lived an awesome one.

#17. Learn to love yourself. It’s the great rule for being loving with other people.

#18. When your dominant business focus is to deliver outrageous amounts of value to your customers every time they do business with you, they become fanatical followers who tell the world about what you do.

#19. Know the voice that is yours, the one that nurtures your soul and opens your heart.

#20. Diffuse conflicts. Real leaders have the guts to have the hard conversations and love to communicate transparently.

#21. Create the environment (your home, your office, the magazines you read etc.) that supports the levels of achievements you are seeking.

#22. Practice makes thing perfect. The quality of your practice affects the calibre of your performance.

#23. Daily review your goals and your plan how to achieve them. It is an exceptionally powerful way to breed unbeatable focus and drive.

#24. Measure your success via your influence and impact versus only by your income and net worth.

#25. To become successful, first learn how to be in the flow, feel happy, and live in the moment.

#26. My clients who also invest in a personal trainer and get themselves ultra-fit they end up automatically lift every other area of their life.

#27. Believe in You. Self-belief is so incredibly important. Because if you don’t believe you can achieve a vision/goal, then you won’t even start to do the work needed to achieve that vision/goal.

#28. Eliminate doubt. Our biggest enemy is our own self-doubt. We really can achieve extraordinary things in our lives. But we sabotage our greatness because of our fear. Learn to trust the intelligence that is in every part of your being.

#29. Spend time every day to learn something new about you, your industry, and the market you may be trying to reach.

#30.Spend time in nature, learn to be one with nature, and appreciate nature.

I sincerely hope you use these 30 insights to electrify your mindset, equip you with success ammunition, and help you learn the rules of the game plan so you start 2015 in an ultra-powerful way.

And if you are REALLY serious about making 2015 is the single greatest year of your life yet, definitely get reading Amazon bestselling Book A Path to Wisdom and give yourself the gift of two hour clarity coaching session and let me help you make this New Year Your Best Year Yet. Click here to book.

Oh–and please remember, the way you start 2015 profoundly influences the way you’ll end it so definitely kick it into HIGH gear right now.

Resource: I’ve meticulously built TJS Evolutionary Method that walks you through how to make this New Year the single best year of your life. It’s in my book and packed with useful ideas.

Make sure you get your copy here and to sign up to be inspired, please go here and fill the sign up form.

Love, Live, Learn, and Be. With appreciation and respect,

Tony J Selimi

P.S. The “TJS Evolutionary Blissful Meditation Solutions” I’ve handcrafted for you has inspired many people to make beautiful improvements in their lives. You can download them from here .