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					<description><![CDATA[Dear growth seeker, welcome to my Relationships Failures Unveiled blog. You are here because, deep down, you know there are relationship failures you want to address and relationship failures unveiled. Yes, relationships can be fragile, and many things can cause them to break. Relationships can be some of the most rewarding aspects of our  [...]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[Tony J. Selimi <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/relationships-failures-unveiled/">Relationships Failures Unveiled</a> <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/author/admin/">Tony J. Selimi</a><div class="fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 fusion-flex-container nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling" style="--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;" ><div class="fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start fusion-flex-content-wrap" style="max-width:1145.04px;margin-left: calc(-4% / 2 );margin-right: calc(-4% / 2 );"><div class="fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-flex-column" style="--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:100%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:1.92%;--awb-margin-bottom-large:0px;--awb-spacing-left-large:1.92%;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-spacing-right-medium:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-medium:1.92%;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-spacing-right-small:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-small:1.92%;"><div class="fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column"><div class="fusion-text fusion-text-1"><p>Dear growth seeker, welcome to my Relationships Failures Unveiled blog.</p>
<p data-pm-slice="1 1 &#091;&#093;">You are here because, deep down, you know there are relationship failures you want to address and relationship failures unveiled. Yes, relationships can be fragile, and many things can cause them to break. Relationships can be some of the most rewarding aspects of our lives, but they can also be some of the most challenging. As humans, we crave connection, intimacy, and love, but sometimes our relationships fall apart, leaving using hurt, confused, and alone. Relationships fail for many reasons, but one of the core issues that often lead to the breakdown of a relationship is communication.</p>
<p>Lack of communication or ineffective communication skills can lead to misunderstandings, frustration, and conflict. Another common issue is a difference in core values, long-term goals, and lifestyles. When partners aren&#8217;t on the same page, it can create tension and make working together as a team difficult. It establishes trust and boundary issues and fosters unresolved conflicts. With time they become a piece of emotional baggage that weighs you down and causes self-esteem challenges.</p>
<p>Over the years, I&#8217;ve overcome many relationship challenges, breakups, and heartbreaks. In a way, it forced me to seek the best coaches, healers, and therapists out there to learn more about why I was stuck in repeated patterns and the secret to the psychology of healthy relationships. Since then, I&#8217;ve helped thousands of people successfully address personal, relationship, professional, financial and business challenges. And one of the top things I&#8217;ve observed with delivering over 25,000 coaching hours that destroys a relationship is the unwillingness to discuss the things you must examine. Here are some everyday things that I observed in my daily coaching work with clients that destroy relationships:</p>
<p>* Lack of communication</p>
<p>* Conflicts of values</p>
<p>* Unresolved arguments</p>
<p>* Infidelity</p>
<p>* Avoiding behaviours</p>
<p>* Ability to say no</p>
<p>* Poor trust and boundaries</p>
<p>* Jealousy and possessiveness</p>
<p>* Being a people pleaser</p>
<p>* Low self-worth</p>
<p>* Not being tough when one of the partners does things that hurt the other partner</p>
<p>* Doing things that cross the agreed relationship boundaries.</p>
<p>* Bringing the past into the present</p>
<p>* Not seeking help and investing in working with a therapist or a coach</p>
<p>* Saying things the other partner loves to hear but not following up with actions that show care, loyalty, commitment, and willingness to compromise.</p>
<p>* Expecting your partner always to support you and not challenge you</p>
<p>* Failure to grow together</p>
<p>* Unwillingness to discuss what you must examine</p>
<p>* Focusing on love even when it hurts the most, etc.</p>
<p>Identifying and addressing these issues before it’s too late is essential. If you&#8217;re struggling to maintain positive relationships, don&#8217;t worry.</p>
<p>I aim to inspire you on why investing in growing your understanding of why relationships fail and what you can do to rejuvenate your relationships is the best investment you will ever make..</p>
<p>The truth is,</p>
<p>On this personal relationship transformation journey, and having worked with thousands of clients to assist them in creating personal, relationship, and professional breakthroughs, I realised that although no relationship is perfect, there are ways to make them fulfilling. Relationships can be fragile, and many things can cause them to break. This also applies to any relationship, being with yourself or others.</p>
<p>Through coaching, you can develop self-awareness, self-reflection, and empathy and learn to navigate those challenges with openness, honesty, and clarity. Many clients I have helped create relationship breakthroughs benefited from learning to identify and navigate those mental and emotional differences, find compromises and common ground, and create alignment and harmony in their relationships. Identifying and addressing these issues before it&#8217;s too late is essential.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re struggling to maintain positive relationships, don&#8217;t worry. As a transformational life coach specialising in human behaviour, emotional intelligence and maximising human potential, and as someone who has helped hundreds of clients successfully address relationship challenges, I can guide you through these challenges and help you revive and strengthen your relationships. Whether you&#8217;re struggling in your romantic life or have difficulties with friends or family members, I&#8217;m here to help you create the breakthroughs you need to get the love you want and the relationships that stay with you through thin and thick.</p>
<p>So, consider coaching if you find yourself in repeated toxic relationship patterns. My science-based relationship transformation processes and holistic approach to coaching can help you learn how to overcome those challenges and create lasting, healthy relationships with yourself, your partner, family, and colleagues. Another benefit as your coaching partner that you will get is to learn how to communicate effectively with your partner and navigate complex emotions and challenging conversations with clarity and compassion.</p>
<p>Each session is tailored to your immediate needs and aims to help you build a happy, healthy, and fulfilling relationship. You&#8217;ll learn to create greater intimacy and connection, identify and change negative patterns and behaviours, and create a robust and resilient relationship. Whether you&#8217;re single and looking for love or in a relationship needing extra support, let&#8217;s work together to take your connection to the next level.</p>
<p>Some of the benefits you can expect from each integrated breakthrough relationship coaching session include the following:</p>
<ol>
<li>Improved communication skills</li>
<li>Increased relationship satisfaction and happiness</li>
<li>Greater ability to navigate conflict and challenges</li>
<li>Greater self-awareness and self-confidence</li>
<li>Improved emotional intimacy and connection with your partner</li>
<li>Greater ability to set and maintain boundaries</li>
<li>More extraordinary ability to express yourself and your needs</li>
<li>Increased ability to get your needs met while also meeting your partner&#8217;s needs</li>
<li>Greater empathy and understanding for your partner</li>
<li>High ability to show up and be present in your relationship.</li>
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<p>For those ready to invest in your relationship and create the kind of connection you&#8217;ve always dreamed of, integrated breakthrough relationship coaching might be the perfect solution. Whether you&#8217;re single and looking to develop a healthy foundation for future relationships or in a relationship that needs extra support, coaching can help you cultivate greater awareness, understanding, and connection.</p>
<p>So why wait?</p>
<p>Book a session today and start creating the healthy, happy, and fulfilling relationship you deserve! Remember, strong relationships can significantly impact our overall well-being and happiness. Don&#8217;t let these common issues destroy your relationships. Take control today. Let&#8217;s work together to cultivate healthy and strong connections that will last a lifetime. To book a coaching session with me, email my PA at <a href="mailto:info@tonyselimi.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener">info@tonyselimi.com</a>, and let&#8217;s strengthen your relationship mindset and create a thriving relationship.</p>
<p>Tag someone you know who would benefit from reading this post or having a breakthrough relationship session. Leave your thoughts in the comments section below, and share this post to inspire others to grow.</p>
<p>Love &amp; Wisdom,</p>
<p><a title="About" href="https://tonyselimi.com/about/" target="_blank" rel="noopener sponsored">Tony J. Selimi</a> &#8211; Award-Winning Author, Speaker, and Transformational Life and Business Coach Specialising in Human Behaviour and Maximising Human Potential. Winner of the <a href="https://www.sme-news.co.uk/issues/greater-london-enterprise-awards-2020/14/">London SME Most Visionary Entrepreneur</a>, the EXPY, <a href="https://www.corporatevision-news.com/issues/coaching-and-recruitment-awards-2021/4/">Corporate Coaching and Recruitment Business Coach of the Year Award</a>. <a href="https://literarytitan.com/2021/07/05/literary-titan-book-awards-july-2021/">Silver Winner of Literary Book Award</a>, USA Book, Book Excellence, Top Shelf Magazine, Readers&#8217; Favourite, Quilly®, Literary Titan Gold, Pacific Book, President&#8217;s Book, Firebird, and <a href="https://maincrestmedia.com/award-winners/">Maincreast Media Book Award</a> for <a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/Path-Wisdom-balanced-healthy-peaceful/dp/1909623571">A Path to Wisdom</a>, <strong>#Loneliness</strong>, <a href="https://theunfakeablecode.com/">The Unfakeable Code®</a>, and <a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/Path-Excellence-Blueprint-Greatest-Potential/dp/B0B83YWXN9/">A Path to Excellence</a> in the following categories: Personal Growth and Development, Self Improvement, Self Help, New-Age, Inspirational, Motivational, Entrepreneurship, and Business and Leadership</p>
<p>PS – I work virtually and in person with clients all over the globe, facilitating the realisation and accomplishment of personal, relationship, professional, financial and business goals. Here are four ways I can assist:</p>
<p><strong>#1…</strong> Book a Breakthrough Consultation Session by sending an email to <a href="http://mailto:info@tonyselimi.com/"><strong>info@tonyselimi.com</strong></a>.</p>
<p><strong>#2</strong> &#8230; Start Reading my <strong>#1</strong> Amazon bestselling and Multi-Award-Winning books, <a href="http://bit.ly/APathToWisdomUK">A Path to Wisdom</a>, <strong>#Loneliness</strong>, <a href="https://theunfakeablecode.com/">The Unfakeable Code®,</a> <a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/Path-Excellence-Blueprint-Greatest-Potential/dp/B0B83YWXN9/">A Path to Excellence</a> and enrol in my Mindfulness for Higher Productivity, Performance, and Profitable Life Udemy Course! Click <a href="https://www.udemy.com/course/tony-selimi-mindfulness-in-business/">here</a> to join thousands of happy students.</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[There are two significant problems with love. The first is that it's challenging to find someone who likes the same things you like or doesn't mind your not wanting those things. The second problem is that when you find a person who fits these criteria, it turns out they're crazy and can't handle basic  [...]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[Tony J. Selimi <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/love-isnt-the-problem/">Love Isn’t The Problem</a> <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/author/admin/">Tony J. Selimi</a><div class="fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-2 fusion-flex-container nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling" style="--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;" ><div class="fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start fusion-flex-content-wrap" style="max-width:1145.04px;margin-left: calc(-4% / 2 );margin-right: calc(-4% / 2 );"><div class="fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-flex-column" style="--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:100%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:1.92%;--awb-margin-bottom-large:0px;--awb-spacing-left-large:1.92%;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-spacing-right-medium:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-medium:1.92%;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-spacing-right-small:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-small:1.92%;"><div class="fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column"><div class="fusion-text fusion-text-2"><p class="reader-text-block__paragraph">There are two significant problems with love. The first is that it&#8217;s challenging to find someone who likes the same things you like or doesn&#8217;t mind your not wanting those things. The second problem is that when you find a person who fits these criteria, it turns out they&#8217;re crazy and can&#8217;t handle basic human emotions.</p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph">You know what I&#8217;m talking about: You go on a first date and think this person has potential, but then they start freaking out because they don&#8217;t want to be taken care of, have their feelings hurt, or whatever else makes relationships hard and painful. But here&#8217;s where we can get real: It doesn&#8217;t matter how many times people say &#8220;true love conquers all&#8221; because, in reality, it doesn&#8217;t conquer anything!</p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph">Having delivered over 25,000 hours of coaching and training, I concluded that no one ever chooses to be alone because they want to spend more time alone; we prefer solitude because of past hurt, lack of trust, and need space after being in relationships for too long. So instead of trying to find true love—which may never come—let&#8217;s take some actionable steps toward improving your relationship with yourself before attempting anything else!</p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph">Here are two questions to ponder with:</p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph"><strong>What would happen in your life if you learned to unlock the secrets of having a fulfilling relationship?</strong> <strong>What if you could have the relationship of your dreams?</strong></p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph">You can be happy in your love life when you get out of your way! You may think it&#8217;s their fault and you are not like them.</p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph">I hear you. I do. And that&#8217;s precisely the problem.</p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph">So let&#8217;s talk about how to be your authentic self because if we can get there together, everything else will follow naturally and easily. Here are eight steps you can read in more detail about in <a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/Path-Excellence-Blueprint-Achieving-Potential-ebook/dp/B0BG4LYXZB/">A Path to Excellence</a> and can use immediately to help you overcome relationship blocks:</p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph"><strong>Step 1: Learn to love the unloveable in you and others. Love Yourself.</strong></p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph">Before you can love someone else, you have to love yourself. This doesn&#8217;t mean you should be selfish or egotistical; you need to be comfortable with who you are and what makes up your life. If a relationship isn&#8217;t working out, it&#8217;s okay not to force it&#8211;but if it is working out and making both partners happy, then why would anyone want to end it?</p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph">Love yourself first so that when the time comes for another person in your life (whether male or female), they&#8217;ll feel comfortable enough with themselves and each other to make their relationship last long enough for both parties involved.</p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph"><strong>Step 2: Stop avoiding conflict and be willing to have difficult conversations with yourself and your partner(s).</strong></p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph">Avoidance is the most significant relationship killer. It&#8217;s a sign of fear and will only lead to resentment and pain. If you avoid conflict, you&#8217;re in for some trouble. Conflicts are inevitable in life&#8211;and in love! It&#8217;s how couples handle them that matters most. So don&#8217;t let yourself get stuck on the idea that conflict is wrong; it means both partners are alive and well, communicating effectively with one another about their needs and desires as individuals within their relationship and together as a couple. When two people who care about each other enough to be vulnerable enough with each other meet these challenges head-on instead of running away or hiding behind passive-aggressive behaviour (which only creates more distance between them), they learn more about themselves through interacting with each other than they ever could alone.</p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph"><strong>Step 3: Stop Chasing Support.</strong></p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph">It&#8217;s not easy to do, but if you can stop looking for support from others, you will find that your sense of self-worth will increase. When we look outside ourselves for validation, whether through our partners or friends, we are telling ourselves that we are not enough as we are. This leads us down an unhealthy path where we depend on others for happiness and validation.</p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph">You don&#8217;t need anyone else&#8217;s love or approval; all you need is the love within yourself! Stop chasing support from others. Instead, ask for what you need from your partner(s) directly and consistently (i.e., &#8220;I would like some help with the dishes tonight&#8221;) rather than expecting them to read your mind or guess at what might make you feel better (i.e., &#8220;If I were doing my share, then I wouldn&#8217;t be so tired&#8221;).</p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph"><strong>Step 4: Stop Injecting Your Parent&#8217;s Voice into Your Relationships.</strong></p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph">This is the most critical step, and it&#8217;s pretty simple. You must be aware that you have been doing this for your entire life. It&#8217;s like when you were little, and your parents told you how much they loved the drawing or poem you made in school: it felt great!</p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph">But then those feelings started going away as soon as their praise stopped at regular intervals, right? This same thing happens when we start thinking about our partner as someone who has failed us somehow because they didn&#8217;t meet our expectations (or even worse, if we&#8217;re not getting praise from them).</p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph">Stop injecting parental voices into relationships. If you do, you will only get in the way; try speaking up for yourself instead of waiting for someone else to do it! This can be especially difficult if your parents were critical or controlling toward each other when they were married&#8211;but remember: You don&#8217;t have to follow their example!</p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph"><strong>Step 5: Know What Your Expectations Are.</strong></p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph">To break this cycle of disappointment with others, we first need to know what exactly those expectations are&#8211;and where they come from! Maybe something specific happened in childhood that caused us to have certain beliefs about what a romantic partner should be like; perhaps it was just growing up around certain people who had similar views, maybe some combination thereof&#8230;</p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph">Whatever the cause, once we identify what these beliefs are (and whether or not they&#8217;re helpful), we can make plans for shifting them into something more positive.</p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph"><strong>Step 6: Create a Love List.</strong></p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph">If you&#8217;re looking for love, stop.</p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph">Could you list all the qualities you want in your partner and stick them on your fridge? If someone comes along who meets all those qualifications, excellent! But if they don&#8217;t, it&#8217;s time to take another look at that list and see what else needs changing before giving up entirely (hint: probably nothing). If, after all this work, there isn&#8217;t anyone who fits the bill perfectly, then it&#8217;s time for some self-improvement. Does that list include items that equally challenge and support you?</p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph"><strong>Step 7 &#8211; Take Risks and be Open-Hearted in Your Relationships.</strong></p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph">You can&#8217;t be open-hearted if you&#8217;re afraid of getting hurt. It would help if you took risks to get what you want, which means putting yourself out there.</p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph">You might find that being vulnerable is scary&#8211;but if someone doesn&#8217;t like who I am or what I have to offer them, then it&#8217;s not the right relationship for me anyway! They aren&#8217;t worth my time and energy (and vice versa).</p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph">Being vulnerable isn&#8217;t easy; it takes courage and strength to open yourself up to rejection or disappointment. But this also means that when someone does accept all parts of who we are without judgment, our hearts soar with joy as we experience true love from another human being!</p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph"><strong>Step 8: You can be happy in your love life when you get out of your way!</strong></p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph">The key to happiness is not love; it&#8217;s getting out of your way.</p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph">How do you do that? Well, there are lots of ways! You can meditate, take up a hobby, or spend more time with friends and family&#8211;things like that will help. But if you&#8217;re looking for something more immediate, here are some simple steps:</p>
<ul>
<li>Be authentic&#8211;don&#8217;t pretend to be someone else to attract a partner (or friends or family). If they don&#8217;t love who you are, then they aren&#8217;t worth your time anyway!</li>
<li>Be honest&#8211;don&#8217;t lie about who you are and what you want out of life or love relationships; otherwise, things will get messy later on when these lies come out!</li>
<li>Be transparent&#8211;don&#8217;t hide things from others just because they may not like hearing what those things might be; honesty is always better than lying because it helps build trust between people, which leads to healthy relationships over time!</li>
</ul>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph">I trust that what you have read so far supports you in realizing that love isn&#8217;t the problem. You are the problem!</p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph">You have this idea in your head about how things should go and what other people should be doing so that they make sense to you, but this is just an illusion because nobody knows anything about anything except themselves (and maybe their dogs or cats).</p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph">So let go of any expectations or assumptions about what anyone else should be doing or thinking; focus on yourself instead! And when someone tells us something new about themselves&#8211;which happens all the time in relationships&#8211;we have this tendency towards judgementalism based on our preconceived notions rather than just accepting them as another human being who has different experiences from ours; remember how many times we&#8217;ve gotten upset over something minor? We need some perspective sometimes!</p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph"><strong>Conclusion</strong></p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph">I trust you&#8217;ve enjoyed this little look at the science of love. I know it can be challenging, but if you keep these tips in mind and try them out for yourself, you&#8217;ll find that your relationships will improve in no time!</p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph">Love and Wisdom</p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph">Tony J. Selimi – Award-Winning Author, Speaker, and Transformational Life and Business Coach Specialising in Human Behaviour, Leadership Excellence, and Maximising Human Potential.</p>
<p class="reader-text-block__paragraph">PS – I work on a virtual basis and in person with clients all over the globe, facilitating the realization and accomplishment of personal, relationship, professional, financial, and business goals. Here are four ways I can assist you in creating life-changing breakthroughs, growth and accelerating your journey to excellent health, influence, relationship, business, wealth, and success.</p>
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<p><strong>Valentine&#8217;s day is nearing. Are You dreading it? Or Are you looking forward to a surprise, that special one? Most importantly, are you mentally <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/product/clarity-coaching-consultation/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Valentine Ready</a>? </strong></p>
<p>In this blog, I aim to look at the most common relationship problems and share valuable insights on how to solve them.</p>
<p>Before I do that, let&#8217;s examine some historical facts about Valentine&#8217;s day. While some believe that Valentine&#8217;s Day is celebrated in the middle of February to commemorate the anniversary of Valentine&#8217;s death or burial—which probably occurred around A.D. 270—others claim that the Christian church may have decided to place St. Valentine&#8217;s feast day in the middle of February to &#8220;Christianize&#8221; the pagan celebration of Lupercalia. Celebrated at the ides of February, or February 15, Lupercalia was a fertility festival dedicated to Faunus, the Roman god of agriculture, and the Roman founders Romulus and Remus.</p>
<p>No matter the reasons, millions of people love to celebrate and do something special for their loved ones on Valentine&#8217;s day, February 14.</p>
<p>The two questions you may want to ponder now before I share the most common relationship problems and how to solve them are:</p>
<ul>
<li>Are you mentally and emotionally Valentine-ready?</li>
<li>What would change in your relationship life if you and your partner treated each other like it&#8217;s Valentine&#8217;s day every day?</li>
</ul>
<p>Here are five relationship scenarios you may identify yourself as:</p>
<ol>
<li><strong>Single.</strong></li>
<li><strong>Dating.</strong></li>
<li><strong>Married or living with a partner.</strong></li>
<li><strong>Divorced or going through a relationship breakup.</strong></li>
<li><strong>Widowed or widower.</strong></li>
</ol>
<p>Deep down, you desire to be loved no matter your category.</p>
<p>The truth is that relationships come in all shapes and sizes, from casual to severe, from heterosexual and homosexual, to in-between. Regardless of what type of relationship you&#8217;re in, it&#8217;s essential to keep it healthy and happy. While there is much advice about making your relationship work, most focus on topics like communication and compromise. These are good things to focus on, but</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Can you truly hear yourself?</strong></li>
<li><strong>Do you know what matters when keeping a relationship &#8216;fire&#8217; on?</strong></li>
</ul>
<p>If you want to know what other issues might be affecting your relationship – besides finding ways to communicate better or compromise more – then read on!</p>
<p><strong>Identify your fears, anxieties, and worries, and discuss them with the other person.</strong></p>
<p>Once you have identified your fears, anxieties, and worries, have an honest conversation with the other person. Talk about them openly and mindfully as they relate to your relationship. Don&#8217;t be afraid of conflict or disagreement; if something bothers you but you haven&#8217;t told them yet because it makes you feel uncomfortable, now is the time!</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t hold back on expressing how much their presence in your life means to you&#8211;and don&#8217;t be afraid of asking for what YOU want from THEM either!</p>
<p>Remember: this is YOUR relationship, too, so say what needs saying (and mean it). Once again: no matter how much had changed since those early days when everything seemed perfect between two people who were madly in love with each other, people still need affectionate physical contact with one another today just as much as ever before &#8211; even if only once every few hours during the day. You may recollect how much you enjoyed touching each other and how often you did it when things started between two lovers who later married each other after dating long enough&#8230;</p>
<p>Next time you have a conflict, could you consider a technique I use with all of my clients? Hold your partner&#8217;s hand while discussing things that challenge them or you during a disagreement or conflict. You will notice an immediate change in their energy. In my multi-award-winning book <a title="A Path to Wisdom: The ALARM" href="https://tonyselimi.com/books/a-path-to-wisdom-the-alarm/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">A Path to Wisdom</a>, I dedicate an entire chapter to love and relationships. You will find more powerful tips on transforming yourself and being in a relationship you want to stay in. Touch has tremendous healing power because it is associated with the heart chakra &#8211; love. And who doesn&#8217;t want to be loved for all they are and are not?</p>
<p><strong>Be willing to address conflict.</strong></p>
<p>The first step to solving any problem is being willing to talk about it. <a title="Why Integrity Matters" href="https://tonyselimi.com/why-integrity-matters/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Don&#8217;t let your problems fester</a> and grow; address them as soon as possible so they stay manageable.</p>
<p>When you&#8217;re having a conflict with someone, please don&#8217;t blame them or make assumptions about what they did wrong. Instead, focus on yourself and how you can improve in the future so that there are no more issues between the two of you!</p>
<p>Another common mistake I observe my clients who consult with me make when dealing with conflict in their relationship is avoiding talking altogether because they don&#8217;t want their partner to get upset or angry at them over what was said during discussion time (which can happen!). But this strategy only makes matters worse because now two people haven&#8217;t been able to resolve their differences &#8211; instead of just one person feeling alone with their frustrations!</p>
<p>One of the agreements my partner and I made from day one in our relationship is to never go to bed without solving whatever bothers us or causes a breakdown. The same technique I teach my clients to use, the results I have observed are phenomenal.</p>
<p><strong>Remember that you have different values, expectations, and histories.</strong></p>
<p>The only constant in life is &#8211; change. Taking that into account, it is wise also to remember the following:</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>You are not the same person you were in your twenties.</strong></li>
<li><strong>You are not the same person you were when you got married.</strong></li>
<li><strong>You are not the same person you were when you had children and a career to juggle, or even just one or the other of those things on your own.</strong></li>
<li><strong>You might need to be more about whom your partner is married to, and that&#8217;s OK!</strong></li>
<li><strong>You are not a copy; you are unfakeable &#8211; authentic.</strong></li>
</ul>
<p>But it&#8217;s important to recognise this fact because one common problem people have with relationships is expecting their partners to behave precisely as they did before they became parents/married/etc., which leads to frustration if these expectations aren&#8217;t met (and sometimes even resentment).</p>
<p>Research shows that domestic abuse and divorce rates went up during the COVID-19 pandemic, and to help many more people navigate the unprecedented uncertainty that engulfed all of our lives, I felt called to write <a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/Unfakeable-Code%C2%AE-Control-Authentically-Freely-ebook/dp/B0928MJ4XH" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Unfakeable Code®: Take Back Control, Lead Authentically</a> and Live Freely on Your Terms book, so more people can learn how to use the five-step method to dissolve conflicts and stressful situations and live, lead, and love authentically.</p>
<p>I wrote the book whilst in lockdown. Little did I know that one day it would assist so many people from all corners of the world to change their lives and grow their relationships, win many international book awards, and become Amazon&#8217;s #1 Bestseller in many categories.</p>
<p><strong>When you don&#8217;t feel like you can play nice, disengage.</strong></p>
<p>It&#8217;s important to remember that no one is perfect, and everyone makes mistakes. When your partner does something that upsets or frustrates you, it&#8217;s OK to push back a bit (in a healthy way) without putting them on the defensive by saying something like: &#8220;You always do this! I hate it when&#8230;&#8221; Instead of making accusations, try giving them feedback about how their behaviour affected you: &#8220;When I see my shirt on the floor again after we talked about picking up after ourselves last night at dinner&#8230;it makes me feel disappointed because I thought we were making progress.&#8221; This type of statement allows both parties in the relationship an opportunity for growth while respecting each other&#8217;s individuality and boundaries.</p>
<p><strong>You can learn how to compromise without compromising yourself.</strong></p>
<p>Compromise is a crucial skill for any relationship, but it can be easy to lose sight of your own needs if you need to know what they are.</p>
<p>Before we start, let&#8217;s define the problem: What exactly do I mean by compromise? Settlement is when both partners give up something they want to make their partner happy. For example, one partner might agree not to go out with friends on Friday nights so the other can focus on studying for finals (this sounds like an extreme example, but bear with me). It&#8217;s essential that both partners feel like they&#8217;re getting something out of this agreement&#8211;otherwise known as a &#8220;win-win situation.&#8221;</p>
<p>But how do we achieve this win-win scenario? First, it&#8217;s essential to think about what other people want from life and yourself! You need goals too! This means ensuring a balance between your ambitions and those around them&#8211;so don&#8217;t worry too much about what others&#8217; dreams may be just yet &#8211; stay focused on yourself first!</p>
<p>In my recently published book, A Path to Excellence, I share why pursuing personal excellence makes you the most desired partner.</p>
<p>Could you remind yourself daily why you want to be in a relationship?</p>
<p>Yes, you can. It can be easy to forget why you are together when you&#8217;re in a relationship. You may take your partner for granted or focus on their faults rather than their positive qualities. This is especially true when things get tough, and it seems like nothing is going right in the relationship.</p>
<p>Remind yourself every day of the reasons that you want to be in this relationship with them:</p>
<ul>
<li>They make me laugh</li>
<li>They make me feel safe and secure</li>
<li>I love how hardworking they are</li>
<li>I love cuddling up after dinner and watching our favorite Netflix series</li>
<li>How they stood by you through thin and thick</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>Stay motivated by being grateful for what&#8217;s working in your relationship.</strong></p>
<p>If you feel like your relationship is going nowhere, it may be helpful to reflect on the things that are working. Gratitude can be a powerful tool for motivating yourself and others. Each time I have coached my clients feeling down about their relationship, I focus them on thinking about what&#8217;s going well. I get them to write at least one hundred benefits. In the beginning, many find this exercise quite tricky, especially if they feel hurt. But, by the time they finish, they think differently.</p>
<p>For you, it could be as simple as being grateful for having someone who cares about you and wants to spend time with them&#8211;or maybe it&#8217;s something more specific like appreciating how much fun it was when the two of you went shopping together last week or how much progress has been made on one of their projects lately. Whatever works!</p>
<p><strong>You can work on your self-esteem on your own time and don&#8217;t let it spill into your relationship.</strong></p>
<p>Self-esteem is a personal trait that another person can&#8217;t control. You need to work on yourself, with or without your partner&#8217;s help.</p>
<p>If you have low self-esteem and constantly put yourself down in front of your partner, it will affect how they interact with you because they will feel like they need to protect or fix you all the time. They may even try to do things for you out of pity instead of love! That doesn&#8217;t sound very fun at all!</p>
<p>The only way around this problem is by building up your confidence so that when people criticise or question who &#8220;you&#8221; are as an individual (or couple), it doesn&#8217;t bother them as much because they know how excellent their partner truly is at heart&#8211;even though sometimes their actions might not reflect that knowledge right away due either because we&#8217;re human beings who make mistakes often due simply because we&#8217;re imperfect beings ourselves too&#8230;</p>
<p><strong>You can keep your relationship happy and fun with effort and determination.</strong></p>
<p>You don&#8217;t need to be perfect, be curious to learn and grow through the challenges life presents you with.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re in a relationship, there will be times when things don&#8217;t go as planned, and you make mistakes. That&#8217;s OK&#8211;it happens! The important thing is that you learn from them and do your best to avoid repeating those mistakes.</p>
<p><strong>You can always try again.</strong></p>
<p>If one strategy doesn&#8217;t work for getting your partner back into the fold or working out an issue between you, try another one until something sticks! There are so many options available that it&#8217;s worth taking some time before making final decisions about your relationship&#8217;s direction.</p>
<p><strong>Conclusion</strong></p>
<p>In a world where relationships are so easy to come by, it&#8217;s worth taking the time to make sure that yours is the one you want and, if so, investing in making it healthy and happy.</p>
<p>If you find yourself in any of these situations, don&#8217;t panic! You can get back on track with some effort and determination.</p>
<p>Over the years, people from all professional backgrounds, including CEOs, Lawyers, Financiers, Scientists, Coaches, Presidents, Prime Ministers, and the world&#8217;s most successful people, consulted with me to assist them in overcoming relationship blocks, dissolving emotional charges, strengthen primary relationships and learn to communicate effectively with anyone; even your ex.</p>
<p>As a result of a multi-year research and delivering over 25,000 coaching, consulting training, and healing hours, I have developed one-of-a-kind methods and relationship growth principles and strategies for improving your relationships.</p>
<p>Give yourself more happiness (and sex), enjoy better health and a more robust immune system, be more productive, and eliminate destructive relationship behaviour patterns that are holding you back from having the life you want.</p>
<p>As your coaching partner, we will work on creating relationship psychology that generates new feelings of romance. We will enjoy rediscovering the love spark and igniting the flame that burns deep within your soul.</p>
<p>If you want to find out how to make this Valentine&#8217;s Day your best, please book a breakthrough relationship consultation before February 14 and get a 20% discount.</p>
<p>Just remember: when things get tough, take some time for yourself and invest in coaching, so your relationship doesn&#8217;t start feeling like another burden.</p>
<p>Love and Wisdom</p>
<p>Tony J. Selimi – I am an Award-Winning Author, Speaker, and Transformational Life and Business Coach Specialising in Human Behaviour, Leadership Excellence, and Maximising Human Potential. Winner of the <a href="https://www.sme-news.co.uk/issues/greater-london-enterprise-awards-2020/14/">London SME Most Visionary Entrepreneur</a>, <a href="https://www.corporatevision-news.com/issues/coaching-and-recruitment-awards-2021/4/">Corporate Coaching and Recruitment Business Coach of the Year Award</a>. <a href="https://literarytitan.com/2021/07/05/literary-titan-book-awards-july-2021/">Silver Winner of Literary Book Award</a>, USA Book, Book Excellence, Top Shelf Magazine and <a href="https://maincrestmedia.com/award-winners/">Maincreast Media Book Award</a> for <a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/Path-Wisdom-balanced-healthy-peaceful/dp/1909623571">A Path to Wisdom</a>, <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/feed/hashtag/loneliness">#Loneliness</a>, <a href="https://theunfakeablecode.com/">The Unfakeable Code®</a>, and <a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/Path-Excellence-Blueprint-Greatest-Potential/dp/B0B83YWXN9/">A Path to Excellence</a> in the following categories: Personal Growth and Development, Self Improvement, Self Help, Inspirational, Motivational, Entrepreneurship, and Business and Leadership.</p>
<p>P.S. – I work on a virtual basis and in person with clients all over the globe, facilitating the realisation and accomplishment of personal, relationship, professional, financial and business goals. Here are four ways I can assist you in creating life-changing breakthroughs, growth and accelerating your journey to excellent health, influence, relationship, business, wealth and success.</p>
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