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					<description><![CDATA[Hello there, fellow busienss owner, leader, and growth seeker! You are reading this blog because, like most business owners, you want to achieve a state of flow for your business. In other words, you want to be highly productive and engaged with your work. But you can't do this if there are processes and  [...]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[Tony J. Selimi <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/8-steps-to-unlocking-the-secrets-of-business-growth-productivity-and-profitability/">8 Steps to Unlocking the Secrets of Business Growth, Productivity, and Profitability</a> <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/author/admin/">Tony J. Selimi</a><div class="fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 fusion-flex-container nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling" style="--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;" ><div class="fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start fusion-flex-content-wrap" style="max-width:1145.04px;margin-left: calc(-4% / 2 );margin-right: calc(-4% / 2 );"><div class="fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-flex-column" style="--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:100%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:1.92%;--awb-margin-bottom-large:0px;--awb-spacing-left-large:1.92%;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-spacing-right-medium:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-medium:1.92%;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-spacing-right-small:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-small:1.92%;"><div class="fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column"><div class="fusion-text fusion-text-1"><p>Hello there, fellow busienss owner, leader, and growth seeker!</p>
<p>You are reading this blog because, like most business owners, you want to achieve a state of flow for your business. In other words, you want to be highly productive and engaged with your work. But you can&#8217;t do this if there are processes and systems in your business that are outdated or inefficient, if someone on your team isn&#8217;t engaged in their job or doesn&#8217;t seem happy with the work they do, or if there are places where manual processes take up too much time.</p>
<p>Before I share more, let me thank you for beign a valued subscriber and reading my blog. I trust my previous articles inspired you to take one positive action that makes you a more authentic individual, partner, business owner or leader in your field of expertise.</p>
<h2>Do you have a business growing about 5% annually, and would you like to extend it faster?</h2>
<p>If you answered yes, you&#8217;re in the right place at the right time. This article&#8217;s topic is for business owners who want to grow their businesses faster by unleashing the power of flow in their lives and businesses. It is written specifically for those with a company growing about 5% to 50% annually or less and who want to grow more and expand faster.</p>
<h2>Do you have an employee who doesn&#8217;t seem engaged in their work?</h2>
<p>If so, there are three things you need to consider:</p>
<ul>
<li>Why is it important to have engaged employees?</li>
<li>Whom can I hire that can turn an employee&#8217;s mindset around?</li>
<li>What short, medium and long-term business benefits coaching and training employees can help you achieve?</li>
</ul>
<p>An engaged employee will likely be valuable to your company and help drive business growth. However, disengaged employees are more than just a drag on productivity—they can also negatively affect morale and cause other problems within the workplace. Their negativity can quickly spread amongst other employees, and your company culture becomes toxic before you know it. To ensure that all of your workers are engaged in their jobs, here&#8217;s what you need to know:</p>
<ul>
<li>What makes your employers tick and go beyond and above the duties written in their job description</li>
<li>What sits at the root cause of employee unhappiness</li>
</ul>
<h2>Are there systems in your business that are outdated or inefficient?</h2>
<p>You must be aware of the importance of systems in your business. These are the foundation on which your entire organisation is built, and if they&#8217;re not fit for purpose or outdated, they could cost you millions of dollars every year.</p>
<p>Systems that are not automated are not only inefficient but also hard to scale. They require manual employee intervention, bogging down productivity and adding unnecessary costs to your bottom line. Systems that aren&#8217;t integrated with other systems across departments can cause friction between teams because of a lack of communication or collaboration between them—and this could lead to errors and mistakes that further dent efficiency and productivity levels within an organisation as a whole.</p>
<p>Additionally, systems that aren&#8217;t scalable can become costly over time because they cannot increase capacity when demand increases (for example, an understaffed call centre). Systems that aren&#8217;t secure can leave sensitive data exposed to hackers looking for ways into a company&#8217;s network infrastructure so they can steal sensitive information like credit card numbers or private customer details; this is especially important now, given the rise in cyber-attacks making headlines around the world lately!</p>
<h2>Are there places where manual processes are taking up too much of your time or your employees&#8217; time?</h2>
<p>The CEO of a start-up company approached me on LinkedIn and asked me if I had any advice to help him grow his company&#8217;s turnover to a million and then to ten million and above. I responded by saying it is a disservice to me to give such advice without knowing the ins and outs of his business and advised him to stay away from people who do. Truthfully, I expected not to hear from him, but to my surprise, he said: Tony, you are right; how about I book you for a day of business coaching, and we can discuss the next steps afterwards.</p>
<p>Fast forward, having spent the entire day in his business, I helped him identify over one hundred manual tasks and processes that can be automated. This exercise on its own reduced the mundane tasks different teams were doing and freed up valuable employee time that we redirected to other high-priority profit-generating tasks. We are on year two of my &#8220;Reboot Your Business&#8221; Coaching Program, and so far, as his coaching partner, I&#8217;ve helped my client triple his business by creating a business flow state.</p>
<p>So, make sure you invest time and resources to do a business flow test, process and task MOT regularly; your business can grow when you use your and employees&#8217; time efficiently.</p>
<p>The next question you may want to ponder with is:</p>
<h2>Are you consistently generating new leads for your business?</h2>
<p>How to become oversubscribed and have a constant flow of leads is something every entrepreneur, solopreneur, and business of all sizes wants. To grow your business and generate more leads, it&#8217;s wise to focus on nurturing existing and bringing in new customers. If you are already successfully doing this and are yielding excellent results, keep it up! But if you&#8217;re not sure how to get started, here are eight things that can help:</p>
<ul>
<li>Consider delegating this to a lead generation service with an excellent track record.</li>
<li>In-house implementation of marketing automation tools (like lead generation).</li>
<li>Website optimisation for search engine optimisation (SEO) and conversion rate optimisation (CRO).</li>
<li>Do your email marketing or hire someone who can do that for you.</li>
<li>Do targeted social media marketing.</li>
<li>Share your expertise on T.V., Radio, and Podcast interviews.</li>
<li>Consider writing a book.</li>
<li>Hire a coach.</li>
</ul>
<p>If you want to optimise the performance of your website and drive more traffic through SEO, CRO, and other digital strategies like content marketing or social media ads—but aren&#8217;t sure where to start—a professional SEO agency may be able to help.</p>
<p>Be warned,</p>
<p>There are thousands of people offering the above services; before you choose one, do your due diligence. Last year, in good faith, I appointed Cory Michael Sanchez, the founder of <a href="https://mojoglobal.com/">Mojo Global</a>, to do my lead generation. After three months of experiencing issue after issue and not delivering on the promise of at least ten prequalified leads a week, I decided to stop.</p>
<p>From the outset, the deal was that if they didn&#8217;t deliver on a minimum of ten leads a week, they would refund 100% of the money. In the first month, hundreds of issues raised the first alarm bell. They delivered just one lead and were promised to provide the rest in months two and three. In the second month, they had only three tips, and in the third month, only one. None of the five people they booked was leads; they were opportunist calls asking for investment, and none even thought of investing in coaching.</p>
<p>The moral of the story, choose wisely what lead generation service would get you the results you want for your business. Over the years, I have built a seven-figure coaching and training business not with sophisticated automation but by authentically sharing knowledge that took me over thirty years to acquire in all of my books, rewarding clients and people who do referrals, and sharing life and business transforming insights on T.V., Radio and Podcast interviews. Some of the best clients came from reading my social media posts, watching my YouTube videos, and personally connecting and answering their questions.</p>
<p>Another question to ponder is this&#8230;</p>
<h2>How would you rate your mindset regarding your business and the people who work in it?</h2>
<p>Your mindset affects your emotions and actions, affecting your behaviour and results. Your mindset is a choice you make every day. When you develop the growth mindset for achieving business success, it will help you achieve more than ever before.</p>
<p>Suppose you are experiencing difficulty or challenge in your business or personal life. In that case, this could be because of an unproductive or negative mindset holding back your potential for growth and success.</p>
<p>Here are some tips to help improve your current mindset:</p>
<ul>
<li>Know the difference between fixed and growth mindset. A <a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/B00JDU8QS6/">Path to Wisdom</a> book offers some great exercises you can do daily.</li>
<li>Identify what are your default responses when you get challenged.</li>
<li>Read at least one hour a day on a subject that inspires you</li>
</ul>
<p>Another way to improve flow in your company is to ask the following question regularly:</p>
<h2>Does everyone in your company know your core values and how they translate into their day-to-day jobs?</h2>
<p>Core values are the foundation of your company. They&#8217;re what make it unique, and they&#8217;re why people stay with you long-term. Core values also make your company attractive to prospective employees and partners, so everyone in the organisation must know them inside out.</p>
<p>You can&#8217;t just have a document somewhere; they need to be ingrained in everything you do as an organisation. That way, when someone is considering working with or buying from you, they know what they&#8217;re getting into—and why they should choose you over other companies with similar offerings (but different core values).</p>
<p>After assisting a business owner in clarifying his core personal, business, and employee values and aligning them with their day-to-day jobs, his company achieved ten times more growth than any previous years.</p>
<h2>Did you answer these questions and get a mixed bag of yeses and nos?</h2>
<p>Maybe some of the answers weren&#8217;t what you expected. If so, don&#8217;t worry! This is just a simple test to see where your focus should be to achieve optimal flow for your business.</p>
<p>If you answered yes to most of these questions, then you&#8217;re on the right track. That means you know what creates value in your business and what can make it more productive, profitable and sustainable over time. But if most of them were noes instead…then it might be time for some changes!</p>
<h2>The five-step method of <a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/Unfakeable-Code%C2%AE-Control-Authentically-Freely/dp/3991073854">The Unfakeable Code®</a> can help you find a flow state for your business to generate more revenue, have authentic employees, and get more done.</h2>
<p>The state of flow is a great way to get more done, have authentic leaders and employees, and generate more revenue for your business.</p>
<p>But what is flow?</p>
<p>Flow is a state of consciousness in which you are entirely immersed in an activity for such prolonged periods that you lose track of time and self-consciousness. In other words, when people are in the flow state, they fully engage in their work or activities while focusing on the task.</p>
<p>When someone enters into this state, they become so absorbed by their actions that they get lost in what they&#8217;re doing; this often results from matching one&#8217;s skills with challenges beyond them—it can be more complex than it appears but still possible if approached correctly. The result? You&#8217;ll perform at your highest potential!</p>
<p>By learning how to harness the power behind flow states now instead of later down the line &#8212; after investing money into training programs &#8212; companies will boost productivity by improving workers&#8217; problem-solving abilities and creativity levels, thus increasing overall success rates across multiple industries worldwide.</p>
<h2>Conclusion</h2>
<p>When you think about the word flow, what comes to mind? If you said something like &#8220;a state of being that is full of energy and enthusiasm,&#8221; you&#8217;re on the right track.</p>
<p>Flow is about being in the moment and having a growth and inspiring mindset around your business. Finding this state can be very beneficial for growth because your employees will become more engaged with their work and do it better, leading to higher productivity and performance levels. You may also generate new leads more easily because these folks tend to be more receptive when they feel good about themselves at work!</p>
<p>Those of you engaged in high-stress performance, business productivity, and purpose missions who are ready to turn their personal and business challenges, frustrations, and pains into breakthroughs, stepping stones, and a state of flow, do reach out to my team at <a href="http://mailto:info@tonyselimi.com/">info@tonyselimi.com</a> to book &#8220;Let&#8217;s Reboot My Business&#8221; coaching session. Together, we will work on identifying business bottlenecks and turn them into opportunities for greater levels of growth and achievement.</p>
<p>There are no shortcuts to creating a flow in your business; it takes determination and dedication to make it happen!</p>
<p>Love and Wisdom</p>
<p>Tony J. Selimi &#8211; Award-Winning Author, Speaker, and Transformational Life and Business Coach Specialising in Human Behaviour, Leadership Excellence, and Maximising Human Potential. Winner of the <a href="https://www.sme-news.co.uk/issues/greater-london-enterprise-awards-2020/14/">London SME Most Visionary Entrepreneur 2020 award</a>, <a href="https://www.corporatevision-news.com/issues/coaching-and-recruitment-awards-2021/4/">Corporate Coaching and Recruitment Business Coach of the Year 2021 Award</a>, <a href="https://literarytitan.com/2021/07/05/literary-titan-book-awards-july-2021/">Silver Winner of Literary</a>, Winner of <a href="https://maincrestmedia.com/award-winners/">Maincreast Media</a>, and <a href="https://honorees.bookexcellenceawards.com/#!/The-Unfakeable-Code%C2%AE-Personal-Growth-and-Development/p/461803572/category=129003502"> Book Excellence Award 2022</a> for <a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/Path-Wisdom-balanced-healthy-peaceful/dp/1909623571">A Path to Wisdom</a>, <a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/Loneliness-Virus-Modern-Age/dp/1504344014/">Loneliness</a>, <a href="https://theunfakeablecode.com/">The Unfakeable Code®</a>, and <a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/Path-Excellence-Blueprint-Achieving-Potential/dp/B0B83YWXN9"><strong>A Path to Excellence</strong></a><strong>. </strong></p>
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					<description><![CDATA[At times of unprecedented uncertainty created by the outbreak of the Coronavirus pandemic, many of you are sitting at home wondering when will this all end? What is the prolonged impact on your life, and what will the future hold for you. Here is the Good News! As a human being, you are equipped with  [...]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[Tony J. Selimi <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/why-integrity-matters/">Why Integrity Matters</a> <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/author/admin/">Tony J. Selimi</a><p>At times of unprecedented uncertainty created by the outbreak of the Coronavirus pandemic, many of you are sitting at home wondering when will this all end? What is the prolonged impact on your life, and what will the future hold for you.</p>
<p>Here is the Good News!</p>
<p>As a human being, you are equipped with powerful tools. One is your ability to adapt, change, and find solutions to challenges presented to you. But, what most of you and companies struggle with is knowing how to apply those God-given abilities with integrity.</p>
<p>Why?</p>
<p>Because you can&#8217;t fake integrity! Building a reputation of integrity takes years, but it takes only a second to lose. With time passing by, <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/five-vital-steps-successful-people-use-to-help-master-your-life/">people don&#8217;t remember your successes</a> of failure, or what you did or did not do for them. They&#8217;ll remember you by how well you treated them and how you made them feel.</p>
<p>I often teach my clients; success comes and goes. Building a reputation of integrity is what changes, saves and transforms your life for better and forever. It is wise never to allow yourself to do anything that would damage your honesty, for it creates negative karma that destroys the results of all the hard work you may have put all your life.</p>
<p>Your dishonesty is what breaks partnerships that can transform your life, and damages all of your relationships, especially the one you have with your body, mind, <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/product/open-your-heart-and-awaken-your-soul/">heart and soul</a>. The consequences of your lack of integrity are far-reaching. They will show up in your life as physical health problems, business failures, loneliness, rejection, lack of meaningful relationship, separation from the people who helped you get where you are, financial problems, relationship conflicts, and being seen as fake.</p>
<p>In the last few weeks, I have had an increase in clients booking Skype sessions looking to overcome fears, doubts, and clarify what it is they must do now to transform their physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual self. Many of them experienced emotional charges associated with the current crisis, conspiracy theories, and the loss of identity and income. Others were searching for ways to re-invent and better adapt their business in the new conditions and help them put in place a stage plan for when all of this will be over.</p>
<p>Most of these people who booked are confident, strongminded, and success-driven CEO&#8217;s of prominent corporations, business owners, professional people and entrepreneurs who put growth, wealth and integrity high on their priority of values.</p>
<p>But, as I started to question particular actions, choices and decisions they call came to acknowledge the lack of integrity within their values. It showed up in their way of being, doing, and thinking about the long term cost of not upholding their values.</p>
<p>Here are the top five behaviours I observe over and over in my clients, <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/product/clarity-coaching-consultation/">businesses I have consulted,</a> and the people I meet daily that are guaranteed to damage your integrity and alter your long term achievements and success in life:</p>
<ol>
<li><strong>Telling lies to mask your insecurities, intentions, and toxic behaviours.</strong></li>
<li><strong>Crossing personal, professional and business boundaries and manipulating others to get what you want.</strong></li>
<li><strong>Going silent when you are not honouring your promises and contractual agreements.</strong></li>
<li><strong>Ignoring people&#8217;s messages, calls, and personal or professional responsibilities.</strong></li>
<li><strong>You talk the talk, but you don&#8217;t walk the walk.</strong></li>
</ol>
<p>Before sharing the <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/five-vital-steps-successful-people-use-to-help-master-your-life/">five reasons on how integrity can transform your life</a>, let&#8217;s look at what integrity means. Integrity stems from the Latin word &#8216;integer&#8217; which means whole and complete. So integrity requires for you to develop an inner sense of &#8216;wholeness&#8217; and consistency of character.</p>
<p>In my upcoming book &#8220;The Unfakeable Code&#8221; I share how people can visibly see your integrity through your actions, words, decisions, methods, and outcomes. When you are &#8216;whole&#8217; and consistent, there is only one you show to the world. You bring that same you wherever you are, regardless of the circumstance.</p>
<p>You don&#8217;t put on a mask to feed your disempowered persona&#8217;s you may have developed since childhood. You don&#8217;t leave parts of yourself behind. You don&#8217;t have a &#8216;dating you&#8217;, a &#8216;family you,&#8217; a &#8216;social you&#8217; and a &#8216;work you.&#8217; You are YOUR UNFAKEABLE AUTHENTIC YOU all the time.</p>
<p>Given the real definition of integrity, you may recognise that it is challenging to be in honesty 100% of the time. This is why so many of my clients have taken the stay at home opportunity to focus them on doing the inner work focused on mindset and spiritual transformation.</p>
<p>And here are five reasons why integrity can change, save and transform your business, personal and professional life.</p>
<ol>
<li><strong>Your masked personas can mess up all of your critical areas of life by justifying your actions and behaviours using the &#8220;I am honouring my values&#8221; excuse. But your true, unfakeable, and authentic being by default aspires to be in integrity with what you and others value. It makes every effort to communicate in other peoples values and create win-win-win situations for all concerned.</strong></li>
<li><strong>It is a scientific fact that emotions get the best of you, can cause physical, emotional and mental illness. You feel unable to manage your behaviours, actions intentionally, and don&#8217;t permit yourself to be your true self out of fear of what others may think. Being in integrity with yourself helps you master your emotions and truly &#8216;integrate&#8217; the various parts of yourself into ONE, complete WHOLE person you show to the world.</strong></li>
<li><strong>No matter if you are someone working for a company, a solopreneur, business owner, or a leader of a country, people don&#8217;t collaborate, engage, or trust those who lack integrity. Showing up with integrity consistently at times of crisis and blessings will lead to being known as someone they can rely on, trust, and go to for advice, service or shoulder to lean on.</strong></li>
<li><strong>How others view, you can close many doors or open many opportunities. It&#8217;s one thing to ponder how you think you&#8217;re perceived, but quite another to know for sure. Talk to your spouse, friends, coach, manager, employees and network contacts outside of the company about what you don&#8217;t and do well. Make it a priority in daily living with integrity, and it is what people take into consideration how they view you. Do actions that restore broken relationships and trust.</strong></li>
<li><strong>Living with integrity improves your ability to live and lead authentically. How honest or accurate are your behaviours, activities, and words with other people that you interact or influence depend on your intentionality and thought? I consulted recently with a CEO who on our initial session told me how much he cares deeply about values. Yet on further questioning, he realised he is out of integrity because there is a lack of honesty and authenticity in how he behaves in his everyday life. While he said that he cares about his relationship, he communicates aggressively when challenged and spends very little time with his family. While he said he cares about teamwork, he doesn&#8217;t listen to others and gets defensive when challenged with different views. He kept preaching about creating a culture of love but publicly criticises and demeans employees he had no time or respect.</strong></li>
</ol>
<p>Integrity is about being the same regardless of the situation. If your mood changes by the day and make rash decisions on certain days, yet calm and engaging on other days, then you are inconsistent with your actions, values and outcomes.</p>
<p>To remain in integrity is a conscious choice that you are capable of making every single day, even when the situation or environment is not great. You will recognise a person with integrity no matter what the environment is, being with family, friends, church, or at a boardroom. You will observe the consistency in their behaviour, actions, and words.</p>
<p>Working on living a life with integrity not only develops your character and wholeness but also determines how successful you become in life. You can build your integrity through various means, such as reading, getting coached, listening to the counsel of others, going to personal and leadership development courses, and reflecting daily on what is. It is not working in all of the critical areas of life.<br />
The more you live with integrity, the more you enrol others to be on the same journey, the more others are drawn to you, the more <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/spiritual-intelligence-the-the-art-of-attracting-opportunities/">opportunities you attract</a>, and the more you inspire others to be on the same route of a lifelong pursuit of &#8216;wholeness&#8217; and ultimately, INTEGRITY.</p>
<p>With love and wisdom<br />
Tony J. Selimi</p>
<p>P&gt;S. Don&#8217;t suffer alone, during the Corona Virus lockdown and stays at home period, I work on a virtual basis with clients all over the globe, facilitating the realisation and accomplishment of their business, personal and professional goals. To book a real-time Crisis Management Sessions and solve your immediate problems via Skype, providing there is a compelling fit of values and vision, please email my PA at info@tonyselimi.com for payment information and arrange your Skype session.</p>The post <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/why-integrity-matters/">Why Integrity Matters</a> first appeared on <a href="https://tonyselimi.com">Tony J. Selimi</a>.]]></content:encoded>
					
		
		
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					<description><![CDATA[I just spent five extraordinary days at the Amsterdam International Film Festival 2018 with directors, filmmakers, scriptwriters, actors, and distributors from around the world. The festival itself was founded by Carl Tooney to give independent film and script authors an opportunity to showcase their work, network with peers and submit themselves in competition for international  [...]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[Tony J. Selimi <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/carpe-diem/">Carpe Diem</a> <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/author/admin/">Tony J. Selimi</a><p>I just spent five extraordinary days at the Amsterdam International Film Festival 2018 with directors, filmmakers, scriptwriters, actors, and distributors from around the world.</p>
<p>The festival itself was founded by Carl Tooney to give independent film and script authors an opportunity to showcase their work, network with peers and submit themselves in competition for international filmmaker awards.</p>
<p>The festival is held in different locations around the world including London, Nice, Madrid, Milan and Amsterdam. It is a place where you can “seize the day” as you immerse yourself in the experience of watching films and documentaries across many genres and styles. It is a place where you can also meet amazing people, forge great friendships, find people to collaborate with on future projects and if lucky be nominated for an award and walk away with a trophy.</p>
<p>The phrase Carpe Diem was first used by the Roman poet Horace to express the idea that one should enjoy life while one can. This is the attitude that my client and co-creator of Living My Illusion Documentary Series Joel Van der Molen and me had throughout the festival.</p>
<p>In between films and every evening we got to know many film directors, scriptwriters, and the entire team behind this festival including Ray Davies, the co-founder of Film Industry Network, a platform designed to share film advice.</p>
<p>As someone who loves to know people, I took the opportunity to interview few of the film directors, music writers, and the marketing director of the festival Steve Grossmith, who kindly shared a lot of useful tips that every attendee of the festival could benefit.</p>
<p>In an age where domestic violence, addictions, loneliness, and depression is on the increase, Living My Illusion E1 – The Truth Hurts was co-created to shine a light on the toxic effects of suppressing your inner truth has on your mental, emotional, familial, physical, business, and financial health. The feedback we got from the festival goers was encouraging, humbling, and inspiring.</p>
<p>The Q &amp; A that followed after the screening of our documentary was a testament to the importance of creating this timely documentary. It offers a mirror from which millions of people who find themselves in difficult situations can self-reflect and address the lies they tell themselves and the impact they have on their leadership style, family life, and the way they show up in the world. Little did we know that we would walk away with a trophy, be acknowledged in front of hundreds of amazing film directors from around the world and be selected as one of the winners.</p>
<p>I would like to take this opportunity to thank Carl and his team for organising such a wonderful event, to Adam Tinnion, Dan Hickford, Roy Abbots, Chelsey Baker, Mark Doree, Brad Blain, Neil McEwan, Paul Eyres, everyone who has supported us on this life-changing journey, all the people who attended this event and the judges who selected Living My Illusion – The Truth Hurts as the Winner in the Best Story Category of this prestigious <a href="http://www.filmmakerfestivalamsterdam.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Film Maker Award</a>.</p>

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<p>As someone who has helped thousands of people achieve a quantum leap in their personal, professional and business growth, I know that to be successful in business and every area in your life, it is essential for you to learn how to seize the day no matter what you do in life.</p>
<p>To help you unlock the opportunities that are presented to you in every moment in your life, I would like to share these three principles I teach my clients that you can use every day to help you take your business to the next level</p>
<p><strong>Principle One: It’s not all about you</strong></p>
<p>One of the problems I noticed in many of the filmmakers, scriptwriters and the great people I met at this event is that every time they engaged in a conversation with one another their focus was on them, their film, their work, and not on the person they were having a dialogue with. This way of communicating not only closes the doors that potentially your film may have created about you but also unintentionally you are creating the wrong image about you in other people’s mind. What you could do instead is to learn to communicate in a way that awakens the curiosity in others. After all, we all have a kid inside of us.</p>
<p><strong>Principle Two: Give before you take</strong></p>
<p>When engaging in a dialogue with an attitude of what I can get from you, the person you may be speaking to knows this. This way of speaking to people not only makes them disengaged, bored, and uninterested, but it also makes you look extremely egotistical. Instead, you can adopt an attitude of what I can help this person with. For instance, I noticed how Steve, the marketing director of the festival was interviewing so many people, but no one thought of interviewing him. I kindly asked him if he would like to be interviewed and share his wisdom with the hundreds of thousands of my facebook followers, some of whom happen to be in the film and documentary making industry. One of the great advice Steve shared with my audience is to “treat others as you would like to be treated.” It is what I refer as “A Winning Attitude” in my four times International #1 Amazon Best-selling Book A Path to Wisdom.</p>
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<p><strong>Principle Three: Know how to pitch</strong></p>
<p>Many of the filmmakers and screenwriters I met consider themselves as artists and found it difficult to pitch their films. Whether you are a filmmaker, scriptwriter, distributor, event organiser, or a business owner, never underestimate the power of knowing how to pitch correctly. I see many people going to amazing events such as this one and walk away feeling disappointed, resentful and not getting what they want. Having successfully secured millions of pounds in business by using the power of the pitch, I started to teach all of my clients how to create a powerful pitch. Learning how to deliver a good pitch can close or open many doors, especially if you are a filmmaker seeking a distribution partner or an investor.</p>
<p>Remember, no matter where you are, whom you are with, and whatever you may find yourself doing you can train your awareness to be of service to others and seize the day.</p>
<p>With Love and Wisdom,</p>
<p><strong>Tony J. Selimi – Helping You Accelerate, Maximise, and Unleash the Freedom in Your Potential</strong></p>
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					<description><![CDATA[In my recent TV interview with Zërijeta Jajaga for her show @Open I was asked: Why would people not want to invest in the greatest asset -you? What is it that holds people back to have a coach or a mentor? What can coaches do for you? There are many reasons why people may not  [...]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[Tony J. Selimi <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/demystifying-what-can-coaches-do-for-you/">Demystifying What can Coaches do for You?</a> <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/author/admin/">Tony J. Selimi</a><p>In my recent TV interview with Zërijeta Jajaga for her show @Open I was asked:</p>
<p><strong>Why would people not want to invest in the greatest asset -you? What is it that holds people back to have a coach or a mentor? What can coaches do for you?</strong></p>
<p>There are many reasons why people may not use a coach. Some to mention are having lack of financial resources, not having personal development high on their highest values, time rstrictions, and in many cases simply not knowing what a great life coach can do for them.</p>
<p>I went on to explain to her audience that a Life Coach is someone who through powerful questioning is ale to be the mirror the client needs to reflect back at themselves the clarity, certainty, and credibility needed to make better life choices, decisions, and <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/events/create-your-amazing-dream-life/">create the healthy habits designed to create their dream</a> life.</p>
<p>Throughout centuries the greatest rulers of all times used trusted advisers to help them direct their kingdom and win wars. In the recent real life coaching Hollywood and Los Angeles Award Winning documentary “Living My Illusion,” that I co-created with my elite coaching clients Joel and Timea Van der Molen, it highlights how having a coach it is not a new age thing. In contrary, it is the advisory services of the great philosopher Aristotle that helped the world-conqueror Alexander the Great win battles and conquer new lands.</p>
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<p>Did  you know that Aristotle’s advice covered everything from Alexander’s diet and personal hygiene to how to conduct war and respond to changing political circumstances across more than a millennium.</p>
<p>Today, top athletes, celebrities, and leaders invest in coaching and mentoring to help them achieve their chief aim. The question you may want to answer is why not you?</p>
<p>Before I demystify what a coach or a great mentor can do for you, here are five things what coaches and mentors are not there to do for you.</p>
<p><strong>1. Be your therapist.</strong><br />
<strong>2. Control them by asking to hold you/them accountable.</strong><br />
<strong>3. Make decisions for you.</strong><br />
<strong>4. Expect them to take actions for you.</strong><br />
<strong>5. Coach you for FREE outside your contractual agreed hours.</strong></p>
<p>If you are someone who expect one of those five things from your coach-mentor, then coaching is not for you. If you want someone who can focus you on all of the eight key areas of life, then you may want to adjust your expectations, becoming coachable, and consider hiring a coach who is equipped to handle all types of coaching needs and integrates various approaches that meet your specific goals in life.</p>
<p>A great life coach is someone who is credible, qualified, and can create the space and the clarity needed in a chosen life area you want to work on. An experienced life coach is like your personal GPRS system that guides you to become aware of the subconscious behaviours, beliefs, and conflicting values that keep you stuck in the rut.</p>
<p>As your See-Through Coach I can help you instil accountability, new awareness, and new action steps you can take to achieve the outcomes you desire.</p>
<p>Few years ago a client hired me as his business success coach to grow his company Vandercom, a leading telecommunication company from 1 million a month in reoccurring revenue to 10 million in a period of three years.</p>
<p>Not only we set the foundation, vision, and the processes needed for the business growth they wanted, we also video documented their business and personal life coaching journey.</p>
<p>It is the breakthroughs that my clients started to experience which inspired them to point the camera back at themselves and co-create what has now become Hollywood and Los Angeles Award Winning thought provoking documentary that inspires action.</p>
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<p>For sure going through the process can be painful, revealing, and extremely challenging. Though, if you come prepared for each session, a life coach can help you discover what’s hidden behind the many masks your subconscious mind creates. It can also uncover the protecting mechanism created by fear, trauma, and limiting self-beliefs.</p>
<p>A life coach or business success coach, who like me has studied many life disciplines and has mentored thousands of people, can teach you how to tap and unlock the many inner resources and mental faculties that lie dormant and unused.</p>
<p>For instance, I recently attended a strategy meeting with my mentor Daniel Priestly, the founder of Dent, who coached few of us on how to perfect our pitch, generate more sales, and become the key person of influence in our industry.</p>
<p>The truth is, I love to be coached and mentored by successful entrepreneurs, experts, and teachers. It is what helped me overcome many of the life adversities that hit me from a very young age, be successful in my corporate technology career, and now be the leading human behavioural and cognition expert who travel the world and help others maximise their human potential.</p>
<p>I love to continuously improve all of the eight key areas of life: Business, Finances, Spiritual, Mental, Emotional, Physical, Relationship and Love. I read books, attend seminars, and work with world best experts to help me up my game. This way I can serve more clients, create coaching, training and mentoring programs that focus my clients to resolve meaningful problems for humanity.</p>
<p>Similarly, first thing that many of my clients who approach me for coaching or mentoring do is to read my books A Path to Wisdom and #Loneliness. This gives them the clarity needed to asses my credibility, trustworthiness, and what in specific I can help them with. They also listen to hundreds of video testimonials on my you tube channel that various clients I have helped over the many years have given.</p>
<p>You may want to listen to my recent <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BF0fiLqpxkQ">interview with Jack Canfield</a>, the international bestselling author of “Chicken Soup for the Soul” that sold over 600 million copies.</p>
<p>Through a series of one-on-one consultations, my integrated coaching and mentoring approach can help you recognise the factors that are stopping you from having the life you want.</p>
<p>My role as your life coach is to support you gain the clarity of what is it that you truly want. Assist you set clear and SMARTER goals and through every session help you get the clarity you need to keep the momentum for you to achieve your set outcomes and cerate the experiences you dream about most.</p>
<p>So here are the twelve things I as your coach can do for you:</p>
<p><strong>1. Clarify Your Vision, Mission and Purpose by helping you discover what you’re meant to do and what makes you happy.</strong><br />
<strong>2. Discover Your True Identity by teaching you new ways to listen to your true being and learn to be authentic in all aspects of your life.</strong><br />
<strong>3. Achieve Self-mastery by focusing on your personal growth, attaining body, mind, spirit, and emotional well-being and harmony.</strong><br />
<strong>4. Improve Family Dynamics by teaching you how to communicate better, resolve family conflicts, and develop great relationships with your family.</strong><br />
<strong>5. Attract Your Ideal Partner and teach you techniques that can help you date successfully and deepen intimacy with your loved one.</strong><br />
<strong>6. Improve Your Finances by teaching you proven techniques, implement processes, and develop products that sell and resolve most amount of problems for people, and help you maximize your money power.</strong><br />
<strong>7. Chose, Improve, and Change Your Career: Gain clarity, develop your professional life, get promoted, and be in the job that is aligned to your highest values.</strong><br />
<strong>8. Attain work-life balance so that you can focus your time on areas of your life that you want to develop and enjoy more. </strong><br />
<strong>9. Build Your Social Skills, Confidence, and use the time and the energy required to do activities you always wanted to do. </strong><br />
<strong>10. Attain Perfect Health: Address areas in life that have an impact on your health </strong><br />
<strong>11. Change Your Physical Environment and assist you to get clear on the steps you need to make towards creating your ideal home.</strong><br />
<strong>12. Start, grow, and accelerate your business. Write a book, create products and services to sell, improve team dynamics,sales processes and the overall organizational well-being.</strong></p>
<p>I trust the above has given you the clarity what I as your See-Through Coach can do for you. If you are ready to re-engineer your life, then get in touch asap as I love nothing more than to shine light on your ideas that would normally be brushed aside.</p>
<p>Investing in coaching and mentoring with some of the world best expert is what helped me develop the capabilities of high-potential performers, travel around the world speaking, coaching and mentoring business owners, executives, leaders, celebrities, and professionals from all market sectors.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s your turn&#8230;My TJS Integrated Clarity Coaching was designed to help you get the certainty you need to go from where you are to where you want to be.</p>
<p>Love and Wisdom,</p>
<p>The See-Through Coach</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[Many of you reading this article may know my story… In 27 years I went from living homeless on the streets of London feeling depressed, anxious, lost, lonely, and rejected to climbing the corporate ladder, running multimillion/billion IT programs, being made redundant, and becoming successful entrepreneur, coach, author, and speaker who grew his business so  [...]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[Tony J. Selimi <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/spiritual-intelligence-the-the-art-of-attracting-opportunities/">Spiritual Intelligence- The The Art of Attracting Opportunities</a> <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/author/admin/">Tony J. Selimi</a><p>Many of you reading this article may know my story…</p>
<p>In 27 years I went from living homeless on the streets of London feeling depressed, anxious, lost, lonely, and rejected to climbing the corporate ladder, running multimillion/billion IT programs, being made redundant, and becoming successful entrepreneur, coach, author, and speaker who grew his business so dramatically it’s still hard to believe sometimes.</p>
<p>I went from serving a small number of private clients to serving a network of change makers, writing two books that became No:1 Amazon best sellers, and recently featuring in a ground breaking real life coaching documentary titled Living My Illusion. With my books, speaking, TV and Radio interviews as well as through this documentary I am now reaching out to people from almost every country on earth. Isn&#8217;t that incredible?</p>
<p>Three things that made the biggest difference&#8230;</p>
<p>Becoming a Key Person of Influence, creating Joint Ventures (JV), and consistently create products and services that resolve meaningful problems for people and business owners.</p>
<p>That’s why I’m so enthusiastic about recommending this strategy and spiritual intelligence path for you.</p>
<p>And it’s why I’m so enthusiastic about encouraging you to invest in you, as it is this investment in me that led to creating and attracting opportunities the results that I now enjoy having in my life.</p>
<p>As far as I know, TJS Evolutionary Method® is the most highly effective and comprehensive method that you can use to maximise your human potential, become a magnet for opportunites, and create JV that bring into existence your unique product and service.</p>
<p>No matter what niche you serve, you’ll find that building spiritual intelligence not only will help you remain balanced in all of the key areas of life, but also it will draw to you your ideal partners you wish to connect, collaborate, and co-create.</p>
<p>It is my twenty-seven years of overcoming life’s greatest adversity, learning from some of the best spiritual teachers, and consistently thrive to learn more that brought to fruition the two books that opened up the doors to many JV&#8217;s. The one I love most is with <a href="http://vandercom.co.uk/">the founders of Vandercom</a>, a telecommunication and IT service provider company, who invested in co-creating <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tcxiXEAFFNM">Living My Illusion</a> Documentary Series.</p>
<p>The kind of spiritual intelligence that my clients gain through reading my books, working with me privately on one to one and one to many basis is not the one where you escape to silent retreats, take ayahuasca, or other drugs that make you hallucinate, it is one that helps you activate your most precious asset-YOU.</p>
<p>Here are three things you can do to help you attract what you want in your life by investing in you spiritual intelligence journey:</p>
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<li><strong>Stay away from any form of drugs.</strong> You have all the faculties required for you to create spiritual experiences naturally with no side effects. Whilst shortcuts may be very tempting, it also can create ireversible brain damage that I have seen in many people who use drugs as ways to grow spiritually.</li>
<li><strong>Daily adopt one action that activates your ability to love.</strong> Gratitude is one of the many keys that opens your heart’s wisdom. Use it daily to be grateful for the things you have and don’t have in your life. Most people use gratitude for the things they have, in my experience to embrace the wholeness of life and be in sync with the laws of nature, it is essential to say thank you and I love you to both, the things we have and the things we don’t.</li>
<li><strong>Create win-win joint ventures with people who believe in you</strong>, in your work, vision, and prefereably are already your clients who are doing your work. It is this that helped me create trustworthy joint ventures and partnerships with many of my clients from various sectors, markets, and industries.</li>
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<p>To <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/accelerate-your-success-in-5-easy-steps/">accelerate your results and successfully</a> use these three points shared, hire a coach or a mentor who can help you get to where you want to be and with whom you wish to do JV&#8217;s.</p>
<p>As my vision expanded to reach one billion people, I hired a mentor who already is doing that and I partnered up with many people who love what I do. In doing so you not only going to open the doors to new opportunities and partnerships, but also meet amazing people through their network of clients.</p>
<p>I introduce all of my elite coaching clients to one another, because they are all growing inside out, they tend to get along extremly well as they share common values and end up forging great JV&#8217;s with one another. I also love to take them with me to amazing places to expose them to various learning environments where they can practice the effectiveness of the twenty-five conscious engineering steps of the TJS Evolutionary Method®, meet new people, and use spiritual intelligence to <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/events/master-class-learn-the-most-potent-secret-for-growing-6-9-figure-businesses/">grow their business</a> and enrich their lives.</p>
<p>If you want to be part of something bigger, then reach out to people, connect with them, and keep learning and investing in you. To get the same transformation my clients have when they started their journey with me, create joint ventures with inspired thought leaders, and evolve your soul, I invite you to book a private consultation with me and see what I can do to help you grow every area of your <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/theartofcreatingyourdreamlife/">life and create</a> JV that bring mutual growth, success, and connection.</p>
<p>My yearly coaching programms are customised to help you gain spiritual intelligence, life and business skills, and the wisdom required to <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/vital-planning-retreat/">build a gobal business</a> and JV&#8217;s that help you reach as many people as possible with your important work.</p>
<p>To start your journey, please do get in touch with Alma by e-mailing  info@tonyselimi.com to learn how to activate your human potential, attract the perfect clients for you, and <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/theartofcreatingyourdreamlife/">create the dream life</a> that I now live and you deep down you know you deserve.</p>The post <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/spiritual-intelligence-the-the-art-of-attracting-opportunities/">Spiritual Intelligence- The The Art of Attracting Opportunities</a> first appeared on <a href="https://tonyselimi.com">Tony J. Selimi</a>.]]></content:encoded>
					
		
		
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					<description><![CDATA[More than ever the world needs emotionally intelligent, humanity focused, and heart awakened women leaders that play an important role in the evolution of human consciousness and in the direction the world we all share is taking. With Brexit, Syrian refugee crisis, and the rise of unprecedented extremism, nationalism, fascism, phobias, antisemitism, islamophobia, etc, it  [...]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[Tony J. Selimi <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/women-the-new-james-bond-of-our-modern-times/">Women, The New James Bond of Our Modern Times</a> <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/author/admin/">Tony J. Selimi</a><p>More than ever the world needs emotionally intelligent, humanity focused, and heart awakened women leaders that play an important role in the evolution of human consciousness and in the direction the world we all share is taking.</p>
<p>With Brexit, Syrian refugee crisis, and the rise of unprecedented extremism, nationalism, fascism, phobias, antisemitism, islamophobia, etc, it is essential to have conscious women leaders who like James Bond, can overcome the toughest challenges presented to them and from the ashes rise triumphantly like a phoenix.</p>
<p>Many of us grew up with super heroes like James Bond, Captain America, Jean Luke Pickard, Superman, Wonder woman, Madonna, Lady Gaga, and Oprah being our hero’s that we aspire to become.</p>
<p>The time has come for us all to do our part and awaken the hero within, to take action, be engaged, and have our say in the global crisis that in one form or another impacts every human being.</p>
<p>I grew up in the ghettos of a small town called Gostivar in western Macedonia at times where daily I saw women being abused, judged, and had very little human rights. As I started to travel around the world, I realized, just like my mother, sisters, cousins, and other women I knew back at home, millions of women continue to be treated badly.</p>
<p>As a kid, I knew I was different, I felt the pain, the judgment, and the loneliness and the abuse that my mother and other women endured. Ever since I wanted to do something about it, this feeling to help women globally followed me through my entire life, and it is what also inspired me to be who I am today and in my latest <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/events/book-writing-retreat-lets-do-it-in-italy/">book write</a> about a global problem we all share-loneliness.</p>
<p>In my latest book #Loneliness-The Virus of The Modern Age, I share about the extraordinary work that mother Theresa did around the world. I also share what is at the source of the chaos, the storms, and the segregation we experience worldwide in an era that is technologically advanced yet makes us extremly lonely in our hearts.</p>
<p>To address the global problems such as famine, inequality, job losses, war, climate change, sustainability, etc, I believe more conscious women are required in order for humanity to find the <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/social-cognition-the-solution-to-global-problems/">solutions to the global problems</a> that are on the rise.</p>
<p>Women have an important role in building a more just, equal, and harmonious society, and in directing the course of the planet we all live, share, and call home.</p>
<p>My mother, together with my dad, fought for educating, empowering, and supporting my sisters to be free of religious and political dogmas that imprisoned women, treated them as non-equals, and enslaved them. Today, I continue to support their mission by carry this torch of light that my parent ignited in me.</p>
<p>Through my day to day coaching, healing, consulting, and speaking engagements I assist many amazing women from all professions and background to step up into their true power, their hearts intelligence, and assist them create, build, and <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/events/master-class-learn-the-most-potent-secret-for-growing-6-9-figure-businesses/">grow iconic businesses,</a> products, and most of all an inner wisdom required to be conscious, healthy and wealthy leaders.</p>
<p>As openly gay man, I know from first-hand experience what it feels like to be different, to not fit the box that someone else created for you, and to not conform to societal expectations.</p>
<p>Millions of women around the world still continue to endure mental, physical, emotional and sexual abuse. If we are to change the course of the future that we all want, then we all need to do our part in assisting women grow into beautiful goddesses who with their wings of love, compassion, and understanding can embrace the darkness experienced globally and turn it into light that shine&#8217;s humanity&#8217;s path to a better future.</p>
<p>If you have read #Loneliness, you will know how throughout my life I, you, and many people who I have met on my path at some point in our lives we all felt the pain of being rejected, abandoned, and alone in a world where we come to express our true magnificent being that is infinite in our abilites to <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/theartofcreatingyourdreamlife/">create and destroy life</a>.</p>
<p>Throughout my life, starting from my mum, sisters, friends, work colleagues, teachers, healers, and many amazing women who crossed my path, they have helped on my journey to better myself and become who I am today.</p>
<p>Some of them are being nominated for the “Global Woman of the Year Award 2017” organised by Mirela Sula who founded Migrant and Global Women with a mission which aims to address the following questions:</p>
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<p>Mirela, with her mission and the vision for Global Woman is the James Bond of our modern time. She is the wonderwoman who helps women globally step into their true power.</p>
<p>As a supporter of women, Todor and I are joining Mirela and many amazing women for this once a year event that honours the extraordinary work women do at the Global Women Magazine grand gala dinner on the 25th March 2017 where they will present the awards for the best cover stories and the ultimate “Global Women of the Year”.</p>
<p>Reading this article you know that you are an agent for change, love, peace, and equality. Make sure you take this opportunity and once a eyar chance to show your support and meet some extraordinary women in a relaxed, fun, and celebratory environment.</p>
<p>I understand only a number of tickets are available, grab yours asap by clicking HERE!</p>
<p>As a thank you for supporting women, all of you who have read this article, sign up to my news letter, shared it and bought a ticket to attend this celebratory event get in touch with my PA Alma at info@tonyselimi.com to receive a Voucher to download a FREE copy of my five times Award-winning Audio Book of #Loneliness worth $35!</p>
<p>Love and Wisdom,</p>
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<p>If you are ready to <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/accelerate-your-success-in-5-easy-steps/">step into your true power and become a successful,</a> inspired, and conscious leader, then get in touch to book a two hour clarity coaching consultation and find out what I and the TJS Evolutionary Method® that I use daily to help 6-9 figure business owners resolve problems and create quantum jumps can do for you so that you have an epic 2017 and beyond by learning to accelerate your personal, professional and business growth.</p>The post <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/women-the-new-james-bond-of-our-modern-times/">Women, The New James Bond of Our Modern Times</a> first appeared on <a href="https://tonyselimi.com">Tony J. Selimi</a>.]]></content:encoded>
					
		
		
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					<description><![CDATA[In pursuit of happiness, success, and wealth you will stumble across many challenges that will either paralyze you or inspire you to take action. Which one applies to you depends on your ability to safely navigate through an ocean of emotions, thoughts, beliefs, and injected values that you have been exposed since a very young  [...]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[Tony J. Selimi <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/the-five-step-formula-for-unprecedented-success/">The Five Step Formula for Unprecedented Success  </a> <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/author/admin/">Tony J. Selimi</a><p>In pursuit of happiness, success, and wealth you will stumble across many challenges that will either paralyze you or inspire you to take action. Which one applies to you depends on your ability to safely navigate through an ocean of emotions, thoughts, beliefs, and injected values that you have been exposed since a very young age.</p>
<p>It is no secret that we live in a world that is technologically advanced, economically challenging, and mentally draining. We are consumed by fears, worries, and troubles of life that push us in various directions without us having the time to realize how much we have missed out on life.</p>
<p>In this dynamic way of living our lives we often forget the true power that lives within each one of us. Each human being is equipped with the ability to gain the wisdom that can <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/events/turn-adversity-into-nectar-for-prosperity/">turn their life’s greatest adversity</a> into opportunities and massive breakthroughs.</p>
<p>On this journey to learn from some of the greatest minds of our time, I concluded that what really matters to us all is directly correlated with how happy, successful, and content we are inside.</p>
<p>So, to understand these three key human needs I spent the last twenty five years researching, learning, and writing about my findings. It is the many personal life challenges that put me on the path I am today, what inspired me to <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/events/book-writing-retreat-lets-do-it-in-italy/">write two best-selling books,</a> what lead to being endorsed by Dr John Demartini, and being interviewed by legendary Brian Tracy and Jack Canfield, the author of Chicken Soup for the Soul and The success principles.</p>
<p>Before you continue reading the rest of this article take a moment and answer this important question:</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Why is it important for you to pursue a <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/five-vital-steps-successful-people-use-to-help-master-your-life/">life that brings you the success</a>, health and wealth that you deserve? </strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Truth is anyone with a grain for grey matter understands that for us to be able to pay the ever increasing rents, soaring education and medical costs, and cope with the demands of our daily lives we need to find ways to generate wealth at times where globally the salaries and the standard of living are dropping.</p>
<p>In simple words, you are working more and more for less and less. This is not the life you came to <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/find-your-bliss-and-live-your-dreams/">live nor is the American dream</a> you may think it is. If you look at what is happening globally, you will come to understand it is more in line with one of the worst scenes from a very scary movie.</p>
<p>If you are reading this you are either a curious soul, on your way to creating the success you are seeking, or created the wealth and are ready for the next steps in your journey to create an unprecedented success in all of the eight key areas of life.</p>
<p>Whatever your reason may be, here are the Five Vital Steps of the TJS Formula I use with thousands of clients from all sectors, markets and professions to help them <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/creating-success-for-2014/">create unprecedented success</a>, achieve perfect health, and create more wealth in their life.</p>
<p>The same <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/five-vital-steps-to-accelerate-your-success-in-2017/">five steps</a> are also what I used in my own personal life to become an expert in my field, travel the world, coach ealite clients, meet interesting people, resolve business problems, and internationally be known as The See-Through Coach who within five years went from zero to building a seven figure coaching, speaking and consulting business.</p>
<p>If you are an entrepreneur, business owner, coach, author, healer, or someone who loves to grow, then you may choose to adopt this <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/the-five-step-formula-for-unprecedented-success/">formula to create the success</a>, credibility, and the lifestyle you want.</p>
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<p><strong>Clarity + Consistency + Commitment + Credibility + Collaboration = TJS Success Formula</strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Success means different things to different people, whatever it may be for you, use this five step formula in your day to day life to gain the clarity you require. Become consistent in your actions that are required to enhance all of the eight key areas of life.</p>
<p>It is your commitment to learn, grow, and educate your mind that will lead to your credibility and for many people to want to collaborate with you. Using TJS Formula on a daily basis will help you build the credibility required to be known as the expert in your field who goes out in the world and makes a major difference.</p>
<p>Using TJS Success Formula consistently you too can gain the clarity required to step into your greatness, by investing in your education, professional training and personal development you will build the credibility required to build a successful lifestyle business that many of my clients have today, and through collaboration with people who are in sync with your values you too can reach new heights.</p>
<p>Investment in time, energy and money in my personal development is what helped me create TJS Success Formula and reach new heights I never imagined I could.</p>
<p>In the process I overcame many of my personal and business challenges that I share in more detail in my #1Amazon best-selling books A Path to Wisdom and #Loneliness to help others <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/creating-success-for-2014/">create the success</a> they require, achive the balance that is neccessary to build a legacy.<br />
One of my mentors and teachers that consistently I have been learning from is <a href="https://drdemartini.com/">Dr John Demartini</a>, international best-selling author who’s wisdom, guidance, and support have been paramount in helping me acknowledge my truth, free my soul, and expand my vision.</p>
<p>The more I learned about who I truly am, the more I became of service to ever increasing number of people, and the more people started to invite me to take an expert role on a global speaking stage.</p>
<p>All my life I have consistently spent 10% to 20% of my income in my personal and professional development. I also worked with some of the greatest healers around the world and attended seminars designed to help me <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/vital-planning-retreat/">build a global business</a>.</p>
<p>I used TJS Success Formula to create my own unique IP that I share in both of my award-winning books A Path to Wisdom and #Loneliness. I also use it when I <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/creating-success-for-2014/">create partnerships with other successful</a> individuals such as Joel and Timea Van der Molen, the owners of Vandercom, a leading telecommunication and IT service provider company, Nick Nanton from Celebrity branding, and many other world renowned figures such as Steve Harrison and Jack Canfield.</p>
<p>TJS Success formula is just one of the many formulas that are hidden in the twenty <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/five-principles-that-elevate-your-being/">five principles</a> of TJS Evolutionary Method-ALARM®.</p>
<p>Use the above to propel you on your journey to <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/creating-success-for-2014/">creating unprecedented success</a>, heal your body mind, and increase your capacity to receive by serving more people in the world.</p>
<p>And if you are someone who loves to be the one percenter, is ready to accelerate their human potential, and on a mission to achieve unprecedented success and wealth then pm to book your two hour initial consultation.</p>
<p>Using my unique approach I have helped many people reach a flow state that helped them create The Most Amazing Life Possible.</p>
<p>To your joy, health, and greatness,</p>
<p>Tony Jeton Selimi</p>
<p>P.S. Even when it is cloudy the sun shines every day, so can you. Get up and shine!</p>The post <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/the-five-step-formula-for-unprecedented-success/">The Five Step Formula for Unprecedented Success  </a> first appeared on <a href="https://tonyselimi.com">Tony J. Selimi</a>.]]></content:encoded>
					
		
		
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					<description><![CDATA[No matter how each one of us feels, no matter what we do or not do, the truth is every time we look up, we see the sun, the moon, the sky, and an infinite universe filled with stars that at night come alive and shine their light equally on us all. What could be possible  [...]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[Tony J. Selimi <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/making-a-dent-in-the-universe/">From Homeless to being Interviewed on ABC, NBC, Fox, CBS, and Making a Dent in the Universe</a> <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/author/admin/">Tony J. Selimi</a><p>No matter how each one of us feels, no matter what we do or not do, the truth is every time we look up, we see the sun, the moon, the sky, and an infinite universe filled with stars that at night come alive and shine their light equally on us all. What could be possible if each one of us comes out of our cocoon and just like stars, every day we shine our love and light? What would change in your life if right now you decided to make a Dent in the universe?</p>
<p>What if, just like I did, you too can find a way to activate your inner genius, become focused, and connect with the right people that can help you on your journey. I trust what you are about to read is going to inspire you into action so that you reach for your star, create a clear vision, and take the steps required to help you deliver your highest vision and make a dent in the universe.</p>
<p>So how did a homeless man who twenty-six years ago fled the atrocities of civil war, could not speak English, had no money, no family or friends to turn too ended up on a British Airways Business Class to San Diego, staying at Hard Rock Hotel in a King Suite room, being interviewed by legendary <a href="http://www.briantracy.com">Brian Tracey</a>, connect with <a href="http://www.celebritybrandingyou.com">Nick Nanton</a> from Celebrity Branding You, and appear on ABC, NBC, Fox, and CBS discussing about my work, award-winning books, and real life coaching documentaries created in partnership with the founders of <a href="http://www.vandercom.co.uk">Vandercom</a>, Joel Van der Molen and Timea Van der Molen. Some of you may be wondering how did I go about creating a concourse of wisdom which is helping people access, activate, and accelerate their human and business potential.</p>
<p>Others may be thinking how did I attract clients from all professions, sectors, and markets including Dr Emanuele Garbelli with whom we are on a mission to transform healthcare globally, Philip Carvil, a space physiology scientist on a mission to create product and services for safe travel to space, and Paul McMonagle on a mission to help people globally heal their OCD and support them on their journey to <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/events/from-emotional-rhapsody-to-perfect-health/">perfect health</a>? Pretty impressive, wouldn’t you agree?</p>
<p>For many people what I just shared sounds mission impossible, but for me, like a phoenix, I chose to rise triumphantly from the ashes of my misery, loneliness, and emotional pain and become Human Behaviour expert known internationally as The See-Through Coach who loves inspiring others find solutions to global problems that mankind is facing now and in the not far distant future.</p>
<p>Looking back at my life, I now see with clarity how the pain, the adversities, and the isolation I experienced were what shaped me to daily strive to become a better person, to help others heal, and on this path to learn how both pain and pleasure in equal measure were what helped me focus, create and deliver a vision that is now making a Dent in the universe.</p>
<p>In 2009, my life took a very different turn, without much of a warning I was subjected to corporate backstabbing games that led me feeling stressed, emotionally weak, and destabilised my entire life. I was surprised to learn that I was far from alone on this journey; it seems that many people up and down the country faced redundancy and unfair dismissals that triggered various fears, mental and <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/events/from-emotional-rhapsody-to-perfect-health/">emotional health</a> related issues, as well as stress-related problems in their personal, professional, and business life.</p>
<p>I started to isolate myself by avoiding seeing friends and family because I didn’t want them to know; I was ashamed, fearful, and became insecure of my worth I knew I had inside. Luckily, I am not one to dwell in this kind of state. I quickly began searching for solutions, I spent a great deal of time evaluating different online programs, I bought The Sylva Method, Hands of Light, Sedona Method, and started to attend talks, seminars and <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/hire-a-coach/">hired few healers and coaches</a> to help me get out of this state.</p>
<p>Each time I passed through Piccadilly, Leicester-square, and Charing Cross Road I found myself in Waterstones, Watkins Spiritual bookshop, and Foyles. I bought and started to read two to four books a week. All of this helped a little, but I was still a long way from that light at the end of the tunnel. If losing the job I loved wasn’t bad enough, I also experienced a major breakdown and had identity crisis that lead me to give power to the voices of my injected values, beliefs, and the unmet expectations of others. Over the months that followed, I studied Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT), Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) and became qualified Transformational Life Coach.</p>
<p>I then signed up to attend a nine-month entrepreneurial program called “How to become a Key Person of Influence (KPI).” During these nine months, I met so many entrepreneurs on a similar journey to me. I focused my time, energy and money to work with a coach, attend Dr John Demartini’s talks and seminars, and <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/events/master-class-learn-the-most-potent-secret-for-growing-6-9-figure-businesses/">learn how to apply to my business</a> the five simple steps of the KPI Method that Daniel Priestly, the founder of KPI, uses to help entrepreneurs become a key person of influence.</p>
<p>During this nine-month program I learned how to perfect my pitch, create coaching products full of value, built an international profile, create TJS Evolutionary Method, publish my unique IP, and partner up with others to take this unique work ad make a Dent in the universe by reaching, educating, healing, and touching the hearts of one billion people.</p>
<p>Within months of publishing my book A Path to Wisdom, it reached Amazon Number One Best-selling list in Personal Development Category ahead of many global teachers like Louise Hay, Anthony Robbins, and many other respected figures in the personal, professional, business and spiritual development industry. I just kept re-investing everything I was earning from my coaching clients, healing sessions, and <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/product/clarity-coaching-consultation/">business consulting</a> in my personal, professional, and business development. Working with Dr John Demartini helped me clarify my vision, mission, and purpose and be paid my worth.</p>
<p>The more integrated I became inside, the more I started to attract the right clients, opportunities and partnerships to help me deliver the fruits that many of my clients were experiencing to a global audience. The more clients I coached, the more I activated my inner genius and the bigger my vision became. Supporting so many clients resolve their personal, professional and business problems as well as from personal experience I felt called to write about loneliness. A <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/social-cognition-the-solution-to-global-problems/">global problem</a> that is not going away, but instead it is increasing exponentially through the power of the internet and social media.</p>
<p>The desire to help people breakthrough their loneliness, find solutions to their mental, physical, <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/events/from-emotional-rhapsody-to-perfect-health/">emotional related health</a> problems as well as relationship, business, financial and self-love issues, is what inspired me to focus my time, energy, and money to create a powerful five-step method that when applied daily it helps them find the switch that activates their inner light, healing power and infinite wisdom of love. so that they can live more fulfilling, connected, and purposeful lives</p>
<p>We are so connected technologically, yet feel very alone in our hearts, this is a growing problem, we are symbiotic by design, our survival depends on our connection and collaboration with each other. Knowing this I started to think about a solution to the segregation we experience worldwide that people can use daily to live more fulfilling, connected, and purposeful lives. It is this dream to connect people in ways</p>
<p>It is this dream to connect people in ways that help them create heart, mind and soul coherence that inspired me to <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/events/book-writing-retreat-lets-do-it-in-italy/">write another book</a>. It is this thirst for being of service to humanity that gave birth to another international award-winning book#Loneliness – The Virus of The Modern Age. I spend six months researching the subject of loneliness.</p>
<p>I learnt how loneliness impacts our genes, weakens our immune system, and is the root cause of the separation we experience globally. Using my trademarked methodology in human development, the TJS Evolutionary Method® (TJS Method) alongside TJS Meditation Solutions, the TJS Value Alignment, as well as Vital Planning for Elevated Living Five Day Seminar to help more clients achieve results I started to <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/spiritual-intelligence-the-the-art-of-attracting-opportunities/">attract better clients and far greater opportunities</a> that I ever thought possible.</p>
<p>It is this vision to <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/theartofcreatingyourdreamlife/">create life</a> manual to reach, educate, and inspire one billion people to live more fulfilling, connected, and purposeful lives that gave birth to my next book #Loneliness – The Virus of The Modern Age. I spent six months researching the subject of loneliness. I learnt how loneliness impacts our genes, weakens our immune system, and is the root cause of the separation we experience globally. Using my trademarked methodology in human development, the TJS Evolutionary Method® (TJS Method) alongside TJS Meditation Solutions, the TJS Value Alignment, as well as Vital Planning for Elevated Living Five Day Seminar to help more clients achieve results I started to <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/spiritual-intelligence-the-the-art-of-attracting-opportunities/">attract better clients and far greater opportunities</a> that I ever thought possible.</p>
<p>This lead to taking my business and my life to a whole new level, one that lead me to Nick Nanton, Brian Tracey, and with their support appear on ABC, NBC, Fox, and CBS TV channels to reach more people and make a Dent in the Universe. Here are Five Vital Steps to help you on your journey to unleash your value, create a business and products that solve global problems, and in turn support you on your journey to making a Dent in the universe.</p>
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<li><strong>Acknowledge Your Worth. What I mean by that is get clear on who you are, what is your credibility, and what value you do you have that the world needs.</strong></li>
<li><strong>Love the unlovable. Many of you reject things that are not loving to you, true master sees the balance in everything you experience, the good and the bad. Learn to see the other side of everything that you currently may perceive as unlovable.</strong></li>
<li><strong>Achieve inner equilibrium. Your physiology will thank you for balancing your skewed perception, the more balanced you feel within, the more you become in your outer world.</strong></li>
<li><strong>Results you want are your creation. Whatever the challenge may be, remember to get the results you want you must commit your time, love and energy. Make sure you know it is your responsibility to create the happiness you deserve.</strong></li>
<li><strong>A miracle is what you are by design, learn to activate, accelerate and advance this wisdom that is within you to create the miracles you desire in your life. Start by having a great conversation with your higher self. Go into the future, find the man you have become, and let him write a letter to your current self on how you went about in making a Dent in the universe.</strong></li>
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<p>Apply these <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/five-vital-steps-to-accelerate-your-success-in-2017/">five vital steps</a> of the TJS Evolutionary Method on a daily basis, they will awaken your purpose, wisdom, and hearts intelligence. If what you have read rings true to your heart, then please make sure you leave your comments below and let me and my subscribers know your inspirational story. Don’t forget to start reading and learning the method and the steps shared in my books and to sign up to receive my inspirational newsletter packed with food for the mind and heart, follow me on twitter, fb public page, Instagram, and connect with me on LinkedIn.</p>
<p>You may also choose to start your coaching journey with me, if so, my recommendation is to book a two hour of clarity coaching consultation during which we will identify what you need to do in order for you to get clear on the next steps you need to make to shine your light and make a dent in the universe.</p>
<p>In the next blog, I am going to share what happens next as I go through the Celebrity Branding Experience with Nick, Brian, his team of expertise at the Hard Rock Hotel in San Diego, and the live interview with Brian Tracey.</p>
<p>Finally, thank you for stopping by, being a valued subscriber, a reader of my books, and a fan, valued client, and most importantly a fellow light friend, on this short life journey.</p>
<p>Love and wisdom</p>
<p>Tony J. Selimi</p>The post <a href="https://tonyselimi.com/making-a-dent-in-the-universe/">From Homeless to being Interviewed on ABC, NBC, Fox, CBS, and Making a Dent in the Universe</a> first appeared on <a href="https://tonyselimi.com">Tony J. Selimi</a>.]]></content:encoded>
					
		
		
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